Transvestite show... only with quality!

Yesterday was in Mister Gay, a home for gays and beyond, in fact I had the pleasure of doing follow (apart from my lovely) from a group of friends (heteros), and for those who do not know, this house promotes a show of Into every evening gatherings (Friday and Saturday). Yesterday saw the show there and unfortunately I was negatively surprised ... I am not a fan of shows such as this, but as anyone can judge and criticize, and sometimes even love ... The Patricia Russell, the current responsibility of the show itself and one of the participants in the show, the entire cast of these ... She is really good at, which is assuming a position of professional and quality unlike in most other participants in the show! For the others, it would be great that they could see in the video for his figure might well take account of ridicule of their performances. Patricia strength and get another team! :)

In a locker room of a gym ...

Now that I restart in the gym were several situations that do not even know if they deserve to be mentioned, but it occurred when I did and I think for a moment longer inhibited ... It will not be secret to anyone say that a gay bathhouse is like a fish in water ... Nobody like us can enjoy both of changing clothes in the locker room and take banhoca of men ... However there are some situations that arise and that may become inhibitory .. I speak for example in my case have cut back (not rapado) púbicos the hair and the truth is that most men do not do it ... I was thinking about it when I see would immediately deduce that it was gay ... Dumb? Maybe ... Get someone else was known that I think know I am gay, so far everything normal ... But in his head which would have thought when he saw me there? Maybe not give, or they may have thought anything of the kind "Let me go hide this guy, I do not go jump it up ..." or something else such as "This should be in the clouds ..."... I do not know, maybe it makes sense to think this sort of thing but the truth is that at that moment the thought ...

Pleasure in an anal penetration

Asked me that even my brother, hetero, spontaneous and curiously: "But that can be pleasured in a relationship with a man?" I think he was referring to the relationship obviously anal ... I answer with another question "How do people feel such pleasure when we move the tongue behind the orelhinha ?"... It is natural, are erogenous points that may be more or less, depending on the sensitivity of each ... In the case of an anal, in addition to feel pleasure, and so it can feel experiencing, there is also a physical component that may explain some of the pleasure sense ... In his own body's internal penis, the most inner portion where he falls in the abdominal cavity money is stimulated in a relationship anal, something impossible to happen without penetration ... Truth truth is, if you feel happy ... And much ... And women care, when you ask your man to put the finger in their anus and because he already tried ... Ehehhe:)

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 10)

It was then decided that it would have to tell my parents of the existence of the "beautiful", perhaps sooner than thought ... It was followed by a time so calm, with no major revelations ... I continued to tell friends and friends should understand that count, I continued to receive normal reactions (ie, accepted naturally), and the days, months went by ... However, in a beautiful the weekend came a complicated situation and predictable, my parents decided to come spend the weekend in my house ... The "beautiful" would be off this very weekend, and obviously did not want to waste that time without him ... It was then that I took another position, which gave a step further, denying the call of my godmother for a dinner with the whole family ... Obviously the invitation does not include the "beautiful" ... Questioned by my mother about my presence in that dinner, answered him: "Do not I go ... I will stay with the _____ you pretend does not exist. Everyone knows that I have someone by my side, and he deserves your respect. For that I will stay with him and I will not dine ..."... My mother was quiet, did not expect this reaction and replied: "... Okay, you know ... And there can always be at your house?", It said "Sure!". She continued: "Okay, then stayed in your house, but tell me something, the _______ will be there ?"... Of course I like answering something like "Yes, of course, I will submit it to you ...!", but unfortunately things are not so, and then answered" No, it will be ... I do not want you forcing him to know, just want the respect and know that I have someone .. ". I think at that moment she was more relieved, and continued saying "Okay, now there is only one more thing, your father does not want to sleep in your room, sleep in the office, you can be?". How should imagine I was surprised by this attitude, but the least of evil, that I was equal me sleep in a place or the other, but I think that the thinking of my father when looking at my bed ... Then came the day dinner (Saturday), and I had already decided what they would do ... (Continued)

Freedom Day ... Restricted!

Today is day of celebration of Freedom Day in Portugal, on April 25 ... Make today thirty years now, a series of brave and did Not that much has already should have done in our country: the Revolution! Made the revolution, managed a few liberties: the right of every citizen to vote, freedom of speech, democratic system, etc, etc ... However, past thirty years, there are some liberties that have not yet been achieved, such as the right to abortion, the right to health services with quality, the right of each is able to take as ... I know we all can and should take just as we are lesbian, gay, transgender and then later? On the day when the company where I worked three years, and mistakenly received an email from the Director of my company where Evita said :"... be as lard endedor the snake style and the adjectives "unthinkable", "extreme" ... unthinkable only be queer and extrama only the anointing ... ", I understand how that could be harmful to come to know that I was gay ... Finally, in some respects the freedom in our country, remains something virtual .. The right to be prórpios us is often denied to us (and I speak not only of the problems of gay ...), and the fund is one of the things that makes us or you can leave happier with life and with others .. . Even so, "Long live the April 25!"

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 9)

Well ... Things have calmed down day by day, with my father to drop by land intend to take me to the doctor for me to "cure" my illness ... My mother started internally to "swallow" little by little the idea ... It is this apparent calm that comes with my beautiful new data for this story, trying to push me to tell my parents right away that he was there, and also pressing me to stop making regular family visits, being doing to let it "normally" in a corner ... For me it was obvious that was not what was happening, I wanted to tell anything much to my parents, but I thought that this process needs time and calm ... I refuse to count, and reduce my visits to the land, not to leave the beautiful so often alone and let him think that was by the side of ... But even so beautiful I wanted more, wanted me to the accounts to avoid having to "hide in the closet" ... On the one hand I understand his insecurity and his feeling, but I decided to take things as I thought it should be done ... But the increasing pressure cute ...

Girls, we and & sex

Although little talked about sex in this blog, and after all sex is no shadow of doubt one of the key components for a healthy relationship from continuing ... I always thought that we men in general are more sexual beings that women ... The sex, positions, innovation, freedom, demand, the exploitation is much sought by us that they ... Venture to say that most women do not completely satisfy your partner! But strange, because it is actually a most unusual woman complains of not taking full advantage of the sexual act instead of man ... So as we are? We like them and claim that we are not capable? I do not know how, because the few relationships with women who had not reached that point, but it seems to me that men are afraid of is completely free with your partner ... They did it with the lovers, the whores, prostitutes, but with their women do not or are likely to ask it, or respect, or ashamed ... In many of these cases means that many men seek other men, as it is known that we in our hearts we are one "crazy Ganda" (over them) ... Some evidence and do not want something else and take, others do not want to become something else but will not take and thus deceiving their partner, and few are those who do not like and continue with their normal heterosexual relationship ... Never were your friends with some who say "suck your dick? What horror, I do not think I can do that!!!". But this kind of statement to get across a hot guy, because the oral sex practices that is perhaps most pleased to man ... Obviously I am speaking in general, in regulation, surely there will be exceptions that confirm this rule ... Even I at certain times, before I assume, thought I was just looking for men to find a woman that I never would satisfy the sexual level (no longer think it ...), and that the alternative would be to find the "Ganda crazy" ... I do not know if I did understand .. I hope so ...

Love changes people ...

Today is the day of Easter and here I am to write an article, with a beautiful day out there and with so many things to do outside those four walls ... But the truth is that this year, and perhaps for the first time in my life I decided to stay away from celebrations, the friends and family to stay with the person I love ... Some of you think: "There is more than the requirement ...", as if the fact of loving someone forces us to something ... But no, being gay limits some things in our lives, at least temporarily ... At this time I decided to tell family he was gay, and more recently, he had a "beautiful" only mine, on that day, also made a commitment to myself to leave the background for some things that I thought until then do not change ever, as For example, for being with friends and family on special occasions (like Easter ...) was always in the forefront, not only because they like but also because sometimes it was difficult to justify my absence ... And so today, the first time I am here alone because my beautiful had to go to work ... But sleep late and boyfriends (lunch break) and we have lunch by the sea ... Anyway nothing special but it becomes evident to me because it is a different side that I did not know ... Love gives us back the head, more than I ever imagined ... There are values that we should not abandon such as the love of family and by our true friends, and they hope never to lose ... The Love for "beautiful" is all this love that I feel the other person in a meeting ... Being with him I am well myself, and being good to myself I am well with others ... Not hard to understand? I think it's the love ...

HIV

Well, contrary to the idea that there is widespread in Portugal and other countries, AIDS is there and now with more focus on heterosexuals, at least in Portugal ... It showed what a study done and released a few days ago ... Here an excerpt of the article in PortugalGay.pt and leave a warning: "Condoms They exists for something! Use it!!!" "... According to the National Plan to Combat AIDS, one in every two new infections with HIV occur in sexual intercourse between man and woman, reason for the committee to focus mainly on information Portuguese. In this regard, Melica - Silvestre has already announced it will begin an investigation to one thousand Portuguese, from north to south of the country to know what in fact know about HIV / AIDS. "It is unacceptable that there are people who think that AIDS is transmitted in a handshake" , Said. The survey findings, opinions, attitudes and behaviors related to AIDS since April 2004 "will still enjoy the events Rock In Rio and Euro 2004 to disseminate information about the disease ...." in http://portugalgay.pt/news/index.asp?uid=020404B

Love or need? ...

There are already some time ago, someone my friend told me about her boyfriend: "Sometimes I have doubts, that if he loves me or if he needs from me ...". At the time gave no great importance to the issue, but then, and reflection, also has really happened to me to have this question (though not called this way) and I believe also that many people have thought the same ... When we have someone on our side that one or other reason (no matter ...) is more fragile, less secure, more dependent and therefore is "glue" to us as if we needed to breathe, let us fine with us and even with our ego up there, but there is the other side of the coin, which is that we think that maybe who's on our side, sometimes confuse the need to have cuffs at his side with the person you love is at your side ... Do not believe? ...

SOLUTION: surrogate motherhood! It is?!...

Well, when comment with my friends and they asked us if we ever have a son, obviously my answer is "YES!". However, to take me as gay and start to the current relationship was dreams that I had to close in my head ... I say "terminated" because you never know the morrow, and not enjeitado the possibility of one day going to have a child ... Some of my friends say "I thought one of bellied rental ?"... Of course, already thought, it is clear that I - who always wanted to have a child - already thought about all the possibilities, and one of them was this ... But then, and reflecting on it, I think the idea (in addition to much controversy) very difficult and morally very hard to accept ... It seems that abroad there are many who are "offers" for this type of service, but I am not going with that in my mind...

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 8)

But my cousin helped me this task, because my availability in the short term was very little to tell to my godmother ... And behold, my phone rings ... On display appeared "Godmother" ... Well, then served with jumps to the heart: "Hello godmother !"... She said .. The voice seemed very natural to me ... Invited me to go home to dinner, but I said 'Godmother, will not, it is difficult to go there ...". She, instead of understanding that the reason was my limited mobility, it (or wanted to believe) that in fact the complex was due to go new situation that emerged ... She said: "My son, do not want to leave the house to come ... We are here to support you ... You have to understand the reaction of your parents." How should imagine I was very happy and relieved and mark a lunch! ... Then enter my lindo ("lindo" is the name i call to my boyfriend, in english it means "beautifull")...

With girlfriend or wife, everything is easier ...

Do not believe? Ehehehe ... I do not think, but we have found ... After all, there will be the best way to hide homosexuality than get a girlfriend? Everything is so easy ... We can look at them, because nobody will think that I am looking for a guy with any other intention ... And we agree with the company, not run the risk of being at some time singled out as gay ... But then, the alleged girlfriends, guy, starting to feel a weight on his head ... Increasing ...

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 7)

True, the events that followed the day they decided to tell my parents, the vast majority were a pleasant surprise for me ... The truth is that my mother and my father were destroçados with novelty, and pleaded to me that they had never passed such a thing by the head, including my brother, who unlike what I expected, also never had this last chance the head ... Then came the attempts of me "cure" the disease and others to understand and accept this new reality ... My father who was tried at all costs change me, so it turned to my cousin (who did not even knew I had already counted them), with a voice that passed distress, saying she talk to me and make me change of ideas because they were not endure more ... My cousin, scared, called me immediately to find out what had really passed ... Counted ... Mark a lunch for him the transmit promenores ... Lunch ... It was the moment to say a few more people in the family, at least, my Mom can have someone to trust, with whom he could unburden and comment on the matter ... I was forced, before he had planned, tell my godmother, my sister's Mãe. .. E. .. (Continued)

Does anything change even ?!...

I do not know if already happened to you, but I from time to time arise me doubt in my mind about the words that (a) friend (a) to know that I was gay told me 'Dude, you keep for me be the same as you were before ...". I appreciate the sympathy and currently believe, because we believe it is anyway ... But then, over time, and more in relation to friends (and not so much with friends), by either attitude, real or created in our head, my head goes by that people were saying that my friend and I said that nothing would change in our relationship, after all no longer see me the same way ... And if so, how I see now? Imagine me at home dressed like a travesti, with his wrists broken, the screams made bicharoca crazy? Or that maybe, for years now, after all he went to throw to me? Or maybe imagine how it will be in bed in the room with another guy, as you can have pleasure ... I do not know what they think and even come to believe something, but I believe that is confusing to some people ... I in my case, immediately tried by my friends feel free to ask what they were to head ... I do not know ...

A trip ... A good experience ...

Hello, after some beautiful holiday in Egypt and behold me back full of desire to continue with my modest articles, which claim to be anything more that off, sharing views, questions, questions ... I went over my "beautiful" on vacation with another friend and ours, and the trip went very well ... I speak of my vacation just a reason, because we (me and my "beautiful") having been "accepted" by our traveling companions (Portuguese) so respectful, loving and very nice ... Clearly that was not written in our tests that were boyfriends, but the fact that draw together the photos, we're always glued to each other, and by chance two rings identical terms meant that most people quickly understood what our relationship ... It was very nice to see that people tried putting conversation, but in a nice way, not the kind of "let me look at these rare birds" ... That's it, I think we are going the right way ... :)

Stories of San Francisco

I had already spoken on one of my articles, stories of the San Franscisco, from Armistead Maupin, a renowned American writer. These stories, told in a very mild, by way of notes, portraying the life of a "family" - in the broadest sense of the word - just living in San Francisco on Barbary Lane ... I assume that unfortunately the literature is not something that attracts me very much, but fortunately I had the good fortune to a my uncle giving me the first two volumes, the six prefazem that the stories of San Francisco. Since I started reading I can not stop, just do it, because the publisher "Gothic" obliges me to do so ... Portugal is cast in the first 4 volumes, there are still two ... I look forward .. Believe it is worth reading these stories, they share with the reader the unity, friendship, love that unites the various characters and their stories.

Sex with 3 or more guys...

It is not news to anyone, that the gay community is much given the experience together ... Sexual experiences, which have nothing to do with love, in my opinion ... I never experienced and I am not saying that does not have that curiosity, because all the people I know (gays), most of them have already had this experience ... But I have my beautiful and I do not even pass the head share it with someone ... It is mine and mine alone, is mine to the end ... They say that many couples start for this kind of experience to provide more entertainment and its relationship ... But for me, the fact that many people together to make sex always requires more than just the delivery of the body ... Maybe not quite, but ready, I think that sex with 3 or more only when you do not have a "beautiful" on our side ...

A doubt...

This post is a doubt about what I think and I think I had not have ... I know it seems strange not know whether or not you have a question, but it is just that I feel ... This question relates to the fact that before I took as gay, I looked for other boys, friends included, and thought that all of us men, for one reason or another I would at least try sex with a man .. . I thought that any man to watch another to masturbate should be excited ... Or any man to do two other men to make sex would also be reason to excite ... In conversation with friends who were aware that I was gay, told me that no, it does not happen with them ... Not because I do not believe in them but the truth is that I think I am not convinced ...

Girls & Gays ...

Hello! On Saturday, in the course of a few recordings for a television commercial in which I was involved as actor, I with my colleagues from figuration to discuss the alleged unexplained and empathy among women and homosexuals, in connection with one of the hairdressers that will let all with the distinct feeling of being gay. Obviously listening to the conversation, focus all my attention to the actual conversation - I do not understand why, but it is still a subject that I will investigate, the fact that you are making so well with the gays ... He said one of my colleagues in one of my colleagues ... She replied: - Oh man, they are sensitive, perceive us and advise us with sincerity, unlike women for women, which is able to say that I am not a dress looks good tranches and then go buy the dress she ... He continued: - Well, I see, is like a conversation of it for her, but where it is not a she but a he ... Actually agree ... I have a case of one my friends, tell them that when he was queer, but they surprised, immediately began to tell their amorous adventures ... Felt they were more comfortable, I suppose ... And I think that also has to do with the fact that they do not feel threatened by us because they know that not at risk of a moment's notice being harassed ....

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 6)

Well .. in fact the doubt of my sister came after proving to be more problematic than I would think, because innocent people, she sent to my brother and my parents the same question ... But not only plus to this doubt joined by a history of the past in which a male member of the family, even minor, appeared some female traits which led the family to consult an endocrinologist who supposedly would have taken some medicines which rescued the boy to be gay ... Anyway ... Obviously the doubt with this story created in their head the assumption that after all I only could be suffering from a curable disease ... This created great confusion, because now have to try to put them in addition to head them that I was gay also prove to them that it was not sick ... Well this second was easy to dispel because predespus me to go to a doctor on condition that they go with me ... They found good idea, but the truth is that over time they abandoned this idea ... Regarding by them in the head that I was gay was not so easy ... The days that followed the "announcement" was full of surprises and attempts to make me change your mind .... (Continua. ..)

2 Be gay ... is not easy ...!

This article is more than a bubble as to criticize / comment on something ... I do not know if happens (u) with other gays, but to me, since I took things that happened in the beginning were more or less difficult to accept ... Abandon the dream of going to have children was undoubtedly the most complicated for me, but this is a fact that I had to assume, as was the result of my sexual orientation (although it has been able to find some alternative) ... Another thing, and I take before I even passed me by the head, was the fact that it can not, out of the 4 walls of my house, on public roads, can do something as simple as a hug or give a hand to the person I love ... And why? Because of other over the ignorant who are unable to comply with human beings ... It is so absurd that only living this situation we realized how ridiculous it is ... I was never to give in to pressures from retrograde minds and prejudiced, but a fact is that I can not hug my "beautiful" when I'm on the street ... If you read that you're straight and you amaste someone, imagine what prohibit you from giving a hand to your girlfriend in the street? Do you? ... Finally, be gay sometimes is not easy ...

One more Carnival!!!

Here we are ready for another night carnival, this year in many places threatened by rain ... In my case, I will also play the carnival ... Many people do not like this season, or because they think it a great stupidity, or because the timidity and prejudices do not let people at least for one night is free, or simply because they do not appreciate this kind of games. I like only here for one reason: it is one more reason to play, who we really are not (or vice versa), and have a good time with great music, dance and other silly things ... My article, aims to focus on a certain aspect of it, the carnival, to use this season as a pretext to put them really shows what goes in the soul ... Not to say that a man who is disguising as a woman, this desire has hidden within himself, but maybe at least has the desire for power, at least for a night of behave as a wife and do what they normally can do ... You see all the great zahar? Full of feathers and gross mini-skirts apregoando by male and feeler to get ahead ... I think very cute, but I think frankly that many of them have only this season in the year to be no-risk trial-who in many days of the year would like to be ... As well or not what matters is that everyone will have fun in one way or another, with or without masks.

INTERNET & SEX

This is an issue that is increasingly more important in the lives of all people ... And to think that many people still do not realize that in the near future of this mixture could well cause ... From my point of view, and focusing on only those aspects that I know personally of the gay world, I think if a person (or double) are unable to control a possible transfer to porn sites and web chats, might sooner or later to suffer because the "use" of these "virtual vibrators." Some think that this term is exaggerated, but let's see if I'm with someone I love and vice versa, which need to attend these sites? To see dicks and tails and the foderem guy? But it is not supposed to give himself sexual act much more pleasure than to be watching? Or is it an escape, a search for new things, new people it represents nothing more than a refuge for the faint feeling that we feel for our partner? I when I started these virtual worlds, admit that I masturbated a lot of times talking and sharing experiences virtually, and admit that I had to make some effort to stop what I already thought to be an "obsession" ... I spoke with several couples who have sex for the predispunham I feel happy to see them ... Is this natural in this day and age? Should we accept this kind of situation? I do not know how to react to reach the house and my boyfriend was in full masturbation with a webcam linked ... Okay, some say it is just to have fun in a given short period of time and very timely ... But I think there for this kind of trade there must be something more ... in our head! This article is a little confusing, but it is only natural, because I own eye and I remember what I did and I am a little confused ... But then wonders happen, it was the fact that I find my face in half net ...

ADOPTION (Part 2)

It is with great distress that I read the news today in a day of TSF, the statements by the chairman of the Monitoring Committee of the Law on the Adoption Portuguese, Luis Villas-Boas, who sayed the words: "better a child spend a lifetime in a institution or in the host families than go through the 'misfortune to be cared for by homosexuals, are two or a'. " These statements are so unhappy and so down that the best thing to do would be ignore them ... But I can not, they are (like it or not) the mirror of the majority of its population ... I guess we should meditate on this ... I weighted (and will continue to consider) the adoption of a child, just for the simple reason of wanting to give a child the opportunity to be truly loved by someone and honey, and have all the conditions to be happy and polite ... I am absolutely sure that this jerk who said these words, it should have educated the person (s) your (s) children should take "speedy" that task to his partner ... Do not know maybe change a diaper, tucking the child before bed ... I don 'know it all and do not know that I want to learn! I believe in my abilities to be a real father or mother, and not ignorant of these admit that they put my faculties concerned. This revolt me! This kind of people (supposedly educated), should be ashamed of sometimes open the mouth to say such things ... I would love that this man had only one child, and that he is gay ... I would then see what was your opinion. I bet you would have to swallow all these unfortunate words ... Not usually hate anyone, but I feel like this you want to, and not just because of being against the happiness of many children in our country. Finally, the ignorance alive!

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 5)

Hey, it was an exciting moment, almost cried to hear my brother saying: "I Sandra and we are yours, we support you ... you can count on us, but you must understand that is not an easy situation ...". It was beautiful, unexpected and very striking to me, listen to the mouth of my brother (who thinks a true male) those words ... How should imagine forces won so I think that maybe after all would not be alone in this struggle, contrary to what I sometimes unwittingly passed by the head ... Then passed the phone to my sister and she uttered the same words ... I was overjoyed ... But now qa my sister tells me: "But that was all of a sudden? This is not treatment?". My brother has little more than thirty years ... Not normally thought that question ... But this came fuvida proving to be more problematic than might appear at first sight ...

Being bisexual ...

Can find someone like the man sex and sex woman at the same time? I do not think ... I think what often happens is that the prejudice and not want to assume themselves as gay leads to unwittingly continue (or still thinks) the love of women, so that you can always say that "I am not gay, I'm bi!" . I honestly do not believe that a person can be completely happy next to a man and a woman next to ... The two sexes are so different ...

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 4)

I confess to see my father screaming and crying like a baby desalmadente, I broke his heart ... It was for me a scene unthinkable and unprecedented until that moment ... But ready, grabbed the bags and came back home, here in lx, leaving behind a sea of uncertainty ... Do we still would go home to my parents? Will be able to go back to my holy land !?... Many questions, a lot of sadness, a lot of emotion ... But good, in return my father call me to the phone, asking me to please change your mind because it insisted would eventually killing them ... It costs a lot to hear this, but we have reason to know and see that it was beginning very moment, a set of emotional blackmail with the aim of changing the course of my life ... Obviously for me it was not even called into question, the decision was taken, and now was grab the bull by side and see what happens ... and the surprises started to happen ... I came home, and get a phone call from my brother. Cumprimentamo us, we speak in sound, he apparently still does not know ... but at the very moment that he would shut down, he said: "I know the news." Pimbas, fell to me at that moment ... V. I was afraid of his reaction ...

ADOPTION

Yet here this a controversial issue ... Want or do not want to adopt a child by a gay couple, is still not well seen by the majority of its population ... I ask myself, why? It is true that raises issues of ethical and moral, and even educational ... But in essence what we should import all the focus is on the child and that seek to have a home, someone who gives her care, love, to tell stories, that the fondling, which gives her a normal life ... I'm right or wrong? Why look for the least important in these cases and leave the bulk of next? ...

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 3)

Yeah, sorry the delay but my life is a stirring ... Well as I said ... The worst was still to come ... My mother besides have been disappointed in shock and fear that someone grounded in the village knew, it was also very concerned about the reaction that my father could have ... Then combine it prepare the ground during the week so I then personally tell you everything at once (this on a Saturday) ... I (and being honest) was relieved to have a couple more days of supposed calm, although I had broken my heart to see my mother suffer with this whole situation ... But now that my mother on Sunday before lunch sorrateiramente tells me to tell me to my father's time for lunch ... I was in panic ... But there was no exit, and the end of the meal to ask my father to stay a little longer because the table was a matter for serious talk with him ... He was a little scared and started to throw suggestions of what could be "... I know, she becomes pregnant despite a woman ..." "... I know, she is married ..." . Anyway, all this has deteriorated a bit by bit, until I told him I was gay ... He was stopped, looking at me and asked "Are you trying to tell me you do not like women? Like you can not make a woman happy?" He stood up and went to glance in the direction of the kitchen room and unleashed the screaming and crying saying that he would rather die than have to go through this shame ... Cry, cry, and then decided to come to my house but not to hear some unpleasant things well ... I knew that with time things would calm down ... I barely knew what was to follow ...

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 2)

Well .. the first to tell it was my mother, alone ... I told her I had something very important and serious to talk to her ... She received with a big smile saying "Do not tell me who already get girlfriend ...?!"... This made the statement even more complicated ... Cost much know what I would say it would leave it completely to its knees and disappointed ... He was also afraid that she blames herself for her own, understand that I am gay, is due to a poor education ... But ready, even had to say and could not flee me more time in silence ... Counted ... She was preplexa without words ... I asked her if she was to realize what I was trying to tell her ... She replied: "I think q yes ... more like men than for women? That's ?!"... I answered that yes, this was it, and that was not an option mine, but I was anyway, since small, that men attract me ... I have walked many years to say no to myself, but it was a fact that I liked men ... And yet there are no facts or arguments ways to change that ... And I knew that from that hour would change much ... But the hardest was yet to come .....

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part I)

In my case was perhaps the biggest question that I came up in the head, then I've made myself as gay before ... My parents are not too many conservatives, but living in a village in the interior, which in itself, and for more goodwill which are already not helpful! I tried to read some books, talked to my beautiful about it, talked with friends and finally decided: "I will!" I did not know either when or how, but I knew that sooner or later would tell them that the child they both love and to which both take pride, and it appeared an endless number of times with a few friends (and they always one would think that my girlfriend was GAY ...), after all, man, pussy, finally, gay! Obviously, the reaction would not be good, because this hypothesis had never even been considered, neither for me nor for all that surrounded me ... And counted one day, when least expected dump everything out here ..

Are you gay?

Hello! You're gay but can not or do not want to take you? Tell me why ...!!!

Do you believe in a gay relationship that can lasts long time ...?

Fortunately my relationship with my boyfriend, go with wind in stern, although we have had, like all other couples, our problems .. Some more serious than others, but none with the ability to forget the essence, it is the love that binds us ... There are two years since I took over for me and for others, such as gay ... It is not easy to take this step in our life, especially when we have some dreams that are called into question with this decision-making ... But already passed that stage, fortunately, past and who are these two years already know the best way ... There are many more gay than I imagined, not so much girlfriend, and far fewer marriages ... One thing is certain, homosexual relations are a much more sexual component (in general) than a heterosexual relationship ... This on the one hand facilitates things, in terms of achieving daily living (because everything else does not matter so much), but on the other hand, is (by that I have seen) with that gay relationships last far less than was supposed. .. I do not know if the fault is ours, of gays, or whether we are simply more honest with each other, thus facilitating the breaking of ties more quickly ... Anyway ...

2 BE GAY is starting now...

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