Faithful or unfaithful?

It is impossible to remain indifferent to the new kind of entertainment programs that were begun, first with TVI in the "Faithful or unfaithful" every Friday and then the SIC program with the "Juras de Amor", also on Friday, but a time (more) noble. But good, speaking of those programs, which can be said is that both aim to test how far will the love of our faces half the request of a member of the couple. TVI in the program will begin around 11 hours of the night, with red ball ... It forged a situation where normally the job search being tested seized this opportunity to create a very daring interview. The TVI shows (only) those cases successfully, and attempts (through the Brazilian presenter), creating scenes truly deplorable, bad taste and sometimes violent. I cao in relation to this, serious doubts that the scenes are true, because knowing that a TV needs permission to publish images of a person, I do not think that anyone in their right mind leaving out the scenes of seduction, unless have put a lot of money in history. Already the SIC TV program , "Juras de Amor" is less perverse and better prepared ... Although forged a situation that could lead to expensive half tested the slide, are not created scenes of "invitation to bed" and in the TVI, and sometimes even comical situations. Until now the TV's  has shown cases with happy ending ... 
CONCLUSION: We do not serve for more such programs, I think we can at least create a doubt in our mind is what we as true (the guy half of our loyalty, trust, love ...) may not actually be so certain ... But is the advice that anyone can (and should) go by their own tests of loyalty at home and not need much imagination.

Sometimes it is not easy ...

I have always tried, as part of my personality, forward positive ideas and facts in a way that does not think that being gay is synonymous with pain and poor thing ... I have tried ... But it is not always easy ... This weekend that ends today, is marked more by a choice of my parents, who left me sad and disappointed ... They could spend the weekend at my house, since it compulsory to have come to Lisbon for a consultation, but according to my father, could not due to a supposed meeting ... But in returning home to the alleged meeting, changed the course (do not know if it was already planned or not) and have been with my brother where did the weekend go ... If sometimes we can easily circumvent a situation and find excuses to mask a reality that we do not want, in this case in particular there is no way hide or disguise ... It was a clear choice for not being with me ... I bet that my father was the idiot who got the solution ... I bet my mom will be with remorse for having followed the idea ... I bet that if I was willing to take some more drastic actions, that will come to a certainty ... After that, I think I did what was in my power to adapt the idea to prepare for and they take this new reality, and therefore can not continue to be the boy understood that so far has done everything so that relations family were and continue to be a good reality ... Go with this, go to attack, to fight back, and ask the other what they require of me. Enough of hypocrisy ... Either to accept or not accept, and if I think moving from one state to another can take some, do not accept that it is permanently in passage of state ... I just have to conclude that those who pretend to accept until now, have to accept, to me, my relationship with my beautiful and consistent, because for some time now since we are one and we are not "separable". Who has not accepted, as well, do the favor of being happy because surely I will do the same!

How far can and / or should go?

I always thought that in a relationship, when someone loves the other and the distrust or doubt about the sentiment makes sense ... I always thought that to truly love someone ... I think us gays, we know well, know how sex is important and we also know that hundreds go there looking for the goose with a drowning, with several, short, anyway ... I love my beautiful and they do not have the slightest of doubts ... Then my second thought, no I do not know or doubt that it is my feeling and I know it is also ... In theory everything is beautiful, but in practice things are not as clear ... Doubt no doubt of our mutual feelings, but know I can not stop suspicious ... Wonder why? Some things related to the past, and others, which are the result of society and the speed and ease with which things can progress ... My computer has a beautiful net .. I also have ... And both know that NET puts us if you want, in contact with who we want or we look for ... Chat, messenger, blogs, websites ... It is easy to take a touch and add ... And after that, it is there what can happen ... So I think the thought was that at least in practice is difficult to be applied ... I believe that many do not call into question the sense, but the truth is that as human beings, we have our weaknesses ... And you never know, if you go to lunch today, I will not by any chance stumble into someone ... Or if (a) as co-worker will not insinuate with me and pull me to the wall ... Controlling this type of situation is very complicated, and any type of control can become a stone in the shoe of a relationship, creating confusion and misunderstandings ... I am not saying that I will not controlling here and there my pretty, and I know that he must do the same ... But is this correct? Or if not too much is normal? I think we should rather suspicious, to not fully trust, or terms in mind that because they want to or not, on some day, things can change ... If we are not alert, anything can happen ... If we are, but also can happen, you will perhaps change the course of things ...

Will or will not?

I remember the times in which it was made, which looked around me and thought I was different, it had very few gays ... Later, in conversation with some gay men on the internet, they told me "Hey, you already there? Is a nest of them ..."! However I have not fished there ... But then you start to come in the middle, I started to notice certain views and "features" that indicated it was a gay ... It is a phenomenon that also happened to my friends straight after going to a gay bar ... The next day went on the street and thought "Is that it? No. ..!"... I now also much more to this question myself, or when the Beautiful by my side because I feel that I see gays everywhere, ... There is a case recently in my current work, since the first hour seems to me to be gay ... But then put me to thinking that led me to think that ... He is normalíssimo, but is like aum natural feeling ... Is there really? This maturation of ideas, made me see things more clearly, and this is one ...

Today i want to do questions...

Why can not all be happy? It will be unfortunate for many people and be jealous of someone who is happy? Why is the fact that I sleep with whoever is there is someone I have to discriminate? Do not support anyone imagine in the place where she wanted to be? Why is love and live with someone of the same sex can do so much confusion to someone who does not ourselves? Is it because they are afraid that the account of light, water, electricity increase? Why are there no longer friends to talk with a friend gay? Do they have fear of being eaten by wolves or bad because in fact have never been friends? Why not adopt a child, giving him love, affection, comfort and education? Does are better at Casa Pia? Why is at work, in most cases, we must try to maintain secrecy in relation to our sexual orientation? Does that we gays we become unable to work? Why is that a couple of gays can not marry and enjoy the full rights as a hetero couple? Are gays not pay taxes and do not work? Why are sons of bitches that discriminate in this country, bad deal, excluded, doubt their capabilities or ignore the gays in this country? Is it because they have less gray matter and we have no space in his brain to take on this reality, our reality? Come the answers ... :)

Always the prejudices ...

I spoke about the various prejudices that still abound in relation to us, gay, but sometimes I show any bias for certain gay ... I mean ladies and gentlemen of all ages, people over 60 years ... When I see some at night, do me some confusion ... I think this is due to several factors, among them, not being used (I at least) to see older people in some places and then imagine the preversidade these people ... I think it's just a prejudice that I have to overcome, and I try, when I cross with one of these people, imagine that in one hundred years I will be there, or elsewhere, with next to my beautiful and want to ensure that "kids" do not have this kind of idea about me ... Anyway ...

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 10)

It was then decided that it would have to tell my parents of the existence of the "beautiful", perhaps sooner than thought ... It was followed by a time so calm, with no major revelations ... I continued to tell friends and friends should understand that count, I continued to receive normal reactions (ie, accepted naturally), and the days, months went by ... However, in a beautiful the weekend came a complicated situation and predictable, my parents decided to come spend the weekend in my house ... The "beautiful" would be off this very weekend, and obviously did not want to waste that time without him ... It was then that I took another position, which gave a step further, denying the call of my godmother for a dinner with the whole family ... Obviously the invitation does not include the "beautiful" ... Questioned by my mother about my presence in that dinner, answered him: "Do not I go ... I will stay with the _____ you pretend does not exist. Everyone knows that I have someone by my side, and he deserves your respect. For that I will stay with him and I will not dine ..."... My mother was quiet, did not expect this reaction and replied: "... Okay, you know ... And there can always be at your house?", It said "Sure!". She continued: "Okay, then stayed in your house, but tell me something, the _______ will be there ?"... Of course I like answering something like "Yes, of course, I will submit it to you ...!", but unfortunately things are not so, and then answered" No, it will be ... I do not want you forcing him to know, just want the respect and know that I have someone .. ". I think at that moment she was more relieved, and continued saying "Okay, now there is only one more thing, your father does not want to sleep in your room, sleep in the office, you can be?". How should imagine I was surprised by this attitude, but the least of evil, that I was equal me sleep in a place or the other, but I think that the thinking of my father when looking at my bed ... Then came the day dinner (Saturday), and I had already decided what they would do ... (Continued)

Girls, we and & sex

Although little talked about sex in this blog, and after all sex is no shadow of doubt one of the key components for a healthy relationship from continuing ... I always thought that we men in general are more sexual beings that women ... The sex, positions, innovation, freedom, demand, the exploitation is much sought by us that they ... Venture to say that most women do not completely satisfy your partner! But strange, because it is actually a most unusual woman complains of not taking full advantage of the sexual act instead of man ... So as we are? We like them and claim that we are not capable? I do not know how, because the few relationships with women who had not reached that point, but it seems to me that men are afraid of is completely free with your partner ... They did it with the lovers, the whores, prostitutes, but with their women do not or are likely to ask it, or respect, or ashamed ... In many of these cases means that many men seek other men, as it is known that we in our hearts we are one "crazy Ganda" (over them) ... Some evidence and do not want something else and take, others do not want to become something else but will not take and thus deceiving their partner, and few are those who do not like and continue with their normal heterosexual relationship ... Never were your friends with some who say "suck your dick? What horror, I do not think I can do that!!!". But this kind of statement to get across a hot guy, because the oral sex practices that is perhaps most pleased to man ... Obviously I am speaking in general, in regulation, surely there will be exceptions that confirm this rule ... Even I at certain times, before I assume, thought I was just looking for men to find a woman that I never would satisfy the sexual level (no longer think it ...), and that the alternative would be to find the "Ganda crazy" ... I do not know if I did understand .. I hope so ...

Love changes people ...

Today is the day of Easter and here I am to write an article, with a beautiful day out there and with so many things to do outside those four walls ... But the truth is that this year, and perhaps for the first time in my life I decided to stay away from celebrations, the friends and family to stay with the person I love ... Some of you think: "There is more than the requirement ...", as if the fact of loving someone forces us to something ... But no, being gay limits some things in our lives, at least temporarily ... At this time I decided to tell family he was gay, and more recently, he had a "beautiful" only mine, on that day, also made a commitment to myself to leave the background for some things that I thought until then do not change ever, as For example, for being with friends and family on special occasions (like Easter ...) was always in the forefront, not only because they like but also because sometimes it was difficult to justify my absence ... And so today, the first time I am here alone because my beautiful had to go to work ... But sleep late and boyfriends (lunch break) and we have lunch by the sea ... Anyway nothing special but it becomes evident to me because it is a different side that I did not know ... Love gives us back the head, more than I ever imagined ... There are values that we should not abandon such as the love of family and by our true friends, and they hope never to lose ... The Love for "beautiful" is all this love that I feel the other person in a meeting ... Being with him I am well myself, and being good to myself I am well with others ... Not hard to understand? I think it's the love ...

HIV

Well, contrary to the idea that there is widespread in Portugal and other countries, AIDS is there and now with more focus on heterosexuals, at least in Portugal ... It showed what a study done and released a few days ago ... Here an excerpt of the article in PortugalGay.pt and leave a warning: "Condoms They exists for something! Use it!!!" "... According to the National Plan to Combat AIDS, one in every two new infections with HIV occur in sexual intercourse between man and woman, reason for the committee to focus mainly on information Portuguese. In this regard, Melica - Silvestre has already announced it will begin an investigation to one thousand Portuguese, from north to south of the country to know what in fact know about HIV / AIDS. "It is unacceptable that there are people who think that AIDS is transmitted in a handshake" , Said. The survey findings, opinions, attitudes and behaviors related to AIDS since April 2004 "will still enjoy the events Rock In Rio and Euro 2004 to disseminate information about the disease ...." in http://portugalgay.pt/news/index.asp?uid=020404B

Love or need? ...

There are already some time ago, someone my friend told me about her boyfriend: "Sometimes I have doubts, that if he loves me or if he needs from me ...". At the time gave no great importance to the issue, but then, and reflection, also has really happened to me to have this question (though not called this way) and I believe also that many people have thought the same ... When we have someone on our side that one or other reason (no matter ...) is more fragile, less secure, more dependent and therefore is "glue" to us as if we needed to breathe, let us fine with us and even with our ego up there, but there is the other side of the coin, which is that we think that maybe who's on our side, sometimes confuse the need to have cuffs at his side with the person you love is at your side ... Do not believe? ...

With girlfriend or wife, everything is easier ...

Do not believe? Ehehehe ... I do not think, but we have found ... After all, there will be the best way to hide homosexuality than get a girlfriend? Everything is so easy ... We can look at them, because nobody will think that I am looking for a guy with any other intention ... And we agree with the company, not run the risk of being at some time singled out as gay ... But then, the alleged girlfriends, guy, starting to feel a weight on his head ... Increasing ...

Sex with 3 or more guys...

It is not news to anyone, that the gay community is much given the experience together ... Sexual experiences, which have nothing to do with love, in my opinion ... I never experienced and I am not saying that does not have that curiosity, because all the people I know (gays), most of them have already had this experience ... But I have my beautiful and I do not even pass the head share it with someone ... It is mine and mine alone, is mine to the end ... They say that many couples start for this kind of experience to provide more entertainment and its relationship ... But for me, the fact that many people together to make sex always requires more than just the delivery of the body ... Maybe not quite, but ready, I think that sex with 3 or more only when you do not have a "beautiful" on our side ...

Girls & Gays ...

Hello! On Saturday, in the course of a few recordings for a television commercial in which I was involved as actor, I with my colleagues from figuration to discuss the alleged unexplained and empathy among women and homosexuals, in connection with one of the hairdressers that will let all with the distinct feeling of being gay. Obviously listening to the conversation, focus all my attention to the actual conversation - I do not understand why, but it is still a subject that I will investigate, the fact that you are making so well with the gays ... He said one of my colleagues in one of my colleagues ... She replied: - Oh man, they are sensitive, perceive us and advise us with sincerity, unlike women for women, which is able to say that I am not a dress looks good tranches and then go buy the dress she ... He continued: - Well, I see, is like a conversation of it for her, but where it is not a she but a he ... Actually agree ... I have a case of one my friends, tell them that when he was queer, but they surprised, immediately began to tell their amorous adventures ... Felt they were more comfortable, I suppose ... And I think that also has to do with the fact that they do not feel threatened by us because they know that not at risk of a moment's notice being harassed ....

2 Be gay ... is not easy ...!

This article is more than a bubble as to criticize / comment on something ... I do not know if happens (u) with other gays, but to me, since I took things that happened in the beginning were more or less difficult to accept ... Abandon the dream of going to have children was undoubtedly the most complicated for me, but this is a fact that I had to assume, as was the result of my sexual orientation (although it has been able to find some alternative) ... Another thing, and I take before I even passed me by the head, was the fact that it can not, out of the 4 walls of my house, on public roads, can do something as simple as a hug or give a hand to the person I love ... And why? Because of other over the ignorant who are unable to comply with human beings ... It is so absurd that only living this situation we realized how ridiculous it is ... I was never to give in to pressures from retrograde minds and prejudiced, but a fact is that I can not hug my "beautiful" when I'm on the street ... If you read that you're straight and you amaste someone, imagine what prohibit you from giving a hand to your girlfriend in the street? Do you? ... Finally, be gay sometimes is not easy ...

Being bisexual ...

Can find someone like the man sex and sex woman at the same time? I do not think ... I think what often happens is that the prejudice and not want to assume themselves as gay leads to unwittingly continue (or still thinks) the love of women, so that you can always say that "I am not gay, I'm bi!" . I honestly do not believe that a person can be completely happy next to a man and a woman next to ... The two sexes are so different ...

ADOPTION

Yet here this a controversial issue ... Want or do not want to adopt a child by a gay couple, is still not well seen by the majority of its population ... I ask myself, why? It is true that raises issues of ethical and moral, and even educational ... But in essence what we should import all the focus is on the child and that seek to have a home, someone who gives her care, love, to tell stories, that the fondling, which gives her a normal life ... I'm right or wrong? Why look for the least important in these cases and leave the bulk of next? ...

Do you believe in a gay relationship that can lasts long time ...?

Fortunately my relationship with my boyfriend, go with wind in stern, although we have had, like all other couples, our problems .. Some more serious than others, but none with the ability to forget the essence, it is the love that binds us ... There are two years since I took over for me and for others, such as gay ... It is not easy to take this step in our life, especially when we have some dreams that are called into question with this decision-making ... But already passed that stage, fortunately, past and who are these two years already know the best way ... There are many more gay than I imagined, not so much girlfriend, and far fewer marriages ... One thing is certain, homosexual relations are a much more sexual component (in general) than a heterosexual relationship ... This on the one hand facilitates things, in terms of achieving daily living (because everything else does not matter so much), but on the other hand, is (by that I have seen) with that gay relationships last far less than was supposed. .. I do not know if the fault is ours, of gays, or whether we are simply more honest with each other, thus facilitating the breaking of ties more quickly ... Anyway ...