The purpose of a book I read now, and that one other time talk in depth but I read a interesting thesis, and on which never had thought ... Who will be complicated to know about homosexuality of their children, to parents of a gay or parents of a lesbian? Many will say that the shock, orimpact will be the same, but the seen things are not well ...
Says in the book, the parents of a lesbians have more difficulty
return to work within the family ... Now and this why? Because, as we know, from new idea conceived by society is to see the woman as a person who will marry, have children and 'll take care of home leaving career background professional ... Now the men, the society in general expected to be a good boss family that thrive in career and family can provide economic stability to home ... From the moment when the daughter or son take his homosexuality, it is easy to deduce that all these preconceived ideas make no sense leaving Parents confused, disillusioned and many sometimes with a sense of guilt. But analyzing the most detail: in reality (and according to the book) when one man stands out as gay, although Parents abandon the dream of one day come have grandchildren, in fact may even thus, through a supposed success professional, a prominent position overcome the loss and mitigate the most emotions ...In the case of women, everything that the parents expected the family becomes a mirage, increasing the feeling of anger and rejection of parents towards their daughter. This feeling is even stronger his father, who believes that his daughter is indirectly to relinquish their figure (as husband), leading them to think that is itself being set aside ...
I think not to say that been studied for most cases, been the exceptions (which
hopefully will be the general case) confirm this rule ...
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