Showing posts with label questions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label questions. Show all posts

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Today i want to do questions...


Why can not all be happy? It will be unfortunate for many people and be jealous of someone who is happy? Why is the fact that I sleep with whoever is there is someone I have to discriminate? Do not support anyone imagine in the place where she wanted to be? Why is love and live with someone of the same sex can do so much confusion to someone who does not ourselves? Is it because they are afraid that the account of light, water, electricity increase? Why are there no longer friends to talk with a friend gay? Do they have fear of being eaten by wolves or bad because in fact have never been friends? Why not adopt a child, giving him love, affection, comfort and education? Does are better at Casa Pia? Why is at work, in most cases, we must try to maintain secrecy in relation to our sexual orientation? Does that we gays we become unable to work? Why is that a couple of gays can not marry and enjoy the full rights as a hetero couple? Are gays not pay taxes and do not work? Why are sons of bitches that discriminate in this country, bad deal, excluded, doubt their capabilities or ignore the gays in this country? Is it because they have less gray matter and we have no space in his brain to take on this reality, our reality? Come the answers ... :)

And how do with the grandparents?


Well, in my opinion it should take our homosexuality no longer think the same for our grandparents ... Obviously, and as all cases (friends, parents, uncles, brothers ...) very much depends on temperament, education and cultural level of people to our acceptance of homosexuality, but I think in general our grandparents in addition to being at a level Age has a higher cultural level and education very much reduced and a closed mind ... And I wonder, shall we be confronted them with a reality that could leave (I do not want to say that may be different) sad, disappointed and even injured? I think not! The view them Clearly it would not change anything in our life, but the fact that they say could change something in their life ... Not wishing to retrograde opinion, I think in most cases must let them know without a doubt or in the air ...

Holidays and Exchanges

For those who do not know, there is space on the Internet where you can leave a contact for a possible exchange of houses / flats to stay on holiday abroad ... Me and my beautiful that very soon we will travel, take the initiative to let our contact, and we are really interested in doing emerged an exchange ... Most couples are gay ... Soon after the first proposal and I got a nice little in doubt of what the next step to take ... Obviously we can not go to somebody's house without having minimal information ... But then how should we proceed? Well, in response asking photos ... But it is always the feeling and the uncertainty of what the intent of who is on the side of there ... Maybe it was a good way to meet new people and in accordance with guidelines to guide the destiny ... It was also a cheaper solution ... But, after thinking about, or at the time we would have to be to sell our house, we stand back and give the idea .. Someone has already done?

Friday, December 26, 2008

Pleasure in an anal penetration

Asked me that even my brother, hetero, spontaneous and curiously: "But that can be pleasured in a relationship with a man?" I think he was referring to the relationship obviously anal ... I answer with another question "How do people feel such pleasure when we move the tongue behind the orelhinha ?"... It is natural, are erogenous points that may be more or less, depending on the sensitivity of each ... In the case of an anal, in addition to feel pleasure, and so it can feel experiencing, there is also a physical component that may explain some of the pleasure sense ... In his own body's internal penis, the most inner portion where he falls in the abdominal cavity money is stimulated in a relationship anal, something impossible to happen without penetration ... Truth truth is, if you feel happy ... And much ... And women care, when you ask your man to put the finger in their anus and because he already tried ... Ehehhe:)

Thursday, December 18, 2008

Love or need? ...

There are already some time ago, someone my friend told me about her boyfriend: "Sometimes I have doubts, that if he loves me or if he needs from me ...". At the time gave no great importance to the issue, but then, and reflection, also has really happened to me to have this question (though not called this way) and I believe also that many people have thought the same ... When we have someone on our side that one or other reason (no matter ...) is more fragile, less secure, more dependent and therefore is "glue" to us as if we needed to breathe, let us fine with us and even with our ego up there, but there is the other side of the coin, which is that we think that maybe who's on our side, sometimes confuse the need to have cuffs at his side with the person you love is at your side ... Do not believe? ...

SOLUTION: surrogate motherhood! It is?!...

Well, when comment with my friends and they asked us if we ever have a son, obviously my answer is "YES!". However, to take me as gay and start to the current relationship was dreams that I had to close in my head ... I say "terminated" because you never know the morrow, and not enjeitado the possibility of one day going to have a child ... Some of my friends say "I thought one of bellied rental ?"... Of course, already thought, it is clear that I - who always wanted to have a child - already thought about all the possibilities, and one of them was this ... But then, and reflecting on it, I think the idea (in addition to much controversy) very difficult and morally very hard to accept ... It seems that abroad there are many who are "offers" for this type of service, but I am not going with that in my mind...

With girlfriend or wife, everything is easier ...

Do not believe? Ehehehe ... I do not think, but we have found ... After all, there will be the best way to hide homosexuality than get a girlfriend? Everything is so easy ... We can look at them, because nobody will think that I am looking for a guy with any other intention ... And we agree with the company, not run the risk of being at some time singled out as gay ... But then, the alleged girlfriends, guy, starting to feel a weight on his head ... Increasing ...

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Does anything change even ?!...

I do not know if already happened to you, but I from time to time arise me doubt in my mind about the words that (a) friend (a) to know that I was gay told me 'Dude, you keep for me be the same as you were before ...". I appreciate the sympathy and currently believe, because we believe it is anyway ... But then, over time, and more in relation to friends (and not so much with friends), by either attitude, real or created in our head, my head goes by that people were saying that my friend and I said that nothing would change in our relationship, after all no longer see me the same way ... And if so, how I see now? Imagine me at home dressed like a travesti, with his wrists broken, the screams made bicharoca crazy? Or that maybe, for years now, after all he went to throw to me? Or maybe imagine how it will be in bed in the room with another guy, as you can have pleasure ... I do not know what they think and even come to believe something, but I believe that is confusing to some people ... I in my case, immediately tried by my friends feel free to ask what they were to head ... I do not know ...

Sunday, December 14, 2008

2 Be gay ... is not easy ...!

This article is more than a bubble as to criticize / comment on something ... I do not know if happens (u) with other gays, but to me, since I took things that happened in the beginning were more or less difficult to accept ... Abandon the dream of going to have children was undoubtedly the most complicated for me, but this is a fact that I had to assume, as was the result of my sexual orientation (although it has been able to find some alternative) ... Another thing, and I take before I even passed me by the head, was the fact that it can not, out of the 4 walls of my house, on public roads, can do something as simple as a hug or give a hand to the person I love ... And why? Because of other over the ignorant who are unable to comply with human beings ... It is so absurd that only living this situation we realized how ridiculous it is ... I was never to give in to pressures from retrograde minds and prejudiced, but a fact is that I can not hug my "beautiful" when I'm on the street ... If you read that you're straight and you amaste someone, imagine what prohibit you from giving a hand to your girlfriend in the street? Do you? ... Finally, be gay sometimes is not easy ...

One more Carnival!!!

Here we are ready for another night carnival, this year in many places threatened by rain ... In my case, I will also play the carnival ... Many people do not like this season, or because they think it a great stupidity, or because the timidity and prejudices do not let people at least for one night is free, or simply because they do not appreciate this kind of games. I like only here for one reason: it is one more reason to play, who we really are not (or vice versa), and have a good time with great music, dance and other silly things ... My article, aims to focus on a certain aspect of it, the carnival, to use this season as a pretext to put them really shows what goes in the soul ... Not to say that a man who is disguising as a woman, this desire has hidden within himself, but maybe at least has the desire for power, at least for a night of behave as a wife and do what they normally can do ... You see all the great zahar? Full of feathers and gross mini-skirts apregoando by male and feeler to get ahead ... I think very cute, but I think frankly that many of them have only this season in the year to be no-risk trial-who in many days of the year would like to be ... As well or not what matters is that everyone will have fun in one way or another, with or without masks.

INTERNET & SEX


This is an issue that is increasingly more important in the lives of all people ... And to think that many people still do not realize that in the near future of this mixture could well cause ... From my point of view, and focusing on only those aspects that I know personally of the gay world, I think if a person (or double) are unable to control a possible transfer to porn sites and web chats, might sooner or later to suffer because the "use" of these "virtual vibrators." Some think that this term is exaggerated, but let's see if I'm with someone I love and vice versa, which need to attend these sites? To see dicks and tails and the foderem guy? But it is not supposed to give himself sexual act much more pleasure than to be watching? Or is it an escape, a search for new things, new people it represents nothing more than a refuge for the faint feeling that we feel for our partner? I when I started these virtual worlds, admit that I masturbated a lot of times talking and sharing experiences virtually, and admit that I had to make some effort to stop what I already thought to be an "obsession" ... I spoke with several couples who have sex for the predispunham I feel happy to see them ... Is this natural in this day and age? Should we accept this kind of situation? I do not know how to react to reach the house and my boyfriend was in full masturbation with a webcam linked ... Okay, some say it is just to have fun in a given short period of time and very timely ... But I think there for this kind of trade there must be something more ... in our head! This article is a little confusing, but it is only natural, because I own eye and I remember what I did and I am a little confused ... But then wonders happen, it was the fact that I find my face in half net ...

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Being bisexual ...

Can find someone like the man sex and sex woman at the same time? I do not think ... I think what often happens is that the prejudice and not want to assume themselves as gay leads to unwittingly continue (or still thinks) the love of women, so that you can always say that "I am not gay, I'm bi!" . I honestly do not believe that a person can be completely happy next to a man and a woman next to ... The two sexes are so different ...

Monday, December 8, 2008

Do you believe in a gay relationship that can lasts long time ...?

Fortunately my relationship with my boyfriend, go with wind in stern, although we have had, like all other couples, our problems .. Some more serious than others, but none with the ability to forget the essence, it is the love that binds us ... There are two years since I took over for me and for others, such as gay ... It is not easy to take this step in our life, especially when we have some dreams that are called into question with this decision-making ... But already passed that stage, fortunately, past and who are these two years already know the best way ... There are many more gay than I imagined, not so much girlfriend, and far fewer marriages ... One thing is certain, homosexual relations are a much more sexual component (in general) than a heterosexual relationship ... This on the one hand facilitates things, in terms of achieving daily living (because everything else does not matter so much), but on the other hand, is (by that I have seen) with that gay relationships last far less than was supposed. .. I do not know if the fault is ours, of gays, or whether we are simply more honest with each other, thus facilitating the breaking of ties more quickly ... Anyway ...