I would like to try, but ...

I do not know if the same happens with other people, but since I took over as gay to the people who love the conversations about sex have become more frequent and more interesting ... I think perhaps this is due to two reasons: first, for I would be happy to talk about it and feel great lack of such conversations before I took; Second, the idea that others have that we gays we are one big crazy and only think of sex ... However I think that great things are well! But well, the reason this post is not talking about those reasons but the conversation itself ... Already more than once, that a heterosexual friend, make me some "complaints" about his sexual relationship with his partner ... Usually it is always the same, ie the wife is very reluctant to regard anal, and they would love to have this experience. But the opposite happens, ie, the man would also like to try a relationship anal ... But if the man is normal to ask your girlfriend to have anal a relationship, because the opposite is not vulgar, so I know ... Imagine the man, in the sexual act, ask the woman "Stick your finger at my ass ..", not complicated situation? What will she think? "He is gay ?!"... Indeed, already happened in conversation, I do not know how to request this kind of experience, but I think everything that passes through the opening between the couple on these matters, and shall refer to this experience as any other! Or is it okay ?!...

Today i want to do questions...

Why can not all be happy? It will be unfortunate for many people and be jealous of someone who is happy? Why is the fact that I sleep with whoever is there is someone I have to discriminate? Do not support anyone imagine in the place where she wanted to be? Why is love and live with someone of the same sex can do so much confusion to someone who does not ourselves? Is it because they are afraid that the account of light, water, electricity increase? Why are there no longer friends to talk with a friend gay? Do they have fear of being eaten by wolves or bad because in fact have never been friends? Why not adopt a child, giving him love, affection, comfort and education? Does are better at Casa Pia? Why is at work, in most cases, we must try to maintain secrecy in relation to our sexual orientation? Does that we gays we become unable to work? Why is that a couple of gays can not marry and enjoy the full rights as a hetero couple? Are gays not pay taxes and do not work? Why are sons of bitches that discriminate in this country, bad deal, excluded, doubt their capabilities or ignore the gays in this country? Is it because they have less gray matter and we have no space in his brain to take on this reality, our reality? Come the answers ... :)

Love changes people ...

Today is the day of Easter and here I am to write an article, with a beautiful day out there and with so many things to do outside those four walls ... But the truth is that this year, and perhaps for the first time in my life I decided to stay away from celebrations, the friends and family to stay with the person I love ... Some of you think: "There is more than the requirement ...", as if the fact of loving someone forces us to something ... But no, being gay limits some things in our lives, at least temporarily ... At this time I decided to tell family he was gay, and more recently, he had a "beautiful" only mine, on that day, also made a commitment to myself to leave the background for some things that I thought until then do not change ever, as For example, for being with friends and family on special occasions (like Easter ...) was always in the forefront, not only because they like but also because sometimes it was difficult to justify my absence ... And so today, the first time I am here alone because my beautiful had to go to work ... But sleep late and boyfriends (lunch break) and we have lunch by the sea ... Anyway nothing special but it becomes evident to me because it is a different side that I did not know ... Love gives us back the head, more than I ever imagined ... There are values that we should not abandon such as the love of family and by our true friends, and they hope never to lose ... The Love for "beautiful" is all this love that I feel the other person in a meeting ... Being with him I am well myself, and being good to myself I am well with others ... Not hard to understand? I think it's the love ...

Love or need? ...

There are already some time ago, someone my friend told me about her boyfriend: "Sometimes I have doubts, that if he loves me or if he needs from me ...". At the time gave no great importance to the issue, but then, and reflection, also has really happened to me to have this question (though not called this way) and I believe also that many people have thought the same ... When we have someone on our side that one or other reason (no matter ...) is more fragile, less secure, more dependent and therefore is "glue" to us as if we needed to breathe, let us fine with us and even with our ego up there, but there is the other side of the coin, which is that we think that maybe who's on our side, sometimes confuse the need to have cuffs at his side with the person you love is at your side ... Do not believe? ...

SOLUTION: surrogate motherhood! It is?!...

Well, when comment with my friends and they asked us if we ever have a son, obviously my answer is "YES!". However, to take me as gay and start to the current relationship was dreams that I had to close in my head ... I say "terminated" because you never know the morrow, and not enjeitado the possibility of one day going to have a child ... Some of my friends say "I thought one of bellied rental ?"... Of course, already thought, it is clear that I - who always wanted to have a child - already thought about all the possibilities, and one of them was this ... But then, and reflecting on it, I think the idea (in addition to much controversy) very difficult and morally very hard to accept ... It seems that abroad there are many who are "offers" for this type of service, but I am not going with that in my mind...

ADOPTION

Yet here this a controversial issue ... Want or do not want to adopt a child by a gay couple, is still not well seen by the majority of its population ... I ask myself, why? It is true that raises issues of ethical and moral, and even educational ... But in essence what we should import all the focus is on the child and that seek to have a home, someone who gives her care, love, to tell stories, that the fondling, which gives her a normal life ... I'm right or wrong? Why look for the least important in these cases and leave the bulk of next? ...

Do you believe in a gay relationship that can lasts long time ...?

Fortunately my relationship with my boyfriend, go with wind in stern, although we have had, like all other couples, our problems .. Some more serious than others, but none with the ability to forget the essence, it is the love that binds us ... There are two years since I took over for me and for others, such as gay ... It is not easy to take this step in our life, especially when we have some dreams that are called into question with this decision-making ... But already passed that stage, fortunately, past and who are these two years already know the best way ... There are many more gay than I imagined, not so much girlfriend, and far fewer marriages ... One thing is certain, homosexual relations are a much more sexual component (in general) than a heterosexual relationship ... This on the one hand facilitates things, in terms of achieving daily living (because everything else does not matter so much), but on the other hand, is (by that I have seen) with that gay relationships last far less than was supposed. .. I do not know if the fault is ours, of gays, or whether we are simply more honest with each other, thus facilitating the breaking of ties more quickly ... Anyway ...