How far can and / or should go?

I always thought that in a relationship, when someone loves the other and the distrust or doubt about the sentiment makes sense ... I always thought that to truly love someone ... I think us gays, we know well, know how sex is important and we also know that hundreds go there looking for the goose with a drowning, with several, short, anyway ... I love my beautiful and they do not have the slightest of doubts ... Then my second thought, no I do not know or doubt that it is my feeling and I know it is also ... In theory everything is beautiful, but in practice things are not as clear ... Doubt no doubt of our mutual feelings, but know I can not stop suspicious ... Wonder why? Some things related to the past, and others, which are the result of society and the speed and ease with which things can progress ... My computer has a beautiful net .. I also have ... And both know that NET puts us if you want, in contact with who we want or we look for ... Chat, messenger, blogs, websites ... It is easy to take a touch and add ... And after that, it is there what can happen ... So I think the thought was that at least in practice is difficult to be applied ... I believe that many do not call into question the sense, but the truth is that as human beings, we have our weaknesses ... And you never know, if you go to lunch today, I will not by any chance stumble into someone ... Or if (a) as co-worker will not insinuate with me and pull me to the wall ... Controlling this type of situation is very complicated, and any type of control can become a stone in the shoe of a relationship, creating confusion and misunderstandings ... I am not saying that I will not controlling here and there my pretty, and I know that he must do the same ... But is this correct? Or if not too much is normal? I think we should rather suspicious, to not fully trust, or terms in mind that because they want to or not, on some day, things can change ... If we are not alert, anything can happen ... If we are, but also can happen, you will perhaps change the course of things ...

PORTUGUESE GAY BARS III :: "FRÁGIL" (Lisbon)

Following the posts related to various sites gayfriendly's gay or who want to "show" ... The club that follows is the "Fragile" ... Who has not heard even mention the "Fragile" in Lisbon? I had heard the door and past a lot of times, and fortunately I met her last Saturday. My experience ... Well, first of all, it was crushed against the iron gates, where instead of when it opened a narrow door, where a girl was pointing and calling who she meant well ... Meanwhile heard comments "on the wrong side Tou ... She does not see me here!", "Hey let me go, she let me get girls and so ...". Suddenly the gate called us (me, the beautiful and a friend) and went there without paying entry. And behold, in front, in addition to the many people who were, appeared a little rectangle of several mirrors, the recall of a wide entrance hall ... The environment was relatively dark ... First we went to the left side of the house, where there is a rectangular space with a bar in one of its sides ... The decor and general appearance, in my opinion, was nothing spectacular for a house so widely known ... Thence to the right side, where a square space, was a bar on the left side, and the disc jokey was on top of this ... Could see in front is a projection of some images in black and white, and the rest of the space is the dance floor ... The music heard is v. good, and this quality was very good, for those who like house music. The people were beautiful, very mixed, which here and there saw some gay couples exchanging mimosa ... In track, apart from some encontrões there were also those who walk there with your hands lost ... That is, for a house with the reputation of "Fragile" expected much better in the space itself, where the originality is not minimally abounds not attractive ... The people were beautiful ... The music was great! What I read on the net, it seems that those who are accustomed to attend the house, get a little disappointed that the new management took over it seems the area two or three years ago ... Still it is worth knowing! :)

More gays is better!?

It is inevitable that it goes from mouth to mouth, and as reviewed and widely circulated on the internet here ... The alleged homosexuality of José Sócrates has given rise to several reactions ... I note today that both commentators and the media are beginning to address openly and frankly what it is today a reality, or the rumor about alleged homosexuality ... I think, and strengthen the idea that Portugal has recently had some excuses, good or bad, to speak more openly about homosexuality ... Even yesterday, a news, I say to a fishmonger Francisco Dishes "What is Pedro Santana Lopes against homosexuals?! He who speaks of what matters and who does not let anyone hurt the ...". It may seem ridiculous to mention that this comment, but I found it very interesting, coming from those who came and shows, I think, that it begins to few to be treated with natural ... But well, this article is to talk about something else ... Of the comments that appear in this and other blogs about homosexuals, which repeatedly refers to us, gay, suffered a mass hysteria, wanting and trying to find a gay in every corner ... I do not think at all that these comments are devoid of meaning ... I myself sometimes fall in the temptation to point out and comment on others, pointing them (in the right direction of course!) As being gay ... Why this temptation? I just think an explanation, we want to be more, to be increasingly common, and can increasingly be ourselves ... Obviously the fact that José Sócrates be gay or not will not be dominant in its action as Prime Minister, but I believe that like me, many gays, and no commitments made, look to him as a hope to be able to show the country that sexual orientation of each is the least interested, and that the value of people has nothing to do with it ...

Gay sex!

Some find this post in bad taste, but I know that the head of many people have the curiosity to know how to be a scene of gay sex ... For those who have not made the time to search the net, or for those who are curious, or simply for those who like sex, is a small scene of gay sex, not recommended for people sensitive or less ...View image

Although not yet had the opportunity to see one of the ads of ILGA, which are part of the first advertising campaign in Ireland to promote equality between homosexuals, my beautiful told me one of the ads and I found a taste that I like noted here. As I said, it seems that the scene begins with two men walking hand in hand in a garden, with a style distinctly homo (if I may say this is ...), ie, short hair, shirts of cavas ... In the bank of the garden are two ladies already with some age, so close, unti

l a seen the girls and called the attention of the friend ... Both are looking amazed, until the friend says "Have you seen this? With this cold and cavas ..." 
Even without having seen I was immediately convinced that this is the way forward! ILGA Congratulations!

A lovely place to dinner...

It is the Anvers, Belgian cuisine restaurant in the marina of Cascais ... 
It was there that I and my lovely dinner the first time after starting the dating ... Last Friday we return to this restaurant ... And again, the service was great, the food of an exceptional refinement and the calm and relaxing environment ... My advice to those who like me, this day, feel tired and stressed after a day of work, get your face in half and go up there ... Will not be sorry! 
Tip of the Head: Thai Shrimp with wild rice.

Prime Minister is Gay?

José Sócrates that is a type very charming, fashionable and sophisticated now we all noticed ... Say that the bad language he has an affair with Diogo Infante, also have heard ... He expressed some views on regarding homosexuality, it is also true (see text below) ... 
He is single too obvious, and that you never heard any 
romance with a woman is also a fact ... It would be very interesting for the gay community that these rumors were true, because Clearly would at least to dream with some advances in 
controversial issues such as gay marriage and adoption of children 
by gay couples ... If anyone knows of something that xibe! :))) 
"In consequence of the recent electoral process in the internal party The Socialist Public Official conducted a test on various positions of the 3 candidates (http://bussola.publico.pt), President-elect, Jose Socrates said to agree that "A couple of people of the same sex in a stable loving relationship should not be excluded from the possibility of adopt a child, "disagreed with the sentence" No one can feel naturally homosexual. "But while agreeing that" The state does not has nothing to do with what happens in the privacy of one quarter between adults who act of their free will. "

PORTUGUESE GAY BARS II :: "TRUMPS" (Lisbon)

Many call it "The Gay Cathedral of Lisbon" ... I do not know if it is deserved, because not yet know all the bars / clubs in Lisbon ... However, this club is a compelling place in gay night in Lisbon, because it is one of the oldest houses gay friendly. For those, like me, the first time I entered a gay club was the "Mister Gay" and second in the "Finally", I think that is unlikely as I am, could not have liked more of this house ... It was a breath of fresh air with beautiful people and an environment considerably "mixed" ... Three distinct environments, divide the space of disco ... Near the entrance on the 1st floor, give the guys with ladders to access the tracks on the floor below, and the right side, you can be a small bar, friendly, music, ideal for a conversation on the day! Below, two very similar environments, the different musical styles (House Music and music business) ... The environment is a little dark, and unfortunately, especially on Saturdays, is very complicated move freely through space, due to the amount of people that aglumera ... But better than my opinion will also read other reviews I found lost in the net: "For those who do not know .... the Trumps have two floors. At the entrance, a small room with tables, a bar and music lower. In the basement, two environments: on the left, the track, super busy, usually filled with frantic music and much heat, right, back tables, but in a darker environment as above, with the projection, usually of MTV or FashionTV. Everyone complains of Trumps, which is always full too, that people are ugly , which is a danger in case of fire, that music does not provide that environment is the butcher with meat on display nacos other nacos looking meat on display. But it is true that many gays who frequent other gay sites end up there fall. The Trumps is now over 20 years and is, by tradition, the gay disco in Lisbon. It has been holding full of strength and vitality to the opening of more and more gay sites (truth be told that most new sites are bars and do not make direct competition). should go late to the Trumps, by 2 and then this / 3, if you do not want to fly and airline employees unemployed ...." in Livra.pt "The Best: The music and the environment. The Worst: The bathrooms and prices ----------------------------- .. -------------------------------------------------- - I went there 3 times .. The entry, discretissima .. you can go there and not suspicious in the world that exists inside. the bar of entry, very nice and friendly, good to "chill out" .. the cloakroom ".. not bad .. let all the parts that Keira a hanger for only $ 100 .. .. mm .. not so expensive usually have to pay .. cloakroom make the toilets like the only 2 .. purchasing ladies .. and the doors open very lack privacy .. .. v. the cleaning is not bad .. I have seen worse .. muittoo the sound insulation of the site and there is good .. not the mixture of all music ever .. secured by glass doors kind "cup" to the dance floor .. very good .. dark .. just maybe .. the music, LINDA! the only place not hetero ranked as one of the best discs of trance is in .. everything from Madonna to ATB, Datf Punk, Eminem, Darude .. ALL .. trance remixes there will absolutely unforgettable! a bar on the track is not very practical .. must go much for "refescar throat" .. a bar to side of the track, very cool music .. more "commercial" (Latin for the last disc of exitos not remix). with chairs and tables for a little rest from agitation, ideal for talk (in high clear shout ..) the environment is absolutely no confusion .. peace .. liberal environment for gay, straight, lesbian friendly atmosphere .. .. until the biggest problem I see there is the same price .. water, $ 500, $ 500 glue, any alcoholic beverage in 1000 $ but I am also not acustumada price of the night gave the lisbon .. .. you know that I love the Trumps! =) "in Livra.pt More reviews on www.livra.pt

Free Number for LGBTs in Portugal

The number 800 206 919 can be used throughout the national territory (fixed and mobile) to leave a message on free Voice Mail PortugalGay.PT. It is the first free line specifically for LGBTs in Canada and serves not only to users of PortugalGay.PT leave suggestions or comments about the site but also for any person to report cases or complaints of discrimination related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender. In this first phase of service of any situations of discrimination have only a statistical treatment but is expected to soon be able to organize (with other national associations LGBT) a process of handling such situations with a view to their resolution and monitoring

"Who is he? - It's my boyfriend!"

The other day, one of the dinners with friends, was a friend and his boyfriend, who still did not know of my homosexuality ... Incidentally, this dinner, I was not pretty ... During the dinner, and at some point now that I do not remember the name of my beautiful Baila came to several times ... In this friendly, and naturally in the course of these conversations: "Who is _______?". Actually said to me ... The next moment the question was a moment of silence and all eyes are turned to my person ... I bet, though not confirmed, it asked all to yourself: "Is he going to say? And now?". I looked for it, and with a smile on the lips answered: "It's my boyfriend." Another moment of silence followed, and this time the eyes were fixed on that my friend ... She answered: "Oh yeah? Not know! What is it?". And all ready started to talk and dinner usually continued ... I have to admit that it is not easy, or at least is not natural, to give a cold response of these ... But I should be anyway ... Treat it with naturalness and relaxation that only helps to understand it all anyway! Do not believe?

Elements of Pleasure IV - Tantric Massage

This time I found a mention and that is something for everyone ... After all it is rare to find someone who does not enjoy a good massage at the end of a day's work ... If she is well prepared and planned, can be a real moment of relaxation and pure pleasure ... The tips are ... Prepare the environment, make it cozy and comfortable. Decorate it to you like, use incense, cushions, lights, indirect, in short everything that can create an intimate and cozy atmosphere. Prepare the oil or cream for the massage and when everything is ready, take a bath or sauna, relax and remain in silence for at least 5 minutes (remember). Remember that will play a (the) God (a) Do not forget: if you go to the toilet before you start ... Start with (a) partner (a) the receiver lying belly down. Remember to breathe slowly and regularly. Place a pillow under your head, throw it comfortably. Open your legs a bit. Start by placing one of his hands in upper back and one in lower, so get a few moments. With smooth movements, massage the whole body of the partner (a), head, shoulders, arms, back, buttocks, legs and feet, touch body parts that are rarely explored, always maintaining contact with the hands of their partner's body ( a) keep the pace as long smooth movements, alternating movements for deeper, be sensitive. Put your consciousness in touch and go slowly from top to bottom the whole body of its (a) partner (a). Tell him to simply feel and travel through this feeling that your corpo.Deixe that the language of the body of your (a) partner (a) reflects what he (a) is feeling. Use your imagination and create new and sensual touch. Use your body to massage instead of putting power in your arms, so will not be bored. Use the time it is enjoyable, not rush. Now turn your (a) partner (a) belly up and massage the face, neck, chest (chest) enclose the nipples with the palm of the hands and give light pinches with her fingers, arms and hand massage, be sure to give attention to the fingers too. Go down to the legs, and while you lightly touch down the sexual organs do not make any restriction on where you play, let flow freely. Massage the thighs, legs and feet. Again take your time and when you finish this part, go back to the inside of the thighs, massaging it into the genitals, not even touch the genitals, pubic region to touch the belly, back to the inside of the thighs, do a dance with his hands. At this point the energy is well sexual awakening, then it is time to go further and begin to focus the tone in organs genitais.Lentamente, do your fingers through the vaginal lips (penis and testicles). Press sensuality clitoris and the vagina (penis and testicles) giving freedom to all that (the) love you. Use enough time to enjoy all the sensations. As you're getting excited (o), relax and breathe regularly, trying to get the effect if expand throughout your sexual fantasies corpo.As always help to intensify the sensations, but now it is better not to concentrate on mental images but go deep into your own physical, allowing you to feel all the sensations. If the orgasm comes, okay! No problem. When you start to see the arrival of orgasmic sensations, tension the muscles of buttocks, breath, bud, yell and express what you are feeling without complexes. Give yourself entirely to your body and pleasure. Cover your (a) partner (a) with a blanket and rest your right hand on their sex and left heart. Stay well for some time, just feeling. When you feel that is the right time, keep! Or leave for another day. Good massage! Source: http://www.neotantra.com/

Elements of Pleasure III - Preliminaries

Sometimes does not give due weight to the findings, a sex ... It is only to start the sex itself as soon as possible ... For me, I find it very important the use of preliminary and a beautiful beginning of a sexual act ... The preliminary is that it occurs in the stimulation of both partners before the sex itself. Like sex, there are no rules for the preliminary. The important thing is both are at ease with each other. The skin itself is almost an erogenous zone of potential, but certain parts of the body have strong reactions, such as lips, neck, ear lobe, neck, breasts, feet. The most sensitive erogenous points are different for each person and cause different reactions to stimulation. The best way to discover their "erogenous map" and is the partner of mutual exploitation. How the caresses are done also causes different reactions. Use different body parts, hands, mouth, hair ... The so-called "intimate areas" of men and women are, for many, the only erogenous zone to be stimulated. If you want, however, make the relationship a sexual act of pleasure and intense, these areas should be the last to be encouraged - and with much attention. Check out what happens to each of them: Anus For men and women, is a highly sensitive region. Call with your hands, mouth or the penis. Perineum The area between the anus and sexual organ, is very sensitive to manual stimulation. Clitoris is where the greatest number of nerve endings in women. The stimulation of this area produces very strong sexual feelings. The caresses the clitoris should be done gently. The small vagina lips are more sensitive than the big lips. The entry of the vagina reacts to all kinds of caresses. Testicles are very sensitive to both pleasure and pain as to be stimulated with smoothness. Penis is the most sensitive region of the male body. The end point of the glans is the area of greatest pleasure. Also stimulates the ring at the base of the penis. Each couple have their way to excite each other before PTCA sexual. Some start kissing, fondling with giving a "show" of "strip-tease and masturbate. The oral sex is for many one of the best preliminary, it stimulates both the vagina and the penis directly. Besides the pleasure that the preliminary offer for both men and for women, results in a greater rigidity of the penis and the lubrication of the vagina of women, thus facilitating the penetration.

Is Homosexuality hereditary ...??

So many times I asked this to myself and my friends ... The response that varies from person to person, but it seems that is scientifically proven that homosexuality is not hereditary. However, speaking in my personal experience, I have some doubts that it is ... This is because in my family there are three known cases, and another suspect if not given. By coincidence or not, everyone is the same side of the family ... Will not match the most?

PORTUGUESE GAY BARS I :: "Mister Gay" (Costa da Caparica, Lisbon)

Start today a new series of posts that will try to present the gay bars I know, and others that have not visited so far. In line with what happens with the series of posts "Elements of Pleasure", these posts will not have any set schedule ... Beginning with the "Mister Gay" ... This bar is me in a way, a particular bar, it was the first gay bar I entered, together with my beautiful, specifically in the night we met ... Since then we become more or less dedicated customers ... At that time, and also somewhat influenced by the way had met the bar, the bar felt like a very heterogeneous place, spacious, with a decoration (?) Based on red sofas surrounding the dance floor, doing a little remembering the clubs of old, with a certain air of "Boite". But the relaxed atmosphere is what attracted me more ... This house shows every Friday and Saturday shows of transvestites ... The Valéria Vanini (see photo) was at the head of poster ... Here, I always thought the quality of shows very weak ... As the music is the most commercial music, with a mixture of different styles, trying to please the Greeks and Trojans. The Staff of the house is in my opinion, very little attention, both in presentation and treatment of customers ... This house is not dark room and in my opinion, is a place where anyone can feel at ease! Currently, some months I do not want this bar, and this is due to two reasons: the environment has become a little "rasca" and with a significant increase in women (lesbians) which also leaves something to be desired ; The show and the staff reached a low level of quality .... The Patricia Russell was the last time I visited the house, head of the poster, it seems that, for a comment to one of my own posts on this topic has already been removed ... She was a great artist, surrounded by artists poor ... I hope now is better together! I have a different view on this bar, taken from the Leisure Guide: This is one of the mandatory at night gay. The "shows" for transvestites mark the uniqueness of the Mistergay. All Fridays and Saturdays, the processor Patricia Russel brand presence with their "shows" eccentric, full of color, sequins and feathers, many of them inspired by the hits of the great divas and perhaps what was more transformed in Portugal : Ruth Bryden. The success of "shows" have resulted in a collection of versions of songs, published on CD. The Mistergay "differentiates itself from other gay bars not only for its ample space (it is installed in the warehouse of a former leather factory), in which prevails the lack of taste in decoration, but also by the diversity of its audience.

First kiss!!!

Remember your first kiss on the mouth of a man ...? I waited so long ... I mean, were only 25 years ... It is less time than the time I get to pay my house! :) But I said ... I waited so long for that kiss ... And eventually not be a special moment, those who we think ... It was during my first (and short, very short!) Experiential gay ... It was an immediate meetings, where one only wants to fuck the other (me in this case) is (or tries to be) full of romanticism, but with much nervousness and anxiety very much ... The kiss came unexpectedly, when the type who was, suddenly and without warning, kissed me ... I wish it had been with my beautiful ... And many people ask: "How is kissing someone of the same sex?" In my view, is different ... I think the smell, the skin there and I know more what make kisses different ... Full of complicity, I think ... I am a first-beijoqueiro, I think until exaggeration sometimes .. But I love kissing and being kissed ... Not only in the mouth! Ehehehe And kiss (still) do not pay tax, use and abuse! :) Anyway ... Remember your first kiss ...?

I hope for a day ...

... Have in my hand the two people who love this life: my mother and my beautiful! I think many times that day, like so many times that day, and I so much strength for that day happens, that I can only believe that day will happen ... Sooner or later, happy to have both my hand ... Because there is no reason why it does not, or better, the reason that supposedly happened, will one day be there, eliminating the implacability of time ... There are things that lose meaning over time, and that the win ... I now only makes sense that day arrives ...

And because the love is beautiful ...

... And my beautiful is my love, I decided this weekend that past, present him with a surprise trip to Barcelona ... In time of anniversary, nothing better than traveling and out of the routine! And there was us ... How should imagine, a weekend to visit our city's most important neighbor Spain, is almost a marathon ... But still, with things well planned, was to enjoy and visit the most important sights of this city ... We were on the night of Saturday to visit two bars said Gay, the Martin's, who was to fly, and Arena ... This is a real mixed bar, at least in the sense that I think should be a mixed bar .. Good music, straight many, many gays and lesbians many, especially joy that is ultimately what matters most! I, for pity that even here there is a site of ...

I would like to try, but ...

I do not know if the same happens with other people, but since I took over as gay to the people who love the conversations about sex have become more frequent and more interesting ... I think perhaps this is due to two reasons: first, for I would be happy to talk about it and feel great lack of such conversations before I took; Second, the idea that others have that we gays we are one big crazy and only think of sex ... However I think that great things are well! But well, the reason this post is not talking about those reasons but the conversation itself ... Already more than once, that a heterosexual friend, make me some "complaints" about his sexual relationship with his partner ... Usually it is always the same, ie the wife is very reluctant to regard anal, and they would love to have this experience. But the opposite happens, ie, the man would also like to try a relationship anal ... But if the man is normal to ask your girlfriend to have anal a relationship, because the opposite is not vulgar, so I know ... Imagine the man, in the sexual act, ask the woman "Stick your finger at my ass ..", not complicated situation? What will she think? "He is gay ?!"... Indeed, already happened in conversation, I do not know how to request this kind of experience, but I think everything that passes through the opening between the couple on these matters, and shall refer to this experience as any other! Or is it okay ?!...

Elements of Pleasure II - Cock Ring

A cock ring (penis ring) can be defined as: "Ring, metal, leather or rubber used in the base of the penis to prolong erection." As the definition indicates, this ring can be used at the base of the penis or even the testicles. Helps maintain an erection and increases the intensity of orgasms. There are some rings that have a regulatory tightness in order to adapt itself better to the penis of each. They are for sale in any shop and fri is easy to use. There are various sizes and are cheap. In some cases allows a slight increase in the penis. It can also be used only for aesthetic purposes, or will increase slightly the volume of the penis. What more to say? Easy, cheap and can give pleasure to millions. Try.

I lost someone ...

There are people in our lives, we make, positive or negative, it is true ... I wanted someone that my grandmother left the world of the living and to join the section of my memories ... She was a grandmother excellent, fantastic, but it was my grandmother ... It was with her I learned how to be humble and simple ... She took me to the garden walk many times and taught me to water the vegetables, taking water from the well, the "drive" the cart ... The dream for her grandchildren, and we were married ... She left without knowing my reality, a reality that surely she would not understand ... In its 94 years of life, it has never crossed the mind the existence of this reality ... I thought by me and not smart in arming and "force it" to consider the perspective of life ... And I think I did well! Funny this life ... That she has always tried to please me with a notinha, or with chocolate, just for the last time we talked about - she was already very poor - I say "I am with a heavy heart ...". I went to the children saying that it, and then realized that this phrase would simply say "Give me a chocolate !"... Obviously I would be happy for you sweeten the mouth ... She ate, looked at me fixedly and said "There is more ?"... I smile, and called it a "greedy !"... She outlined a smile malandreco ... The roles of the drama that is life, had been reversed ... A smile that would ultimately prove to be the last I had the pleasure of witnessing! Said the priest in the funeral that "This ceremony makes sense only because we believe that death is not the end but the beginning of eternal happiness. I think this time it is better that we all ..." I also want to believe ... Goodbye Grandma, and even a day!

Will or will not?

I remember the times in which it was made, which looked around me and thought I was different, it had very few gays ... Later, in conversation with some gay men on the internet, they told me "Hey, you already there? Is a nest of them ..."! However I have not fished there ... But then you start to come in the middle, I started to notice certain views and "features" that indicated it was a gay ... It is a phenomenon that also happened to my friends straight after going to a gay bar ... The next day went on the street and thought "Is that it? No. ..!"... I now also much more to this question myself, or when the Beautiful by my side because I feel that I see gays everywhere, ... There is a case recently in my current work, since the first hour seems to me to be gay ... But then put me to thinking that led me to think that ... He is normalíssimo, but is like aum natural feeling ... Is there really? This maturation of ideas, made me see things more clearly, and this is one ...

With friends ... at ease?

Lately, the last leaving at night that I made with my beautiful and straight friends, went to gay places ... The excuse to go to a gay place, in my view, is necessarily by being the only place where public can be comfortable with my beautiful ... But well, which always has to happen is that going with our straight friends, we should never feel sufficiently free to embrace or kiss on ... Weird no? After all they are there because we wanted to go there, supposed to be at ease ... I think this is due to the fact that we fear of "hurting" their sensitivity, which, and assume, it makes no sense ... Clearly it would because they feel we are well and wish them ... We have a couple hetero friend, that when we are together, ask us to feel completely at ease, since the fact that realizing that we are inhibited, the left a little annoyed ... But the truth is that we never completely at ease! Finally!

Elements of Pleasure - POPPERS

For some time, I want to explore some accessories or practices that may increase sexual pleasure in a relationship, regardless of the genders involved. So take the opportunity to inform me and give my contribution to society "posting" the results of what I seek ... The first element of pleasure that I address is the Popers or Poppers. It is an illegal substance, although access to a bottle of Popers is relatively easy. Any Fri Shop has ... "The Poppers is a liquid, which must be smelling when we increase our sexual appetite. The bottles can be larger or smaller, and have a look similar to the figure beside. Its main purpose the muscle relaxation, euphoria, increased sexual pleasure, dizziness, vertigo, pallor, hallucinations and intense heat. What is the history of Poppers? The Poppers were originally created as a remedy for angina (chest pain), but the benefit is not compensated because of side effects such as drop in pressure. The liquid is composed of that substance? The active substance is amyl nitrate, a vasodilator, analgesic and muscle relaxing. How to use? When in full sexual intercourse, should open up the bottle, carefully, and should put up a nostril to the "mouth" of the bottle and draw two or three times. What happens? In order to smell the Poppers will feel a weird feeling, like weed, to float, leaving the mind open and ready for new experiences.:) It is dangerous to use? So tried on the net, is not dangerous, but ... Obviously that can not swallow the liquid or inspire endless times consecutively. There are reports of vomiting, fainting, headache strong, weakness, respiratory tract irritation and burns (if coming into contact with the skin). It is advisable for those who have health problems, be more careful and consult with someone known in the field. Another problem is the guarantee of quality. Wrong mixture could have very harmful effects to health. It is only for homosexuals? No. Although most people use are the gays, the Poppers can be used by anyone. The fact that it is used as the drug of love for the gays, is due to facilitate sexual relations, especially anal, so the poppers has been associated with the gay audience. "It enhances the pleasure and suppresses pain by facilitating the penetration." What is the relationship between gender and the Poppers? There are several possible answers, including: - Dilation of blood vessels, or cause an extension, dilatation of blood vessels. This increase causes an increase in the penis, the sensitivity, increased flexibility and facilitates sexual intercourse; - Orgasmo bombastic, or is used by many people to achieve an orgasm out of the series, to go to the stars, at least briefly; - Masturbation, or as we know there are many people who have difficulty achieving an orgasm through masturbation. The Poppers facilitate this practice; - Aphrodisiac, or facilitates the Popers sex with your partner (a) doing the sex reach a high point of pleasure. In many cases the popers can be used as "air" from the fourth ... It would be great to have contributions from readers, reporting experiences or find facts to be important on the Poppers.

Going to the night, alone or accompanied?

I think the situation that you picture in this post, I should have spent more people, if it is not true even with everybody ... When we decide go out (me and my beautiful) almost always invite someone to make us company, heterosexual friends ... At the beginning he was not the issue but now the question always arises: "What kind of bar is it?". I understand, because I know q is not very attractive (at least for those who are alone) go to a site that I call a "mixed". But well see, the "mixed" does not have much, or have homosexual and heterosexual couples (in minority), and one or another girl on the loose. Call that a bar "mixed", left for me to make sense ... A bar "mixed", in my opinion, would be a bar with homosexuals, heteressoxuais, single, married, and seeing all dating, dancing, talking ... It is this environment that I feel more healthy ... It is this environment that I have not found ... Any suggestions?

Gay Night in the Algarve

In seeking leave some sites that my statement was beautiful as the gay bars in the Algarve ... Choose the short list of "Dreams" in Albufeira, and the BAR is "... in Vilamoura The first, the more complicated it was to find it ... After several false alerts, we stop to another gay bar, the "Mirror" in Oura .... This had nothing to gay ... It is the Dreams .... A cozy bar, quietly decorated in concert to transform (not particularly like), with nice people ... The neighbors do not seem like much of the music that night and he was toast on the terrace, with a coat hanger and an onion! Ehehehhe! A "queer" crazy, tried to get us talking and we did spend time hilarious! As is the BAR, I note negative ... The decoration and disappointing and environment was not anything more ... Why is it supposedly in a region where thousands of tourists come every year, a gay night so weak?

And behold, "the circus begins to catch fire" ...

Obviously this article was not referring to the numerous fires that devastate our country every year, including the current year and year after year we have more of it: Promises, guilty virtual passages of responsibility, lies, finally ... But well, as I said, this article does not refer to this type of fireworks, but the other type of fireworks, which is not watching, they can "burn-in" to us or to people that are coming ... These fires also spread rapidly and are hardly limited ... I speak of those rumors that go from mouth to mouth ... Who live or lived in a small village know what I mean, just fire the fuse quickly and we have a whole village and burned alvoraçada to talk than not know and often the "go" inside of people ... That is what is happening to me now ... The news of me being gay starts to spread throughout the village ... I do not know who lit the fuse (and no longer interests me, quite frankly), but I am afraid that there is an "explosion" when the fuse go through my house ... Not by me but by my parents, who perhaps have the greatest fear now that the others know ... Always "the others" to lead the life of ... Anyway, wait and see!

And if she suddenly ask ...?

The big question, of what the answer if my niece discuss the matter with me ... She actually has not yet old enough to understand such things (I think) with its 6 years, but the truth is that the last time we talked on the phone asked me if _______ was me ... I answered that yes, and she said "He 's always with you ... My friends are always with me ...". How should I imagine preplexo with the conversation, and now I ask many times before as if it would be a deal on the subject, now I am even more certain that this day will cehgar, and maybe is not as far as I thought .. . Now the question is what to say and what to do, take or not take, do not omit or omit, lying or not lying ... I think it's one of the most sensitive and that sincerely not yet discovered the best to deal with it ...

What they say when we are not ...?

I bet that all people are asking many times, as will our friends / family when we are not present ... We gays, packaged with our sense of discrimination, we have a heightened interest in what they say ... Many will not care, but to me interested me yes! Obviously I am referring to whom I am close and that I supposedly supported and supports ... A weekend I went to the land, a friend told me that when joined grupinho who commented and said "Who will of man and woman ?!"... Do not take or took it badly, because that is the impression that society has of us, that a gay or lesbian couple is always a member of the couple who took the position of another man and a woman! I always try to pull the issue to clarify things, and explain that this is not rule, but it is notable that in some couples there for gay members of a more "bicharoca" and lesbians with an air more males. However this has some interest? I do not think at all! Then have some people who told me that sometimes, at work or with their families trying to pass the message that we are normal, we are not ET's, we are happy ... What I find interesting is that comment, and that clarify things if possible ... Speaking openly on the subject was always the best way to clarify any issue! No taboos! :)

Jobs versus Gays

Fortunately I had the good fortune to spend in many companies of our country, and work with many different people ... In my area of work, men are almost always in the majority, which is good because as you know, it is much easier to work with men than with women, although I did not practice any situation that proves what I just said. .. But perhaps there are more men, the subject of homosexuality is often discussed, the "paneleiragem" as they say, sometimes in conversations of pure relaxation or provocation or, as witnessed this week in conversations a little more serious .. . The subject "paneleiragem" is in most cases treated with obvious discrimination and disapproval ... That this conversation we saw this week, a lunch, commented the fact that a coworker have felt the need to justify responding to a provocative email sent to everyone, from the then head of the site, which hinted the like " ; man with cat ...". Well, what interests me highlight now is that many people still think it does not work with a gay, think Clearly that "paneleiragem" only works in firms other than them ... The hearing of these conversations, it is clear that a willingness to say "YES! Yes, I'm gay, then? "And wait for reactions annoyed and embarrassment that would almost certainly arise ... After all we live in society, and where a person is always the chance of her being gay / lesbian. Must therefore have been the notion that the person who read us every day, and who might appreciate many qualities, may be gay ... And without wanting to, or perhaps not, we discriminate against it, even unconsciously ...

Tell the parents: YES or NO? (Part 12)

(Continued) ... And so, my mother, began to unconsciously mentalizar this is my (our) new reality ... The calls begin by her "So how are you?" But soon after you try to amend what is said ".. You do not, you ..."... My father is not even anything like the slide of my mother, says she is "give consent to something that goes against what they think ..". She tries to apologize saying that it is only wrong because I used to be many times with my friends ... Ehehehe ... The silence continues on the subject, however I know of some conversations (penalty are very few) that my mother is having with some family on the subject ... But now comes a new ... The relationship of my parents is going through a phase less good, and immediately come the comments ... the father is not able to overcome, and will never accept the fact ... He is nervous ... Afraid that others will know ... It would be a shame. " I think the fact of knowing that you have a gay son, may be cause for shock and some turbulence, because we are talking about something that exterminates with many of the dreams that they (parents), learning, came wonder to me ... But will this be reason enough to ruin the relationship father / mother? Or is it a good excuse to divert attention? Or a more emotional blackmail of my father? I do not know ... Still seek the answer ...