Single Farewells...

Today I was invited to a single farwell for a friend ... Obviously I accepted the invitation and I will make it company with its other friends and family, because I know he appreciates my presence. My beautiful must also go as well was invited, although still due to outstanding issues professionals. I know it will be a

dinner and then go to borga ... On these occasions the borga includes almost always a visit to a strip bar. Is Obviously for me and not the beautiful

have the interest that could have case we were heterosexual. I know that a good strip, is always a show

worth seeing so I will not get there ... But consider the stag (a) a real hassle to have to, as the tradition dictates, just ask boys in the case of unmarried girls in the case of single women. To I'm sure that when you mine this does not exist, the only rule that will prevail is the celebration of friends, or celebrate the end of

a state of grace and the beginning of a state of grace with my friends and friends. Is it to be I think so queer? Rather, the bachelor party for which I have just been invited only have men, and I start thinking, if will know or already know, what think they have a couple homosexual to accompany them ... Will that have the attitudes of real

macho that normally sprout these nights? What should I say when some I approach them with a comment type good woman, right? Let's call her"? This episode brings to mind me `, a

another by which I had to pass, I was to start dating with beautiful ... I work for abroad with a team of the company and this forced me to go to a house strip, and as if that did not come question of giving me a session

private ... How should I imagine incomodadíssimo, but had to accept, and I finally find the experience

interesting point of view that had never seen and no Nor did anything more!

Maybe it's persecution mania again, but the truth is that I that I and not the beautiful

will be comfortable in the farewell ... let's see!

"I'm not lesbian, homo or bisexual!"

Many will say "lesbian and gay" doesn't make sense, and it is true, as a lesbian is a homosexual ... Rather, this phrase I was told yesterday by a messenger on a longtime friend with whom I've a relative proximity ... Going against my suspicions turned out to show me yesterday that he is living with a "special friend" with whom she has a healthy, relaxed and sexual. Although I have stated unequivocally that it immediately afterwards, and has repeatedly said the phrase that serves as title to this post. Not explained to him that being a lesbian is a homosexual, but told him she would not have to worry about the label of their relationship and / or their "sexual identity", what it takes to be happy. At the same time, and coincidentally, saw the replacement of the "Amores" RTP in N, where Gabriela Moita and José Machado Vaz insisted on the idea that this is terrible to give names to all sorts of relationships, often making things more complicated to take. I fully agree, and one thing I am sure: the only truth is that we are all humans and that the purpose of each must be unique and simply the pursuit of happiness to make life have some sense!

G. Force and obviously you have my support!

:))

"I'M GAY !"... "I'm a lesbian!" ... Which the most well received by parents?!

The purpose of a book I read now, and that one other time talk in depth but I read a interesting thesis, and on which never had thought ... Who will be complicated to know about homosexuality of their children, to parents of a gay or parents of a lesbian? Many will say that the shock, orimpact will be the same, but the seen things are not well ...

Says in the book, the parents of a lesbians have more difficulty

return to work within the family ... Now and this why? Because, as we know, from new idea conceived by society is to see the woman as a person who will marry, have children and 'll take care of home leaving career background professional ... Now the men, the society in general expected to be a good boss family that thrive in career and family can provide economic stability to home ... From the moment when the daughter or son take his homosexuality, it is easy to deduce that all these preconceived ideas make no sense leaving Parents confused, disillusioned and many sometimes with a sense of guilt. But analyzing the most detail: in reality (and according to the book) when one man stands out as gay, although Parents abandon the dream of one day come have grandchildren, in fact may even thus, through a supposed success professional, a prominent position overcome the loss and mitigate the most emotions ...In the case of women, everything that the parents expected the family becomes a mirage, increasing the feeling of anger and rejection of parents towards their daughter. This feeling is even stronger his father, who believes that his daughter is indirectly to relinquish their figure (as husband), leading them to think that is itself being set aside ...

I think not to say that been studied for most cases, been the exceptions (which

hopefully will be the general case) confirm this rule ...

:)

For these that many can't be assumed ...

In the past weekend I attended a wedding, as I mentioned, which by chance happened a scene that makes many gays don't have the courage to take ... I speak of if one of the guests, who (as some people know) is gay, and that for the ceremony was accompanied by a longtime friend ... I do not want to lie, and so I guess he is gay (which is what interests me for this post), and that in fact it was one of the inseparable friends of gay men (eheheh) who accompanied him with pleasure ... Well, the middle of lunch, one of her friends reminded them to ask for a kiss with a round of applause to such friends (which for the friend who asked, it did so only out of spite, knowing something, or just to fun) ... He was super embarrassed and uncomfortable, but there eventually gave xoxo to a friend ... In my opinion, these are supposed initiatives innocent (as well as close friends) who writes a gay "unarmed" to the point of being completely discouraged to take something before their (supposedly) close friends ... In other words society is pushing a boy to a reality that is not his, but in the eyes of most is the supposed reality of it ... A friend of mine, who was on my desk was quick to comment "friends? Yes yes ..." you have not even crossed his mind that he might be gay, even though it a couple of gay men in their own table! So do not go there ...