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2011-01-16T17:11:00.000-08:00

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Calvin Klein Hobby:: Dare!

2011-01-16T17:03:00.000-08:00

Today publishes some of the photos that have already arrived to email me to compete for fabulous Calvin Klein briefs x Earth Elements, offered by the online store http://www.blogger.com/www.underunks.com. Dare and send a photo of yours, then will the readers to choose who should win the prize. The competition ensures anonymity! All information HERE

Summer : Beach : Nudism

2010-08-24T10:20:00.000-07:00

With summer, the beach becomes one of the best places to relax and have a good time!
Two years ago, I was happy with my beautiful, so for the first time at nudist beach ... I loved the point you've made from close friends, even without making these! In my way of seeing things, the problem of not having more people practicing nudism is that people do not assume and accept your body without complex ...
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As for intimacy, I think it makes good sense as a real nude beach (do not speak on beaches coupling) all face the bodies naturally, because it can not be otherwise, we are all alike!

My advice is to experiment, for example, there on the left of the beach "Fonte da Telha" ... But there are so many nude beach, just do a search on the net ... Try it and see that there is nothing better than getting in the water, bathing, walking, without prejudice, as someone put us in the world!

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Sadomasochism...

2010-08-24T10:16:00.000-07:00

I have spoken to so many things on this blog, but I've been reluctant to publish this post ... However, assuming that all curiosity must be sated until we open more to our minds ... But I have to admit that there are certain matters that can not understand in this case specifically, talk about sexual practices ... Sadomasochism is practiced by many people, but I think there are many more that never come to implement their wishes and desires more obscure. However, in my opinion, for what I have seen on websites and even live (in the Sex Fair in Lisbon), I thought that these practices would be bolder to give pleasure in pain, and taking pleasure at least it should reflected in an erection ... or not? Well, these sites live and saw no erection and it makes me mess ... So pleased to have reflected on what? In the brain? Someone please explain to me ...

I leave a link for pictures of sadomasochistic practices, which should only be visited by over 18 years and warning that the images could hurt people more sensitive.

Click HERE if you are over 18 years

Like older men ...

2010-08-24T10:15:00.001-07:00

No need to scour many gay websites or blogs to find new people looking for older partners, or vice versa. For quite some time ago I spoke of my difficulty here is not surprising to see an elderly gay couple exchanging pats, but as I said then, I know, which is merely a prejudice of mine and they always try to overtake. But in fact also see many new boys to ride with you much older ... Of course well known that love knows no age, but excuse me, I can not help thinking, when I see a couple so that the oldest goes to "take advantage" of the younger. I think everyone thought the same thing to see a straight couple under the same circumstances ... The fact I never attracted people much older than me, because while they may have more experience (and this is good) always imagine a clash of generations, attitudes ... Prejudices, it is what it is ... I know I should not think so but nobody is perfect ... In fact the most important is to be happy!

Sex: three or more ...!

2010-08-24T10:13:00.001-07:00

It is not news to anyone that the gay community is much given the experiences together ... Sexual experiences, which have nothing to do with love, in my opinion ... I have never experienced and do not say you do not have that curiosity, because all the people I know (gay), most of them have had this experience ... However I have my Beautiful and I do not even pass through the head to share it with someone ... It's mine and only mine, is mine until the end ... They say many couples leave for such experiments to give more excitement to their relationship ... But for me, the fact that many people together having sex always requires more than just the delivery of the body ... Maybe not quite, but ready, I think the three or more only when you do not have a "Beautiful" by our side ...

Pleasure Elements - Poppers

2010-08-24T10:10:00.001-07:00

WHAT ARE POPPERS?

"Poppers" is the popular name for various alkyl nitrates, such as isobutyl nitrate, nitrate, butyl, and amyl nitrate. These solvents are nitrate inhalants (which may be introduced into the body by breathing through the nose or mouth) highly flammable.

Previously, the medicine used amyl nitrate in patients with heart problems and was sold in capsules that were broken to release the vapors, (popped in English, thus resulting in the name). But the side effects, such as pressure drop and faint, led to his retirement from medicine. Currently the most common are the poppers nitrate and butyl nitrate, isobutyl. They are sold in shops and fri have a role in increasing sexual arousal.

WHAT ARE THE EFFECTS?

The poppers are used by direct inhalation of fumes sos an open bottle. After inhaling the vapors, the effects are felt within seconds and can last between 1-2 minutes. The effects are characterized by the relaxation of the muscles surrounding blood vessels, speeding up the heart to pump more blood. The blood is richer in oxygen and when it reaches the brain causes a euphoric effect.

The areas of the anus and vagina are so many vessels are relaxed almost entirely and that the reason that leads to the use of poppers during sex. The intended effects are intense but very briefly lived. Everyone has an intense feeling of dizziness, tachycardia and agitation that lasts a few minutes.

COMPLICATIONS.

Contact the poppers with skin causes irritation and blemishes. Constant use can damage the mucous membranes of the nose and lungs. The poppers can cause side effects such as headaches, dizziness, vertigo, disorientation, fainting, vomiting, loss of erection and decreased blood pressure (hypotension). Also weaken the immune system for several days after use, and as blood vessels dilate, facilitating the emergence of infections, including sexually transmitted diseases (STDs).

Inhalants such as poppers can generate a certain tolerance, especially if used with a weekly frequency over a period of about 1-3 months. Thereafter, the subject will require increasingly larger doses to achieve the same effect. They are not as addictive as other drugs but require attention.

The poppers may lead to overdose and consequently death. Secondary symptoms characterized by nausea, vomiting, fatigue, muscle weakness, stomach pains, sudden drop in blood pressure, tremors, feelings of fear, loneliness and guilt, paralysis of cranial and peripheral nerves, delirium, unconsciousness, coma and death from cardiac syncope.

The poppers are highly flammable solvents. You must keep away from candles, cigarettes and lighters during use. People with a history of heart problems, high or low pressure, brain hemorrhages in the family, anemia or pregnancy should also not use.

Avoid combining poppers with stimulants like amphetamines and cocaine. The risks increase significantly. Combine with Viagra is extremely dangerous, since both substances lower the pressure.

Another important issue to consider in the use of poppers are sexually transmitted diseases. Since its use interferes with the immune system, interfere with the awareness / self-criticism and to be widely used in a sexual context, are directly related to increasing rates of AIDS, and other STDs. You are strongly advised to place the condom before using poppers, so the possible absence of self-criticism will not interfere with the health safety.

As the poppers can cause fainting, always use together. The hangover the next day is similar to alcohol, so swallow lots of water and fruit.

Author: Jorge Marques

How does a transvestite hides the penis?

2010-08-24T10:02:00.000-07:00

I do not know if anyone will think about it, but I believe now that it is a travesty to work, thoroughly lisinha, the question of how to succeed that result? A documentary that gave this week on "All Truth", SIC Notícias, showing the ins and outs of prostitution in the Red Light District in Amsterdam (Netherlands), was a transvestite prostitute to hide the "stuff", but it was so fast that he did not to realize ...

I decided to investigate and publish something today I could find on the net about it ... There is no great thing is sure, but ready, what counts is the intention!

Create, increase or decrease breast is relatively nowadays, already hiding a penis and testicles can be difficult and even painful ...

The easiest method is to buy a so-called "Cache-Fri" in specialty shops. It appears that this object is similar to a slip that flattens the penis, testicles and squeezing it. It seems not very comfortable and can even be troublesome.

The other two methods are known as "Tuck" and "Tape".

TUCK

There is only one place you can hide the penis and testicles, which is between the legs.

Well, the testes (testicles only, without the scrotum) should be pushed with little way into the place where the cold they "collect". If you do not find the site should push themselves to the underside of the abdomen to facilitate and find the spot where perhaps the testes when they were new. The site is still there, and to facilitate can lie down flat on his back with feet flat on the floor and look between the legs, the place to be able to push the testicles. If you still can not find the site, there is a trick that is put up for 5 minutes in a tub with cold water, and even the testicles tend to "disappear" by hiding at the site above.

After achieving this (in addition to merit a prize, hehe!) It will be much easier to pull the penis back after being enough for a few slips Justinho (one, two, three or even four underpants can help).

With practice, this process is relatively quick, and within seconds can be the result presented by Miriam below:

TAPING

This method is very similar to the previous, except that the scrotum instead of being under the penis (where it is pulled back), this method involves the scrotum, the penis, with a ribbon that is wound to the scrotum and penis, giving the feeling of a labia major. This tape is then pulled through the legs. This method is time consuming and requires more care, both in order to tighten the tape to the scrotum and penis so as not to restrict the continuous irrigation, how to use the tape itself. This method allows to urinate sitting down.

Nude beaches in the Algarve ... For when the time change!

2010-08-24T09:55:00.000-07:00

The nude beaches, or naturists, as you want to call it, are increasingly present in our shores ... And thank goodness! Nothing like walking around with everything on aimlessly, without complexes or prejudice, because deep deep down we are all equal! Strolling on a beach in the Algarve, I ended up spending a nudist beach ... I would say also that he had a large number of "radar" in the dunes ... Too many and too blatant ... It is evil, but ready, each man knows himself ... I then decided to extend the "Google Earth Gay" here blog with nude beaches of the Algarve. I think they are all but over if they do please tell. I removed the descriptions and photos of the site Naturism in Portugal. I leave you with a link to each one of them also pass to appear permanently on the sidebar of the blog. I recall that will have to see free and easily install the application "Google Earth" available for download HERE. This is really worth ... Oh, and then may also suggest other sites, mainly the north if they have, because I would like to offer here on the blog ...

Beaches:

Praia da Ilha Armona

Praia Pinheiros

Beach Cabanas Velhas

Praia Meia Praia

Praia das Furnas

Praia do Zavial

Prainha

Praia Beliche

Praia Grande

Elements of Pleasure - POPPERS

2010-08-24T09:53:00.000-07:00

For some time, I want to explore some accessories or practices which may increase sexual pleasure in a relationship, regardless of the genders involved. So take this opportunity to inform me and give my contribution to society "posting" the results of what I looking for ...
The first element of pleasure that I address is the Popers or Poppers. It is an illicit substance, while access to a bottle of Popers is relatively easy. Any Fri Shop has ... bpamsterdaml.gif "The Poppers is a liquid that must be smelled when we want to increase our sexual appetite. The bottles can be larger or smaller, and have a look similar to the side of the figure. Its main purpose muscular relaxation, euphoria , increased sexual pleasure, lightheadedness, dizziness, paleness, hallucinations and intense heat.
What is the history of Poppers? The Poppers was initially created as a remedy for angina (chest pain), but the benefit did not offset because of side effects such as pressure drop.
The liquid is composed of what substance? The active substance is as amyl nitrate, a vasodilator, analgesic and muscle relaxant.
How to use? When in full intercourse, it should open up the bottle, carefully, and should put up one nostril with the "mouth" of the vial and draw two or three times.
What happens? In order to smell the Poppers will feel a strange sensation, like on weed, floating, leaving the mind open and ready for new experiences.:)
It is dangerous to use? So searched the net, is not dangerous, but ... Obviously that can not ingest or inhale the liquid over and over again consecutively. There are reports of vomiting, fainting, severe headache, weakness, respiratory irritation and burns (if contact with skin). It is advisable for those with health problems take more care and advice from someone known in the field. Another problem is quality assurance. A wrong mix could have very harmful effects for health.
It is only for homosexuals? No. Although most who use them are gay, the Poppers can be used by anyone. The fact that it is used as the love drug for gay men, due to the fact that facilitate sexual intercourse, particularly anal, so the poppers has been associated with the gay community. "It enhances the enjoyment and suppresses pain by facilitating the penetration."
What is the relationship between sex and the Poppers? There are several possible answers, including:

- Dilation of blood vessels, ie an extension causes dilation of blood vessels. This increase causes an increase in penis, sensitivity, increased flexibility and facilitates sexual intercourse;

- Orgasm bombast, or is used by many people to achieve an orgasm out of range, going up to the stars, at least for the moment;

- Masturbation, or, as we know there are many people who experience difficulty achieving an orgasm through masturbation. The Poppers facilitate this practice;

- Aphrodisiac, ie Popers facilitates sex with your partner (a) doing the sex reach a point of pleasure rather high. In many cases the popers can be used as "air freshener" room ...
It would be great to have contributions from readers relating their experiences or facts they find to be important on the Poppers.

Self-penetration or auto-fellatio ...

2010-08-24T09:48:00.000-07:00

Well, do not even know if this is the correct name for these social practices ... 've All at least once, men, we should have thought of "stretch" for a scene, masturbation self oral sex, or oral sex itself ... We have talked about so long ago that Marilyn Manson got two ribs to get them done, but the truth is that with the proliferation of home videos quickly concludes that this practice is not so exceptional as it may seem ... There are numerous videos showing just that ... Both practice, self penetration and self-fellatio, require a large penis and give off a vulgar ... I for one can not and I believe that many can not ...

Waxing for Men

2010-08-24T09:39:00.000-07:00

It is not news to anyone that men are increasingly concerned (and rightly so) with their appearance and well being. With this development, also starts to become meaningless as the hair is a task exclusively to women, and that one need not be gay for a man to shave. The hair, which some have too much and others do not see them, are part of us but we are not obliged to put up with them throughout vidaAliás in thousends gyms scattered around, there are very man who ever shave your underarms, legs , chest, etc ...
The shares of pubic hair removal is, however, used less ... I imagine that many will think as I thought, if we are born with hair that is because they are lacking, and what others would think when they saw that it had cut my hair from the penis ... I, by chance or not, when I was little and when I started the crimey born, I remember clearly thinking that did not like the hair, which was much cooler and it looked cleaner without having them. Fortunately, my beautiful helped me to release these small biases and currently cut my hairs and I think the same thing (and now confirm) what he thought when he was toddler. Gay-shaving the anus can also make sense, however, how to do it requires much more care ...

I tried to find the net places in Portugal where it has been made manscaping. Or not looked good or not there really no place that does waxing exclusively male, and I found one or other place where manscaping is made, but is handled very soft, the air leaving an air of taboo and practice little common, almost treated in secret. In Brazil things are more advanced and there are already sites only manscaping, is a case in the Garage Aesthetics.

Still, is not included shaving anal or penis, and do not understand why.
Having said that it is easy to conclude that the easiest for now is to do at home. And how? As we know, there are various techniques, depending on location and sensitivity of where we want to do. Tapes depilatory, depilatory gel, wax and razor few. In the case of the penis, and using my personal experience, with a blade (I use Match 3, step by advertising) normally used to have a beard (not to cut both) is fine. I use scissors to trim the hair around the penis (trimming is the technical name), do choose to shave. In the pouch at the base of the testicles and penis and can use the blade to believe that it is quite easy, and will not be hard to imagine that the penis becomes much more attractive for oral sex or palpation (ehehhehe), but tastes do not argue. As the anus is much more complicated, since it is a very sensitive area (area around the scrotum) and difficult to access by itself.

I urge you not to venture alone because they can actually get hurt, but a companion can help with this task (see short video at the end of the post, demonstration) with a razor and shaving foam, then using beeswax or honey, which to what I read, is the most recommended for those sensitive areas, for not irritate both the skin and weaken the hair and its growth. I saw however many testimonies of the net counting bad experiences due to anal waxing ... At the discretion of each, also costs nothing to try ...

To be able to see and evaluate, who has not seen, I leave here some photos that depict (or intend to portray) a few examples on the subject:

- Penis trimmed (Trimming);
- Penis completely shaved;

- Hairy Ass

- Anus little hairy;

- Anus shaved

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A PHOTOGRAPH... TO THE PENIS!

2010-08-24T09:26:00.000-07:00

I hope this information serves to dissolve any doubts ... To assist and facilitate the reading, the picture is presented by points:

TITLE

As is known, often we are ashamed or think is lack of education, but the truth is that he is known by many names: piss, dick, truncheons, hammers, cocks ...

CONSTITUTION

The penis externally, consists, as can be seen in the figure by - Foreskin, which is the skin that surrounds the end of the penis, the glans - glans, which is the end (or pponta) of the penis - Brake, who holds the foreskin - meatus, orifice on the glans, which is the end of the urethra - the urethra, which is the channel that runs from the bladder to the meatus, where it is expelled by the urine and sperm - the shaft, which it begins where it ends the glans to the base of the penis.

SIZE

When talking about penis, which usually first awakens curiosity is the size ... It is often cause for laughter and joy, but when someone questioned about the size (especially women) is normal to say that size does not matter, but how it is used, the perspective of talking about sex. But it is usually with friends and porn films is made comparisons, but it is to remember that movies are movies and not always what we see is reality. Beyond the excitement, the hot water, shower, all increase the size (erection), and instead, the cold makes it almost disappears (flaccid)! Ehehehe! Several studies have shown that most men have penis erection between 13 and 17 cm long, standing on average at about 15 cm.

ERECTION

The erection is one phenomenon that often we can not explain ... The penis when erect, becomes hard and achieves its larger size, and that sometimes leaves us in complicated situations :) But as it is in fact an erection? Well, inside the penis is a tissue much like a sponge that sometimes, for various reasons, fills with blood causing it to harden and increase in length and width.

MASTURBATION

One of my friends once said "A wank a day, gives health and happiness !"... "Punheta", in portuguese, the name by which he is best known male masturbation, is without any doubt, in general, the first sexual intercourse ... My first, left me a little stunned, but then ... Well then, is to use and abuse! :)) Masturbation is essentially about involving the penis in one or both hands to rotate back and forth. Most men have their first contact with masturbation since adolescence. It is a time of discovery and change. There are several myths that discourage the practice of masturbation, however there is no scientific evidence that masturbation can cause negative consequences from that practiced in moderation.

EJACULATION

Ejaculation coincides with the point at which the man / woman has an orgasm. There are those who suffer from premature ejaculation, or ejaculation happen very quickly, without checking, not coinciding with the partner's orgasm ... Ejaculate, or "come up" happens often unwittingly, especially at night when we sleep, most often in adolescence ... They are called wet dreams, very natural and should not be ashamed of.

CIRCUMCISION

Circumcision is a common operation, made many men and that is to be removed from the skin of the foreskin that covers the glans penis, usually under local anesthesia in adults and children in general. Previously had an indication for the hygiene and lost adherents in recent years and is currently almost exclusively of patients with phimosis.

AESTHETICS

The aesthetics of this case is also linked to hygiene ... I believe that many men like me, think or thought that cut / shave the hair is not something that should be done by changing the appearance seen as normal and that could mean a loss of masculinity ... Something that also raised questions is how one should shave / cut hair, and in this respect nothing easier than an ordinary razor blade, and believe me it does not hurt! The difference between cutting / shaving the pubic hair or not (also known as "crimey"), is in my view, between a person feel more clean and "light" and have a "scrub" that apart from providing more sweating in zone becomes too unsightly and can lead to the partner gets her mouth invaded hair ... Ehehhehe! And in hindsight, after serving for pubic hair?

To be Gay's becoming fashion?

2010-03-19T10:34:00.000-07:00

Like it or not, but it makes me look like that being gay is now being trendy! Since it was rumored about now our Prime Minister Jose Socrates about his alleged homosexual relationship, began to proliferate on television the cases if gay ... They appear in the novels Portuguese in Brazilian soap operas and more recently in television programs. Indeed, lie, they have always been on television more or less camouflaged! But now there are some who decided to come out to the Portuguese people to his homosexuality, and doing so make us some money ... I can only conclude therefore that is to be gay, and who knows if one day does not do the same! Ehehehe! Meanwhile, and as millions follow the novels that invade our homes via television in prime time, I can only hope that with so much gay as overshadowed minds begin to look for us in another way! :)

Blog Surveys - You think that homossexuality is...

2010-03-16T17:28:00.000-07:00

At the time I decided to do this survey, wanted and believed that the responses attributed thehomosexuality of an individual to fruit of education, disability / illness and influences were the least voted ... This proved to be taking in all three responses obtained 15% of the vote. I knowwell that this blog should be visited mainly by homosexuals, but still must certainly be more than 15% of those not they are ... Still think the percentage obtained with a little and demonstrates the lack on this subject that many people still have. But those who think and believethat some of these responses is correct to say that these be homosexual is as natural as beingheterosexual, is not something that chose not decided, because if it did believe that mostwould choose to be heterosexual and to avoid the "complications" that the fact that being gay in entails.Since the two most voted, that is, homosexuality is something genetic and / or is as natural as being heterosexual obtained the majority of votes, 26% and 59% (85% of total votes) respectively. My opinion is also by these two, and vote, vote in two, and why? In my view the thing, the hetero / homosexuality is the result of our genes we inherit from our parents, and is as natural as to be heterosexual. For example, in my family, as I mentioned earlier, the same side (same class) of my descent are known 3 cases of homosexuality and I still I suspect another case ... However, the one two, or just about coincidence or whether there is something of genetic ... And many will say that was genetic then there would be homosexuals, but the truth is that the Homosexuality has existed since are human, what happens is that many (perhaps most) does not assume homosexuality leading a life a farce, eventually finding their life with a woman having children (gay or not) and many time jumping around throughout the life ... Therefore difficult to know whether genetic or not, while there is a most of which fails to take its homosexuality.CONCLUSION: Analyzing the results is is obvious that a satisfactory result, at least from my point of view, and I hope that these 15%, hence to some time, change their minds and see thehomosexuality as it would be seen, naturally!

Single Farewells...

2010-02-18T11:33:00.000-08:00

Today I was invited to a single farwell for a friend ... Obviously I accepted the invitation and I will make it company with its other friends and family, because I know he appreciates my presence. My beautiful must also go as well was invited, although still due to outstanding issues professionals. I know it will be a

dinner and then go to borga ... On these occasions the borga includes almost always a visit to a strip bar. Is Obviously for me and not the beautiful

have the interest that could have case we were heterosexual. I know that a good strip, is always a show

worth seeing so I will not get there ... But consider the stag (a) a real hassle to have to, as the tradition dictates, just ask boys in the case of unmarried girls in the case of single women. To I'm sure that when you mine this does not exist, the only rule that will prevail is the celebration of friends, or celebrate the end of

a state of grace and the beginning of a state of grace with my friends and friends. Is it to be I think so queer? Rather, the bachelor party for which I have just been invited only have men, and I start thinking, if will know or already know, what think they have a couple homosexual to accompany them ... Will that have the attitudes of real

macho that normally sprout these nights? What should I say when some I approach them with a comment type good woman, right? Let's call her"? This episode brings to mind me `, a

another by which I had to pass, I was to start dating with beautiful ... I work for abroad with a team of the company and this forced me to go to a house strip, and as if that did not come question of giving me a session

private ... How should I imagine incomodadíssimo, but had to accept, and I finally find the experience

interesting point of view that had never seen and no Nor did anything more!

Maybe it's persecution mania again, but the truth is that I that I and not the beautiful

will be comfortable in the farewell ... let's see!

"I'm not lesbian, homo or bisexual!"

2010-02-09T11:28:00.000-08:00

Many will say "lesbian and gay" doesn't make sense, and it is true, as a lesbian is a homosexual ... Rather, this phrase I was told yesterday by a messenger on a longtime friend with whom I've a relative proximity ... Going against my suspicions turned out to show me yesterday that he is living with a "special friend" with whom she has a healthy, relaxed and sexual. Although I have stated unequivocally that it immediately afterwards, and has repeatedly said the phrase that serves as title to this post. Not explained to him that being a lesbian is a homosexual, but told him she would not have to worry about the label of their relationship and / or their "sexual identity", what it takes to be happy. At the same time, and coincidentally, saw the replacement of the "Amores" RTP in N, where Gabriela Moita and José Machado Vaz insisted on the idea that this is terrible to give names to all sorts of relationships, often making things more complicated to take. I fully agree, and one thing I am sure: the only truth is that we are all humans and that the purpose of each must be unique and simply the pursuit of happiness to make life have some sense!

G. Force and obviously you have my support!

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"I'M GAY !"... "I'm a lesbian!" ... Which the most well received by parents?!

2010-02-08T10:43:00.000-08:00

The purpose of a book I read now, and that one other time talk in depth but I read a interesting thesis, and on which never had thought ... Who will be complicated to know about homosexuality of their children, to parents of a gay or parents of a lesbian? Many will say that the shock, orimpact will be the same, but the seen things are not well ...

Says in the book, the parents of a lesbians have more difficulty

return to work within the family ... Now and this why? Because, as we know, from new idea conceived by society is to see the woman as a person who will marry, have children and 'll take care of home leaving career background professional ... Now the men, the society in general expected to be a good boss family that thrive in career and family can provide economic stability to home ... From the moment when the daughter or son take his homosexuality, it is easy to deduce that all these preconceived ideas make no sense leaving Parents confused, disillusioned and many sometimes with a sense of guilt. But analyzing the most detail: in reality (and according to the book) when one man stands out as gay, although Parents abandon the dream of one day come have grandchildren, in fact may even thus, through a supposed success professional, a prominent position overcome the loss and mitigate the most emotions ...In the case of women, everything that the parents expected the family becomes a mirage, increasing the feeling of anger and rejection of parents towards their daughter. This feeling is even stronger his father, who believes that his daughter is indirectly to relinquish their figure (as husband), leading them to think that is itself being set aside ...

I think not to say that been studied for most cases, been the exceptions (which

hopefully will be the general case) confirm this rule ...

For these that many can't be assumed ...

2010-02-04T12:39:00.000-08:00

In the past weekend I attended a wedding, as I mentioned, which by chance happened a scene that makes many gays don't have the courage to take ... I speak of if one of the guests, who (as some people know) is gay, and that for the ceremony was accompanied by a longtime friend ... I do not want to lie, and so I guess he is gay (which is what interests me for this post), and that in fact it was one of the inseparable friends of gay men (eheheh) who accompanied him with pleasure ... Well, the middle of lunch, one of her friends reminded them to ask for a kiss with a round of applause to such friends (which for the friend who asked, it did so only out of spite, knowing something, or just to fun) ... He was super embarrassed and uncomfortable, but there eventually gave xoxo to a friend ... In my opinion, these are supposed initiatives innocent (as well as close friends) who writes a gay "unarmed" to the point of being completely discouraged to take something before their (supposedly) close friends ... In other words society is pushing a boy to a reality that is not his, but in the eyes of most is the supposed reality of it ... A friend of mine, who was on my desk was quick to comment "friends? Yes yes ..." you have not even crossed his mind that he might be gay, even though it a couple of gay men in their own table! So do not go there ...

DRILLING IN THE BLOG IV - Do you think a (couple) homosexual should be able to adopt a child?

2010-01-30T06:14:00.000-08:00

More a survey by I completed, with a total of 101 ratings, based on the question "Do you think a (couple) homosexual be able to adopt a child?". The results of this survey let me obviously happy, where a clear majority to support possibility of adoption by of (couples) homosexual ...But good analysis is then results in detail:The most determined and who see any chance of the homosexuals can see any days to adopt children represent 10% of voters. Already other 15%are less drastic and voted a "no" showing so that in future the opinion may change ... There are still 28% who have doubts and open the hypothesis adopted by homosexuals would depend that some factors. Response winner of the poll is "Yes" which collects 47% of the vote. CONCLUSION: It's difficult to conclude more than 70% of people approve with or without restrictions adoption of children in Portugal by homosexuals. Not deny that it makes me happy and to believe that perhaps, unlike many think, the law may be changed more quickly

imaginable. In my opinion, if we focus on that really matters in this subject, namely the well-being physical and psychological development of children, I don't understand complicated any child yearns to have a home with all the facilities and well be possible. If there's a father, mother, two fathers, two mothers, an uncle, an aunt is in my see the side of this issue. There will surely gay that will not be able to adopt a child, but I hope that maybe there adoptive couples more than have these conditions, but still are privileged person in adoption procedures.

There's something in womans that much envy me...

2010-01-29T10:20:00.000-08:00

... that's the fact that only they can pass through the unique experience of pregnancy and have a child. I mention this because this weekend was the wedding of two longtime friends, among many other guests, and the truth is that because of several couples they married a short time ago, the children are a constant in conversations ... Some pregnant, others to try and with some other less pleasant experiences. But it's nice seeing a new mother, speaking of his experience with a twinkle in his eye and one very special ... I just thought to myself "How I'd like to also be able to go through this experience." But he wanted to, who we "invented" that only women have that privilege and on that there is not even nothing to do. And by chance I'm at a stage where several friends go through these experience (some already future parents, others try to be our parents, other daddies and others in which things did not go very well), and that makes the conversations very interesting.. And even here we (society) try (often with good intention) poking your nose when asking for a baby without knowing sometimes what is really happening and that this simple question can cause enough embarrassment to the couple. I have said several times that on the day I came out as gay a few of the things that hurt me most was knowing that the dream of having a child would have to be put aside, at least as "normal" is designed as a baby. .. Many think that even so all is not lost, and this is true ... This weekend, the dormant desire of having a child has to be agreed, and the adoption was again a part of my daily thoughts .... We shall see! :)

Grilfriends?!?! But... How was it possible?!

2010-01-27T14:16:00.001-08:00

This was one of the doubts of many of my friends had when knew that I was gay... In fact, I always lived surrounded with woman, but were just friends, except some... Naturaly, I had girlfriends, and this raised the question "So, how you had girlfriends, if you're gay??!?!"... Right, I think that this happens because all of us (generally of the society) pushes us to womans, becoming the fact of haven't girlfriend reason to suspects or doubts. Now, as I always wanted to hide the fact that I'm gay, nothing better than trying to have a girlfriend... But it doesn't work, I dated with Cristina, with Sara and with Susana (a few hum...) and, in fact, the things doesn't worked and believe me that one of them was everything I would want for me... But nature doesn't forgives, and was having always something that was missing to complete the relationship. Actually I'm a big friend of all of they, and they accepted very well the fact that I'm gay, and, in some cases, it served to clarify some situations... And you ask: "And how was that relationship, it was one normal love and sex relationship?", and I answer that I think that would be much more love (or a strong feeling that I used to call love) than sex, even because in relation to sex, things never went very well...

"OFF THE RECORD" Comment - Crisis

2010-01-27T06:21:00.000-08:00

Who has been reading my posts on my blog, sure that already noticed that I'm not a person of swallow injustices and that I alwayes try to give voice to my desires, to my anguishes... So, I think that the best place to express it is right here, even if this subject couldn't be relacionated with the theme of this blog... This first "Off the Record" comment is dedicated to the so known and alson with beards "portuguese crisis". She is always accompanied with her friend "Deficit", that haves a back very wide, and for that, he's alwayes responsible for the setbacks of his nephews, the portuguese politicians. I remembered and I felt will to write about this subject, after I've found that yesterday, on an Lisbon esplanade, while I was having lunch, that the two persons of the two around tables, were commenting (or regreting) the just announced tax increases... And to top it off, two ladies passed around me that were saying ventings that the politicians should steal money from the riches, and not to the poors... To over this sequence, when I just over to have lunch, I went to the kiosk close to the restaurant, e for my admiration, at the first page of a newspaper, Socrates retrated a bit on the announced measures, that withdrew some with some members of the parliament benefits, and that the "Caixa Geral de Depositos" (that in the first three months of this year improved 20% of the profits) is for the next two years isent of paying IRC (tax to the profits of the companies). Nothing am I think in 10 years here (maybe I'm being optimistic) the people that work has been year after year deceived and runaway ... And if there was doubt, it is almost unavoidable to this chaotic situation (which is what at least for now, as in other years past, would have us believe) that we are involved. And who pays for the irresponsibility of our leaders? They? Of course not ... I think we're a country where being a politician is becoming more attractive, and not because their responsibilities are more noble and the challenges are greater.

Spain, 4th country in the world with homosexual marriage and adoption allowed

2010-01-26T13:16:00.000-08:00

Today with all the certainly marked in the gay's memory of Spain, and also to the rest of the world, after finally was approved this morning, on the parliament, the law modification that gives to homosexuals all the same rights as heterosexuals, in respect of the civil marriage and to the child adoption by gays.

While very close here, there's happening the steps in the changing way, very close to the tail of the world...

CONGRATULATIONS to all that want benefit of the approved law in Spain...

About the others, the fight continues...

Because the ignorant people exist...

2010-01-26T10:10:00.000-08:00

I talked about this subject and I don't resign myself... Incidentally, today had a reader that left a comment, referring that I should be in another world, because when he told to his family, he was putted away, alone, and with his image totally dirty... I read also, in PortugalGay.pt that one student was supposedly humiliated and taken by his course classmates, after he assumed his sexual orientation... Really, hat make thinking... Me, fortunately hadn't to pass for none of this situations , but I take my precautions too... When I told to my family I don't knew what would be their reaction, but I searched to do that when I was already independent. This, beyond giving us strength, is also a "joker" that our family could use against us, and I say "joker", because to many parents think that place their son on the street would force him to leave homosexuality. About the telling to the class, there's some data remaining to understand the why of this "communication" and in what circumstances this happened... Unfortunately in this point, I also think that we should leave to the last alternative the act of tell our orientation to our classmates, we've the right of don't tell it...

Of course, when we're go to do it, we should wait all the possible reactions, because tell to our classmates isn't like tell to our friends. Our friends think in us and are faithful to us (the true friends of course!), the mates are too, but they can, at the first opportunity, for merely professional questions use the sexual orientation with the end of prejudice the mate...

I know that we already knew this, but I felt like, after read the stories, leave my testimony of total repudiation for any type of discrimination and to know (and I mean to "know": the moment, who, with any way, prepared for any unexpected reaction...) take to us and to the others our sexual orientation when this will be relevant and important to us. :))

If there were doubts, now there's not anymore...!

2010-01-26T09:18:00.000-08:00

I mean, the manifestation against the homophobia that was realized this weekend in Viseu. Was nice to see on the TV Mr. Viseu's Mayor, saying that he won't admit that Viseu was known as the most Portuguese homophobic city, and came a old man almost drooling of from nerves screaming as one of the demonstrators of the manifestation. And to complete the scene, quickly a lady rush saying "he's right, yes indeed"... We know that this reactions exists in the whole country, but in Viseu there was happening truly lamentable situations, able to do a movie, searching to reject the homosexuals... What else we can say? This is our country, a little hidden, that only moves to support football teams, leaving what really matters to each other life to background. And, as the saying tells "In Rome, be a Roman", maybe there's our way: the people always being stupid and ignorant. This is the being way that the politicians are all happy! :-S

"Estimation Friends" (doubtful)...

2010-01-26T08:49:00.000-08:00

I don't know if the words I'm going to say are true or false, but my experience and the years in that I've meeting very good people, and in all relationships, there's almost always an "estimation friend". I decided to call them like that, but I also could call them "doubtful friends" or other names, but the thing I really want is to refer is friends that cause disagreements in a relationship... That exists in my relationship, and I think that this happens in many other relationships... But what friends are they? I think they're that friends very close to only one member of the couple, where the other tends to see suspiciously. But, curiously that person is normally close to the couple, and although apparently all seems to be okay, in the reality the things are not so like that. The jealousy or the possible threat that we imagine in our head, never pass and always remains, and with the minimal oversight, we're back to charge against the "estimation friend". It will be like that?... To think... :)

Arrábida here so close ...

2009-08-19T15:58:00.000-07:00

Decided to go for a walk, visiting a site near but not yet met. Decided after us, we find on the net, do a tour in the region Arrábida ... I then what impressed me most and the least liked to see:

Strengths

We started the trip from Lisbon, was the first stop in Cape Espichel. A beautiful site, airy and with a phenomenal view over the coast. Already a Igrega of Ms. Cape is also very beautiful she is very well maintained .... Followed by the Castle of Sesimbra ... This offers us a fantastic view of the town of Sesimbra ... Then, with the barriguita hours to the heart of Serra da Arrábida, which stopped at the restaurant "Sea Bar". Good food with some slightly prices topping ... We then, and we were stopping at the Sierra where the view was simply one of which highlight the views of the beautiful beaches of the area (Portinho Arrábida, Figueirinhas ...) and the area of Convent Arrábida. The next house we visited was that of Setúbal, the only baroque castle of Portugal. The castle is really different from all others, but not found particularly nice. Gira was the view of Setúbal and Trojan .. Then for the last tour of the castle, the castle of Palmela. This is better care, and has a fantastic views, which some say make to see the landscape from the Serra de Sintra to Sines ... Frankly we can not confirm this because the landscape was somewhat cloudy. Just the ride to eat some pies from Azeitão in Azeitão it is clear!

WEAK POINTS

When we get to Cape Espichel, obviously the danger that any visitor corresponding to go there, next to huge cliffs ... Examples are two cars that are estatelados downstairs and realize that although it is difficult to get them from there I do not think anything positive ... Then, coming to the beautiful castle of Sesimbra, walking by its solid walls, which withstood many centuries but that we, as gentle and evolve we prefer down to our cars to come ... Arrábida, so beautiful, beautiful, green ... Suddenly, we have to move next to a huge factory in SECIL right in the middle of the mountain ... Another nice part of our ... Finally, already in the castle of Palmela, here we are faced with a pool that was built (it is known there by whom) and in the heart of the castle ... Imesurável our kindness, and then not even try to disguise the real attack on our heritage ... Of course, after a day trip to beautiful, unfortunately the terrible traffic queues to enter the capital Jao was not a surprise: (

See all the posts about trips HERE

INTERNET ... Who is the other side?

2009-08-17T04:28:00.000-07:00

I have already discussed this topic several times here on the blog, and I do not play it again too ... This is because today I received a link via messenger, a known, that showed me a page where you are literally exposed a supposedly personal conversation taken known and widely used in Messenger. These conversations, which now can easily be stored in history may well become embarrassing or even harmful if we do not know what the real intention of those who is on the side of there. It is known that with the proliferation of chat conversations and instant applications, the risk to say or do certain things in the future can come to commit ourselves. This is an example of this, and I think that should motivate us to reflect on the matter. The link that I talk to who is more curious is:

http://www.viriatoweb.com/modules.php?name=Forums&file=viewtopic&t=9

Mariza transparent ...

2009-08-17T04:27:00.001-07:00

There is already for sale, the work of our Mariza, which gave the name "Transparent" ... We got him and I tell you that our expectations were and high, but the girl was once again time to ... It is a delightful disc, where the violins added a new line to your music ... Music 7 of the album, giving it the name, even mix of percussion instruments that give a very transparent tone to the music ... Have the song "Fado Portuguese of us" is an anthem to our traditions, to our luck! And No. 12? Well .. Just listening to it! :)
Do not see the transparency of this new album, will not regret!

Faithful or unfaithful?

2009-08-17T04:24:00.000-07:00

It is impossible to remain indifferent to the new kind of entertainment programs that were begun, first with TVI in the "Faithful or unfaithful" every Friday and then the SIC program with the "Juras de Amor", also on Friday, but a time (more) noble. But good, speaking of those programs, which can be said is that both aim to test how far will the love of our faces half the request of a member of the couple. TVI in the program will begin around 11 hours of the night, with red ball ... It forged a situation where normally the job search being tested seized this opportunity to create a very daring interview. The TVI shows (only) those cases successfully, and attempts (through the Brazilian presenter), creating scenes truly deplorable, bad taste and sometimes violent. I cao in relation to this, serious doubts that the scenes are true, because knowing that a TV needs permission to publish images of a person, I do not think that anyone in their right mind leaving out the scenes of seduction, unless have put a lot of money in history. Already the SIC TV program , "Juras de Amor" is less perverse and better prepared ... Although forged a situation that could lead to expensive half tested the slide, are not created scenes of "invitation to bed" and in the TVI, and sometimes even comical situations. Until now the TV's has shown cases with happy ending ...
CONCLUSION: We do not serve for more such programs, I think we can at least create a doubt in our mind is what we as true (the guy half of our loyalty, trust, love ...) may not actually be so certain ... But is the advice that anyone can (and should) go by their own tests of loyalty at home and not need much imagination.

ZOOM IN II :: The anus!

2009-08-17T04:18:00.000-07:00

And here is the second post that you want to take a "photograph" the something that I think deserve or be interesting ... This time, the anus (butt, ass or whatever you want to call), is the focus of this post ... Why the anus? Well, as you know, the anal sex is a type of practice implicit in a homosexual relationship, although it is practical for homosexual and heterosexual couples. But not all feel as we can through the anus, have some kind of pleasure, which is the channel output of excrement ... Well, I hope to read this post that doubt is removed!

Li, I did a search on the Internet, the following sentence: "Men also feel pleasure and not necessarily gay anal." This sentence raises several questions, which will, as in the previous post (this series) trying to divide by subject ...
CONSTITUTION It is anus and the hole, the outer edge of the rectum. This is circumscribed by a circular muscle (anal sphincter). The anal canal connects the anus to the colon (large intestine) which provides the penetration. Figure ilucidar can describe what I have.

The anal sex anal sex can provide moments of real pleasure, both the man and the woman. It is perhaps one of the most feared practices due to fear of pain. There are, as I said, ways to reduce or completely eliminate the pain and enjoy the pleasure that this type of penetration provides. It is known that man (especially the straight) is very embarrassed to take that would like to try, or if they have partners who are providing this kind of pleasure through the introduction of the finger in the anus. There are many positions for anal penetration, the couple must find a position that most favors them.

WHAT IS THE ORIGIN OF PLEASURE? The pleasure is caused by stimulation of the prostate. This is slightly above the anus. When there is penetration, the penis to put pressure on the wall of the rectum, this stimulates the back of the prostate. This. as shown in the figure is similar to a small hamburger. It is a point, which may cause a man to orgasm, and that only through the penetration can be achieved. CARE TO BE TAKEN BEFORE ANAL SEX:

1. Cleanliness. Bathe before the relationship can help make them more relaxed and at ease, creating a stimulating atmosphere of intimacy, in addition, the cleanliness provides increased security against contamination;

2. Nails. Keep nails clean and trimmed; Lubrication. Use lubricant gel, that prevents pain and injury;

3. Preservative. ALWAYS USE! The friction of the penis in the rectum can cause light scratches, and it facilitates the contamination by bacteria, causing serious illness;

4. Lubrificant. The lubricants are sold in shops and some pharmacies sexy. Some already contains anesthetic.

Medical ... And the training?

2009-07-02T09:47:00.000-07:00

This time I speak of something that affects us all and the afflicted, to health. In this broad theme, I focus on me in our medical profession, about the matter raised in the "Love" that I saw yesterday on TV, with Júlio Machado Vaz Grabiela and Moita. Gabriela said it is a completely unacceptable that a health professional discuss the sexuality of their patients with a question like "have you girlfriend?". This short and simple question itself shows a bias and a (natural) to address and on the assumption that whoever is ahead of us is heterosexual ... Nothing more wrong, and then fully agree with the view of Gabriela ... To whom is gay and for some reason have difficulty in assuming that the worst that can happen is someone in whom he would rely, from a principle so discriminate ... Gabriela said still, that the fault is not only of health professionals, the training they receive in college, does not address how to how to address the professional a given topic, in this case sexuality with their patients and how should lead the dialogue ... Still fully agree!

And yet about it, and by total coincidence, today (unfortunately) had to drive me to a health center of my desktop, due to intense pain in the back. I confess that I always have some fear, as I happen to most people in this country, the way will be met and who I will go out in the "raffle". There I was, and I in a little over 10 minutes was being served ... Tell you now as this consultation with Dr. Margarida Rodrigues: (U.S.) - Morning ... (SHE) - Good day! Sit ... How old are you? (U.S.) - I have 28 years ... (SHE) - Not included in this center why? (ME) - Although I am not signed up, and this is not my area of residence ... (SHE) - There is a family doctor? (ME) - No. .. I had but now I have! (SHE) - But you must get ... Where is placed? (ME) - I entered the village where I lived ... (SHE) - But look here, you must register and get a family doctor! (ME) - Yes .. (SHE) - What if complaint? (ME) - I have back pain ... (She begins to write immediately ...) (SHE)-But it is local or extends to the rest of the body? (ME) - is local ... (SHE) - Want to shot? (I was with the question ...) (ME) - Excuse me? (SHE) - Want to shot? (ME) - I do not understand ... (SHE) - So, do not come here to get an injection for pain? (I could not disguise my numb... I chapfallen ...) (EU) - I came here to learn what I have in the back ... (Answer pushing it a role in my direction ...) (SHE) - Ahhh. But here there is no analysis of the problem. You must do this in a family doctor ... Thank you and best, you got the recipe. (Watch for the recipe, and had four boxes of who knows what is there to go buy, and left) (EU) - Morning ... You hear many stories of these, but when we ourselves gives us to think ... Gabriela spoke to (and very well) lack of training in the approach of the patient regarding their sexuality ... Because this case was not personal or professional training (or at least the doctor did not apply at all) to receive me ... Could have staged at least some interest in my case, the feeler or watching my back ... But no, these are professionals we have, and unfortunately that is the idea that only a minority can not be included in this bag ... And I will receive with the story wrong, or have poor working conditions ... This case that presence today was purely and simply an "be spray is for the person who was sitting there ... And this is for me a matter of personality, good sense and education. I forgot (how to forget the majority of the Portuguese) that I have the right to be assisted, because taxes pay for this, and that although this is normal in our country we should never forget that this is not at all treatment for any patient deserved! So it should have left my indignation at this Yellow Book, but I do not remember .. Stay here to register! :)

PORTUGUESE GAY BARS IV - "FINALMENTE", Lisbon

2009-07-02T09:27:00.000-07:00

This was the second gay bar I met ... A well known bar in Lisbon, because of their known and good shows to transform ... This is also, in my opinion, the only reason to take some pleasure in that bar ... It is obvious that most searches for other pleasures, this bar of Lisbon and close to Royal Prince ...

But well, starting with the beginning ... When entering, we immediately in a small hall, where the gate gave the password to use ... Turning the door giving access to the bar itself, and the first impression we get is that the bar is a little dark and very small ... This feeling extends itself throughout the night, it is not just a feeling, it is a reality! On the right corner is a little higher level which later will be the concerts ... Otherwise there is not much to say, only that from the two hours, anything less something more, starts to fill the house ... Fills, fills and fills ... And then there is beginning to another show, which lasts throughout the night, which is another factor in the success of the bar: the apalpões and engatanços, almost as a natural consequence of being everyone is well tight.

I do not advise this very bar, do not like ... Only shows of processors are really a good reason to go there! :))

Another trip ... A further tightening in the heart ...

2009-07-02T09:24:00.000-07:00

Oh man, I like what I tell it so different ...

I am now without lying next to my beautiful ... Beyond the wall I have in my back, my father slept and my mother ... Understand?

However talk to more than anything in my messenger again and rebut the facts and feelings that cause we are not together tonight, and the truth is that there is no progress in this field.

But inside me there is something that changes, I feel you ... When you love someone, this "fight" between the mother and the beautiful, love these two as equal and so different, wanting and not wanting this, there is almost lead me crazy ... Today in the afternoon, while I and my mother were in the room, so close and alone (which will be rare in recent years), I felt what we hurt the heart: not able to be ourselves and talk and do what we like ... I do this almost all the time with my beautiful and with my friends, and now, with it, I can not do ... I share both with her the beautiful moments I have lived and what makes me to be very happy ... But I can not ...!

I am increasingly tired of this ... I think the fair is beautiful "away" to give rise to any family and it seems that every day, I a step towards a cliff that I oblige or to stop or skip ...

GGGRRRRRRR .... Heard yesterday about this, in "Short Conversations" Women of SIC in an interview with the psychologist who is the same station a program together with José Machado Vaz and the unconditional fan I am, saying that she had chosen as their area of research led to the fact that homophobia ... Said that she did not understand, so have decided to deepen the theme, how could a thing so insignificant in the lives of people, or the sex of the person we love, create feelings so strange and incomprehensible ...

But well, it was just a situation that increasingly less and I repeat that increasingly leads me to think that my dream may never come to be held ...

But as hope is the last to die ....

Employment, again...

2009-07-02T09:21:00.000-07:00

I return to speak in this important matter, for two reasons: There is a new survey on employment and discrimination that may come to us as gays take this blog in which I am grateful to leave your vote and yet still have a problem because in my job that I said a few days ago ...

I wonder when that started to feel confidence in our colleagues and they share some of its intimacy with us, or should not enter the same wavelength and open the game with respect to our sexual orientation? Because so much of the family conversation, I left three alternatives: 1 - Tell the truth, 2 - and 3 lying - Skip ... Obviously the answer is more natural because the default (and agree) nobody has anything to do with our intimate life, but believe me ask how you call my girlfriend is not in itself an intrusion into my life .. . But the truth is that this simple question me (us) to put the three alternatives mentioned that ...

Which to choose?

Having gay friends ...

2009-07-02T09:18:00.000-07:00

Some time ago I commented here on my blog that I have healthy hetero friends and chat with those that may be more "healthy" than with gay friends or couples. I never had gay friends, as I think should happen to many people ... And so on! The fact of having "entered" in the gay world and currently have a stable relationship with my lovely, not meant an increase in my sphere of friends, in this particular case, I refer to gay friends. My beautiful for its part, the few who had lost with the passing of time. Maintain a single gay friend ... Comment a few days ago that, and we conclude that it would be a more healthy gay friends ... I guess not, but it does not cost much, or at least we think not so much freight, get out sites for gays with gays that straight out with friends. Is always that feeling that we are "forcing" (when this starts to applicant) the bar straight to our friend ...

But it now becomes complicated arrange gay friends ...

MADRID by night!

2009-06-04T03:13:00.000-07:00

To complete the posts dedicated to our trip to Madrid, leaving a final assessment of the gay night in Madrid ...

It is clear that all days were the days and night out ... We were both curious to know the night of Chueca, and then on the first day, still trying to resist the curiosity try to be more there in the area of the Plaza Mayor, but the failure to find a clever site or simply by not resist the curiosity, and soon got the metro towards Chueca. To our disappointment, perhaps because it Monday, or perhaps because of the drizzle, the truth is that few people to wander through through the narrow streets of the district of Chueca. And had not planned to leave for Chueca, started to look a little slapdash places ... The following days were further visits to the bars of Chueca, but with some defined ideas! I now, in a summary form, an assessment to bars and restaurants we visited and that marked me most:

Bazaar Bonito-restaurant, minimalist, in shades of black and white, with a super friendly environment, and a reasonable price, with reasonable food too;

LA TORJE-A great place for a pleasant conversation, in a well decorated, quiet and very good atmosphere;

LL SHOW BAR - We like and repeat ... Mainly by the relaxed atmosphere, the animation of travecas residents, the strippers who were emerging and being one of the only bars that I had someone by 11am;

BLACK & WHITE - a first attempt, on the 2nd Monday, but left disappointed ... Back in the 5th Sunday, when the environment is even more appealing, blatantly showed us the dark side of prostitution, where several young people trying to align itself with several seniors who were there;

STRONG - The bar with the largest dark room in Madrid ... With a sticky floor, spacious, dark but with a good sound, worth the experience to enter the labyrinths of the dark room, which to me personally, leave me a little nervous;

EAGLE-The bar we visited more hard ... Sex live among customers who go into the bar ... Many kibitzer ... Interesting for knowledge of a world completely promiscuous. PS: I leave a note to the store "A DIFFERENT LIFE" with a wide variety of articles, books and "Recuerdos" GLBT.

A very interesting sign!

2009-06-04T03:06:00.001-07:00

This sign that you show was seen by me and my beautiful in the neighborhood of Chueca in Madrid ... We are amazed by this sign, that suppose, not yet part of the new code of the road that has now come into force in Portugal ... :))

Spanish Capital :: MADRID

2009-06-04T03:01:00.000-07:00

As planned, there were 21 days towards the Spanish capital: MADRID. We went by car, and take 4h30m to say, in passing, it did very well. Apollo also reach the board was not difficult, with the help of the map to remove the www.maporama.com (I strongly recommend that site for collection of maps and routes). Get a lugarito a parking near the road (2? For 2 hours), and entered the pension ... As the site showed (http://www.aptmadrid.com/apolo.html), the pension is renewed, and still smelled the works ... No luxury, but with a price / location / quality reasonable. Then we went by the popo in a public park that had the underground 100m of the pension where we were charged 15 euros per day. And there we start our program of visits ... I followed the strengths and weaknesses and I think by pointing out:

Strengths

- The Royal Palace, impressive, especially for the Royal arm on display;

- The "Guernica" by Picasso, explained in the Centro de Arte Reina Sofia;

- The Royal Convent of barefoot, where the tour guide provided a very rich and interesting;

- The card meters "MetroBus, which for only 5euros gives us access to ten trips in the metro network of the city;

- The CHUECA, one of the best known gay neighborhoods of Europe ... It was a great experience the nights we spent there (all), and the atmosphere very relaxed and liberal.

WEAK POINTS

- The foul odor, which will smell for almost the entire part;

- Lack of hygiene, the "taverns" and many tourist attractions;

- The total indifference and lack of effort for us, tourists;

- The lack of spectacular attractions.

In short, visiting Madrid was a good experience but not an unforgettable experience. Compared to Barcelona, and in my opinion, I think the most interesting and beautiful city of Barcelona. Pena does not have a CHUECA, which from our point of view (or were not gay) was perhaps the most positive of the trip.

Penis :: Zoom in

2009-06-04T02:45:00.000-07:00

I hope this information serves to dissolve some doubts ... To assist and facilitate the reading, the picture is displayed points:

DESCRIPTION

As is known, often we feel shame or be a lack of education, but the truth is that he is known by many names: Pilas, pirocas, pirilaus, Pissis, mangalhos, marzápios, bricks, hammers, fuckers ...

CONSTITUTION

The penis, externally, consists, as shown in the figure, by: - foreskin, which is the skin that involves the tip of the penis, the glans - glans, which is the end (or pponta) of the penis; - brake, which holds the foreskin - Meatus, hole in the glans, which is the end urethra - urethra, which is the channel that runs from the bladder to the meat, which is expelled by the urine and sperm - Body of the penis, which begins where the ends to the base of the glans penis.

SIZE

When it comes to penis, which usually arouses curiosity in the first is the size ... It is often cause for laughter and joy, but when someone asked about the size (especially women) say it is normal that the size does not matter, but how it is used, the perspective of talking about sex. But it is usually with friends and porn films are made comparisons, but to remember that movies are movies and not always what we see is reality. Beyond the excitement, the hot water, the shower is to increase the size (erection), and by contrast, the cold makes it almost disappear (flaccid)! Ehehehe! Several studies have shown that most men have penis erection in between 13 and 17 cm in length, with the average around 15 cm.

ERECTION

The erection problem is that they often do not know explain ... The penis when erect, becomes hard and achieves its larger size, and sometimes leaves us in complicated situations such as photo ... :) But as in fact an erection? Well, inside the penis is a tissue much like a sponge, sometimes, for various reasons, is filled with blood so that it tightens and increases in length and width.

Masturbation

"Punheta," by which name is best known for male masturbation, is without any doubt, in general, the first sexual ... My first, I am a little surprised, but then ... Well then, is to use and abuse! :)) Masturbation is basically to involve the penis in one or two hands and do the movements and will come. Most men have their first contact with masturbation since adolescence. It is a moment of discovery and change. There are many myths that curb the practice of masturbation, however there is no scientific evidence that masturbation can cause negative consequences from that practiced moderately. The ejaculation ejaculation coincides with the point where the man / woman reaches orgasm. Some people suffer from premature ejaculation, or ejaculation to happen very quickly, without checking, not coinciding with the partner's orgasm ... Ejaculate, or "come up" often unintentionally, especially when you sleep at night, most often in adolescence ... Are called wet dreams, very natural and should not be cause for shame.

Circumcision

The circumcision is a common operation, made the many men and that is to be removed from the skin of the foreskin that covers the glans of the penis, usually under local anesthesia in adults and children in general. Previously had an indication for hygiene and less fans in recent years and is currently almost exclusively of patients with phimosis.

AESTHETICS

The aesthetics in this case, is also linked to health ... I believe that many men, as I think or thought that the cutting / shaving the hair is not something that should be taken to change the look as normal and that could mean a loss of masculinity ... Something that raises questions is how to shear / cut the hair, and in this respect nothing easier than an ordinary sheet of shaving, and not believe it hurts! The difference between cutting / shaving pubic hair or not the ( also known as "pintelhos"), is in my view, between the person feel more clean and "light" and have a "scrub" that in addition to providing more sweating in the area becomes unsightly and can also lead to the partner is invaded by mouth hair ... Ehehhehe! And thinking and ultimately to serve the pubic hair?

PORTUGUESE Gay Bars III - "LUX", Lisbon

2009-05-21T15:26:00.000-07:00

I met L, is already some time in the company of my beautiful, who insisted me to take me there ... For him, the sophistication of the area and quality of music was an odd LUX in Lisbon! Obviously trusted the taste of it, and I was not disappointed. I am not a big fan of house music, but since the 1st floor down not stop 'shaking your helmet' until almost morning. As for the bar itself, so this post is certainly a place large, sophisticated, located along the Tagus, with three floors, each with its environment: In the 1st floor (floor at which the entry is made), a space all of it the dance floor, where house music with the best dj's give vent to his imagination, in 2nd floor, there is a calmer, with many puff's and with a huge bar, a space divided by movable walls and which are being planned images, where the balconies give this place very attractive, on the 3rd floor is the terrace, the ideal place to be in the summer with a unique view over the Tagus and Madragôa. As for the people there are, I think that besides being beautiful and nice, there is some "gatherings" created by chance (I say), I refer in particular to the high number of gays who met on the 1st floor some well known and popular. Without any doubt, this is the house that gave continuity to the success of Fragile (already referenced in the last post dedicated to bars / clubs), and that, at least for now, continues to receive attention from those who like to enjoy the night! Upcoming events: Concerts Señor Pelota + Joakim + Disorder (11-03-2005) James Miranda + Yen Sung (12-03-2005) Dance Damage + + Namosh Dexter (17-03-2005) Yen Sung + Leonaldo de Almeida + Pink Boy + Pitt Pull (18-03-2005) Rui Rui Vargas Murko + + + Zé Pedro Moura Pedro Ricciardi (19-03-2005) Dezperados & The Wild Animals + Zé Pedro Moura (24-03-2005) Here's an article public: Soon, the Lux has become "the" club of Lisbon. A huge warehouse, located at Avenida Infante D. Henry, the station of Santa Apolonia Lisbon, was transformed into the most cosmopolitan bar / club in the country. It is divided into three floors: the first track is to create environments that press dancing according to the most current musical trends, the second floor, surrounded by convenient open balconies overlooking the river, is a space-bar calmer, dançável with music but when the crowd and DJ line will, in the third floor is the terrace, ideal for summer nights and often animated by special events. The Lux is recognized by its modern decor and environment, sophisticated and "glamorous." Combines an almost cinematic universe (because the actor John Malkovitch is a partner) with huge screens, drawing it into a corner where chairs spread all different. This is also one of the marks of the house, which boasts of being almost a "museum" of living contemporary design. Cosmopolitanism and sophistication to the space environment is alien and that a partner is Manuel Reis, the gentleman who was 80 years for "moved" in the Bairro Alto to the creation of the club that at the time, was the "must" : The Fragile. Besides bar-disco, the Lux hosts various events. In the nights of Thursday there is usually a guest DJ or live music concerts. Luis Santos PUBLICO.PT

Skip is not always easy ...

2009-05-21T15:22:00.000-07:00

I changed my company ... Now working in a company, I can tell you have a family environment, due to the small number of fellow workers ... It is natural (and this is already happening) that talk about the life of each, to bring people to each other ... But in my case (I think I could say "in our case), I am gay, these issues are not always easy ... The questions arise: "You live alone?", "When houses", "Get your girlfriend to dinner ...". When you can go missing and diverting the subject, but sometimes it is complicated ... And then, with so many omissions, began to think that our colleagues will begin to suspect, and any comment is that we (internally) called into question, as I heard this today: "Before you get the woman, and have pups. .., I already have!-Or you get a guy and adopt a child. " Is the comment was innocent and not more than a coincidence ...? I do not know ... I know that makes no sense terms that have this type of care with the language to say what not to, because we do not know how people will react in the salary paid to the end of the month ...

After all what they think?

2009-05-21T15:18:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, I reviewed a great friend, who knew about my homosexuality by others ... Obviously tried to call you for some time to talk about it ... But as all telephone conversations, has not much depth to it ... Yesterday we had then the opportunity for a conversation on the day! It is natural that it came on my homosexuality, but to be honest I do not mind (and to taste) to talk about me! She then tried to explain to me what he felt or what they felt, to me personally yesterday. She lives very close to Évora, and obviously it is still there (and here) taboo ... Then told me that the curious to talk about it was one of the first things you came, that, having spoken with me on the phone and have noticed my state of grace. I was also very curious to see my beautiful, not by chance that I can track yesterday ... She told me that "loved to know him and think would be a tip of the jealousy that ...", replied" Why? " . She said it was not for evil, but that he turned to me ... I laugh! I explained that my beautiful, unfortunately, was not my first experience, and that when I met him I had already set! That's it, moreover, clearly spoke of the fact that I have found in it, and found the situation funny! :))

Change again ...

2009-05-21T15:17:00.000-07:00

I am a person (and who knows me knows that), always seeking new challenges and behind and ideas ... It is my character, and about that little or nothing I can do, because when I by myself, my neurons have to go looking for something ... This time I changed jobs, not because I had been seeking, but because I tried ... What I find important in life is that we must never accommodate, looking for the realization of dreams, ideas and objectives. Sometimes people let themselves be carried away by society, and to this shape, often assuming that a person actually does not correspond to their true essence! And in love, we must also change? I think so! Change is good, change positions, change of place, change the way we look at the (a) our (a) beautiful (a), always with the same passion, although looking in a different way to maintain the flame of passion lit! Change, and it is for the better, then great!

"MAR ADENTRO", to think ... (and cry!)

2009-05-21T15:13:00.000-07:00

Today I see this Spanish film, which, since I saw the first presentation, let me just curious ... For those who do not know this movie addresses the issue of euthanasia, more specifically, a man who after a dive poorly constructed, became quadriplegic eventually go to a bed, where he remained for 26 years. Arguing that "life is a right, not an obligation," fought for the right to a dignified death and legal ... And most do not count! Well, just know that for the first time and cried soluce (which gave a laugh together at the ridiculous situation ...), and I played with the movie ... Interpretations very good, a special makeup and a story that leaves no one indifferent, or was not the movie to be a huge success, being named the Oscar (which begin in a moment) for Best Foreign Film and Best Makeup. I believe that many people to think the matter more seriously and to relaunch the debate (always so controversial) about euthanasia! It is my suggestion to not miss this film! :)

Sometimes it is not easy ...

2009-05-21T15:07:00.000-07:00

I have always tried, as part of my personality, forward positive ideas and facts in a way that does not think that being gay is synonymous with pain and poor thing ... I have tried ... But it is not always easy ... This weekend that ends today, is marked more by a choice of my parents, who left me sad and disappointed ... They could spend the weekend at my house, since it compulsory to have come to Lisbon for a consultation, but according to my father, could not due to a supposed meeting ... But in returning home to the alleged meeting, changed the course (do not know if it was already planned or not) and have been with my brother where did the weekend go ... If sometimes we can easily circumvent a situation and find excuses to mask a reality that we do not want, in this case in particular there is no way hide or disguise ... It was a clear choice for not being with me ... I bet that my father was the idiot who got the solution ... I bet my mom will be with remorse for having followed the idea ... I bet that if I was willing to take some more drastic actions, that will come to a certainty ... After that, I think I did what was in my power to adapt the idea to prepare for and they take this new reality, and therefore can not continue to be the boy understood that so far has done everything so that relations family were and continue to be a good reality ... Go with this, go to attack, to fight back, and ask the other what they require of me. Enough of hypocrisy ... Either to accept or not accept, and if I think moving from one state to another can take some, do not accept that it is permanently in passage of state ... I just have to conclude that those who pretend to accept until now, have to accept, to me, my relationship with my beautiful and consistent, because for some time now since we are one and we are not "separable". Who has not accepted, as well, do the favor of being happy because surely I will do the same!

How far can and / or should go?

2009-05-21T15:04:00.000-07:00

I always thought that in a relationship, when someone loves the other and the distrust or doubt about the sentiment makes sense ... I always thought that to truly love someone ... I think us gays, we know well, know how sex is important and we also know that hundreds go there looking for the goose with a drowning, with several, short, anyway ... I love my beautiful and they do not have the slightest of doubts ... Then my second thought, no I do not know or doubt that it is my feeling and I know it is also ... In theory everything is beautiful, but in practice things are not as clear ... Doubt no doubt of our mutual feelings, but know I can not stop suspicious ... Wonder why? Some things related to the past, and others, which are the result of society and the speed and ease with which things can progress ... My computer has a beautiful net .. I also have ... And both know that NET puts us if you want, in contact with who we want or we look for ... Chat, messenger, blogs, websites ... It is easy to take a touch and add ... And after that, it is there what can happen ... So I think the thought was that at least in practice is difficult to be applied ... I believe that many do not call into question the sense, but the truth is that as human beings, we have our weaknesses ... And you never know, if you go to lunch today, I will not by any chance stumble into someone ... Or if (a) as co-worker will not insinuate with me and pull me to the wall ... Controlling this type of situation is very complicated, and any type of control can become a stone in the shoe of a relationship, creating confusion and misunderstandings ... I am not saying that I will not controlling here and there my pretty, and I know that he must do the same ... But is this correct? Or if not too much is normal? I think we should rather suspicious, to not fully trust, or terms in mind that because they want to or not, on some day, things can change ... If we are not alert, anything can happen ... If we are, but also can happen, you will perhaps change the course of things ...

PORTUGUESE GAY BARS III :: "FRÁGIL" (Lisbon)

2009-05-12T17:16:00.001-07:00

Following the posts related to various sites gayfriendly's gay or who want to "show" ... The club that follows is the "Fragile" ... Who has not heard even mention the "Fragile" in Lisbon? I had heard the door and past a lot of times, and fortunately I met her last Saturday. My experience ... Well, first of all, it was crushed against the iron gates, where instead of when it opened a narrow door, where a girl was pointing and calling who she meant well ... Meanwhile heard comments "on the wrong side Tou ... She does not see me here!", "Hey let me go, she let me get girls and so ...". Suddenly the gate called us (me, the beautiful and a friend) and went there without paying entry. And behold, in front, in addition to the many people who were, appeared a little rectangle of several mirrors, the recall of a wide entrance hall ... The environment was relatively dark ... First we went to the left side of the house, where there is a rectangular space with a bar in one of its sides ... The decor and general appearance, in my opinion, was nothing spectacular for a house so widely known ... Thence to the right side, where a square space, was a bar on the left side, and the disc jokey was on top of this ... Could see in front is a projection of some images in black and white, and the rest of the space is the dance floor ... The music heard is v. good, and this quality was very good, for those who like house music. The people were beautiful, very mixed, which here and there saw some gay couples exchanging mimosa ... In track, apart from some encontrões there were also those who walk there with your hands lost ... That is, for a house with the reputation of "Fragile" expected much better in the space itself, where the originality is not minimally abounds not attractive ... The people were beautiful ... The music was great! What I read on the net, it seems that those who are accustomed to attend the house, get a little disappointed that the new management took over it seems the area two or three years ago ... Still it is worth knowing! :)

More gays is better!?

2009-05-12T17:10:00.000-07:00

It is inevitable that it goes from mouth to mouth, and as reviewed and widely circulated on the internet here ... The alleged homosexuality of José Sócrates has given rise to several reactions ... I note today that both commentators and the media are beginning to address openly and frankly what it is today a reality, or the rumor about alleged homosexuality ... I think, and strengthen the idea that Portugal has recently had some excuses, good or bad, to speak more openly about homosexuality ... Even yesterday, a news, I say to a fishmonger Francisco Dishes "What is Pedro Santana Lopes against homosexuals?! He who speaks of what matters and who does not let anyone hurt the ...". It may seem ridiculous to mention that this comment, but I found it very interesting, coming from those who came and shows, I think, that it begins to few to be treated with natural ... But well, this article is to talk about something else ... Of the comments that appear in this and other blogs about homosexuals, which repeatedly refers to us, gay, suffered a mass hysteria, wanting and trying to find a gay in every corner ... I do not think at all that these comments are devoid of meaning ... I myself sometimes fall in the temptation to point out and comment on others, pointing them (in the right direction of course!) As being gay ... Why this temptation? I just think an explanation, we want to be more, to be increasingly common, and can increasingly be ourselves ... Obviously the fact that José Sócrates be gay or not will not be dominant in its action as Prime Minister, but I believe that like me, many gays, and no commitments made, look to him as a hope to be able to show the country that sexual orientation of each is the least interested, and that the value of people has nothing to do with it ...

Gay sex!

2009-05-12T17:09:00.000-07:00

Some find this post in bad taste, but I know that the head of many people have the curiosity to know how to be a scene of gay sex ... For those who have not made the time to search the net, or for those who are curious, or simply for those who like sex, is a small scene of gay sex, not recommended for people sensitive or less ...View image

2009-05-07T14:53:00.000-07:00

Although not yet had the opportunity to see one of the ads of ILGA, which are part of the first advertising campaign in Ireland to promote equality between homosexuals, my beautiful told me one of the ads and I found a taste that I like noted here. As I said, it seems that the scene begins with two men walking hand in hand in a garden, with a style distinctly homo (if I may say this is ...), ie, short hair, shirts of cavas ... In the bank of the garden are two ladies already with some age, so close, unti

l a seen the girls and called the attention of the friend ... Both are looking amazed, until the friend says "Have you seen this? With this cold and cavas ..."
Even without having seen I was immediately convinced that this is the way forward! ILGA Congratulations!

A lovely place to dinner...

2009-05-07T14:51:00.000-07:00

It is the Anvers, Belgian cuisine restaurant in the marina of Cascais ...
It was there that I and my lovely dinner the first time after starting the dating ... Last Friday we return to this restaurant ... And again, the service was great, the food of an exceptional refinement and the calm and relaxing environment ... My advice to those who like me, this day, feel tired and stressed after a day of work, get your face in half and go up there ... Will not be sorry!
Tip of the Head: Thai Shrimp with wild rice.

Prime Minister is Gay?

2009-05-07T14:43:00.000-07:00

José Sócrates that is a type very charming, fashionable and sophisticated now we all noticed ... Say that the bad language he has an affair with Diogo Infante, also have heard ... He expressed some views on regarding homosexuality, it is also true (see text below) ...
He is single too obvious, and that you never heard any
romance with a woman is also a fact ... It would be very interesting for the gay community that these rumors were true, because Clearly would at least to dream with some advances in
controversial issues such as gay marriage and adoption of children
by gay couples ... If anyone knows of something that xibe! :)))
"In consequence of the recent electoral process in the internal party The Socialist Public Official conducted a test on various positions of the 3 candidates (http://bussola.publico.pt), President-elect, Jose Socrates said to agree that "A couple of people of the same sex in a stable loving relationship should not be excluded from the possibility of adopt a child, "disagreed with the sentence" No one can feel naturally homosexual. "But while agreeing that" The state does not has nothing to do with what happens in the privacy of one quarter between adults who act of their free will. "

PORTUGUESE GAY BARS II :: "TRUMPS" (Lisbon)

2009-05-06T16:28:00.000-07:00

Many call it "The Gay Cathedral of Lisbon" ... I do not know if it is deserved, because not yet know all the bars / clubs in Lisbon ... However, this club is a compelling place in gay night in Lisbon, because it is one of the oldest houses gay friendly. For those, like me, the first time I entered a gay club was the "Mister Gay" and second in the "Finally", I think that is unlikely as I am, could not have liked more of this house ... It was a breath of fresh air with beautiful people and an environment considerably "mixed" ... Three distinct environments, divide the space of disco ... Near the entrance on the 1st floor, give the guys with ladders to access the tracks on the floor below, and the right side, you can be a small bar, friendly, music, ideal for a conversation on the day! Below, two very similar environments, the different musical styles (House Music and music business) ... The environment is a little dark, and unfortunately, especially on Saturdays, is very complicated move freely through space, due to the amount of people that aglumera ... But better than my opinion will also read other reviews I found lost in the net: "For those who do not know .... the Trumps have two floors. At the entrance, a small room with tables, a bar and music lower. In the basement, two environments: on the left, the track, super busy, usually filled with frantic music and much heat, right, back tables, but in a darker environment as above, with the projection, usually of MTV or FashionTV. Everyone complains of Trumps, which is always full too, that people are ugly , which is a danger in case of fire, that music does not provide that environment is the butcher with meat on display nacos other nacos looking meat on display. But it is true that many gays who frequent other gay sites end up there fall. The Trumps is now over 20 years and is, by tradition, the gay disco in Lisbon. It has been holding full of strength and vitality to the opening of more and more gay sites (truth be told that most new sites are bars and do not make direct competition). should go late to the Trumps, by 2 and then this / 3, if you do not want to fly and airline employees unemployed ...." in Livra.pt "The Best: The music and the environment. The Worst: The bathrooms and prices ----------------------------- .. -------------------------------------------------- - I went there 3 times .. The entry, discretissima .. you can go there and not suspicious in the world that exists inside. the bar of entry, very nice and friendly, good to "chill out" .. the cloakroom ".. not bad .. let all the parts that Keira a hanger for only $ 100 .. .. mm .. not so expensive usually have to pay .. cloakroom make the toilets like the only 2 .. purchasing ladies .. and the doors open very lack privacy .. .. v. the cleaning is not bad .. I have seen worse .. muittoo the sound insulation of the site and there is good .. not the mixture of all music ever .. secured by glass doors kind "cup" to the dance floor .. very good .. dark .. just maybe .. the music, LINDA! the only place not hetero ranked as one of the best discs of trance is in .. everything from Madonna to ATB, Datf Punk, Eminem, Darude .. ALL .. trance remixes there will absolutely unforgettable! a bar on the track is not very practical .. must go much for "refescar throat" .. a bar to side of the track, very cool music .. more "commercial" (Latin for the last disc of exitos not remix). with chairs and tables for a little rest from agitation, ideal for talk (in high clear shout ..) the environment is absolutely no confusion .. peace .. liberal environment for gay, straight, lesbian friendly atmosphere .. .. until the biggest problem I see there is the same price .. water, $ 500, $ 500 glue, any alcoholic beverage in 1000 $ but I am also not acustumada price of the night gave the lisbon .. .. you know that I love the Trumps! =) "in Livra.pt More reviews on www.livra.pt

Free Number for LGBTs in Portugal

2009-05-06T16:26:00.000-07:00

The number 800 206 919 can be used throughout the national territory (fixed and mobile) to leave a message on free Voice Mail PortugalGay.PT. It is the first free line specifically for LGBTs in Canada and serves not only to users of PortugalGay.PT leave suggestions or comments about the site but also for any person to report cases or complaints of discrimination related to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender. In this first phase of service of any situations of discrimination have only a statistical treatment but is expected to soon be able to organize (with other national associations LGBT) a process of handling such situations with a view to their resolution and monitoring

"Who is he? - It's my boyfriend!"

2009-05-06T16:21:00.000-07:00

The other day, one of the dinners with friends, was a friend and his boyfriend, who still did not know of my homosexuality ... Incidentally, this dinner, I was not pretty ... During the dinner, and at some point now that I do not remember the name of my beautiful Baila came to several times ... In this friendly, and naturally in the course of these conversations: "Who is _______?". Actually said to me ... The next moment the question was a moment of silence and all eyes are turned to my person ... I bet, though not confirmed, it asked all to yourself: "Is he going to say? And now?". I looked for it, and with a smile on the lips answered: "It's my boyfriend." Another moment of silence followed, and this time the eyes were fixed on that my friend ... She answered: "Oh yeah? Not know! What is it?". And all ready started to talk and dinner usually continued ... I have to admit that it is not easy, or at least is not natural, to give a cold response of these ... But I should be anyway ... Treat it with naturalness and relaxation that only helps to understand it all anyway! Do not believe?

Elements of Pleasure IV - Tantric Massage

2009-05-06T16:17:00.000-07:00

This time I found a mention and that is something for everyone ... After all it is rare to find someone who does not enjoy a good massage at the end of a day's work ... If she is well prepared and planned, can be a real moment of relaxation and pure pleasure ... The tips are ... Prepare the environment, make it cozy and comfortable. Decorate it to you like, use incense, cushions, lights, indirect, in short everything that can create an intimate and cozy atmosphere. Prepare the oil or cream for the massage and when everything is ready, take a bath or sauna, relax and remain in silence for at least 5 minutes (remember). Remember that will play a (the) God (a) Do not forget: if you go to the toilet before you start ... Start with (a) partner (a) the receiver lying belly down. Remember to breathe slowly and regularly. Place a pillow under your head, throw it comfortably. Open your legs a bit. Start by placing one of his hands in upper back and one in lower, so get a few moments. With smooth movements, massage the whole body of the partner (a), head, shoulders, arms, back, buttocks, legs and feet, touch body parts that are rarely explored, always maintaining contact with the hands of their partner's body ( a) keep the pace as long smooth movements, alternating movements for deeper, be sensitive. Put your consciousness in touch and go slowly from top to bottom the whole body of its (a) partner (a). Tell him to simply feel and travel through this feeling that your corpo.Deixe that the language of the body of your (a) partner (a) reflects what he (a) is feeling. Use your imagination and create new and sensual touch. Use your body to massage instead of putting power in your arms, so will not be bored. Use the time it is enjoyable, not rush. Now turn your (a) partner (a) belly up and massage the face, neck, chest (chest) enclose the nipples with the palm of the hands and give light pinches with her fingers, arms and hand massage, be sure to give attention to the fingers too. Go down to the legs, and while you lightly touch down the sexual organs do not make any restriction on where you play, let flow freely. Massage the thighs, legs and feet. Again take your time and when you finish this part, go back to the inside of the thighs, massaging it into the genitals, not even touch the genitals, pubic region to touch the belly, back to the inside of the thighs, do a dance with his hands. At this point the energy is well sexual awakening, then it is time to go further and begin to focus the tone in organs genitais.Lentamente, do your fingers through the vaginal lips (penis and testicles). Press sensuality clitoris and the vagina (penis and testicles) giving freedom to all that (the) love you. Use enough time to enjoy all the sensations. As you're getting excited (o), relax and breathe regularly, trying to get the effect if expand throughout your sexual fantasies corpo.As always help to intensify the sensations, but now it is better not to concentrate on mental images but go deep into your own physical, allowing you to feel all the sensations. If the orgasm comes, okay! No problem. When you start to see the arrival of orgasmic sensations, tension the muscles of buttocks, breath, bud, yell and express what you are feeling without complexes. Give yourself entirely to your body and pleasure. Cover your (a) partner (a) with a blanket and rest your right hand on their sex and left heart. Stay well for some time, just feeling. When you feel that is the right time, keep! Or leave for another day. Good massage! Source: http://www.neotantra.com/

Elements of Pleasure III - Preliminaries

2009-05-06T16:11:00.000-07:00

Sometimes does not give due weight to the findings, a sex ... It is only to start the sex itself as soon as possible ... For me, I find it very important the use of preliminary and a beautiful beginning of a sexual act ... The preliminary is that it occurs in the stimulation of both partners before the sex itself. Like sex, there are no rules for the preliminary. The important thing is both are at ease with each other. The skin itself is almost an erogenous zone of potential, but certain parts of the body have strong reactions, such as lips, neck, ear lobe, neck, breasts, feet. The most sensitive erogenous points are different for each person and cause different reactions to stimulation. The best way to discover their "erogenous map" and is the partner of mutual exploitation. How the caresses are done also causes different reactions. Use different body parts, hands, mouth, hair ... The so-called "intimate areas" of men and women are, for many, the only erogenous zone to be stimulated. If you want, however, make the relationship a sexual act of pleasure and intense, these areas should be the last to be encouraged - and with much attention. Check out what happens to each of them: Anus For men and women, is a highly sensitive region. Call with your hands, mouth or the penis. Perineum The area between the anus and sexual organ, is very sensitive to manual stimulation. Clitoris is where the greatest number of nerve endings in women. The stimulation of this area produces very strong sexual feelings. The caresses the clitoris should be done gently. The small vagina lips are more sensitive than the big lips. The entry of the vagina reacts to all kinds of caresses. Testicles are very sensitive to both pleasure and pain as to be stimulated with smoothness. Penis is the most sensitive region of the male body. The end point of the glans is the area of greatest pleasure. Also stimulates the ring at the base of the penis. Each couple have their way to excite each other before PTCA sexual. Some start kissing, fondling with giving a "show" of "strip-tease and masturbate. The oral sex is for many one of the best preliminary, it stimulates both the vagina and the penis directly. Besides the pleasure that the preliminary offer for both men and for women, results in a greater rigidity of the penis and the lubrication of the vagina of women, thus facilitating the penetration.

Is Homosexuality hereditary ...??

2009-05-04T16:59:00.000-07:00

So many times I asked this to myself and my friends ... The response that varies from person to person, but it seems that is scientifically proven that homosexuality is not hereditary. However, speaking in my personal experience, I have some doubts that it is ... This is because in my family there are three known cases, and another suspect if not given. By coincidence or not, everyone is the same side of the family ... Will not match the most?

PORTUGUESE GAY BARS I :: "Mister Gay" (Costa da Caparica, Lisbon)

2009-05-04T16:53:00.000-07:00

Start today a new series of posts that will try to present the gay bars I know, and others that have not visited so far. In line with what happens with the series of posts "Elements of Pleasure", these posts will not have any set schedule ... Beginning with the "Mister Gay" ... This bar is me in a way, a particular bar, it was the first gay bar I entered, together with my beautiful, specifically in the night we met ... Since then we become more or less dedicated customers ... At that time, and also somewhat influenced by the way had met the bar, the bar felt like a very heterogeneous place, spacious, with a decoration (?) Based on red sofas surrounding the dance floor, doing a little remembering the clubs of old, with a certain air of "Boite". But the relaxed atmosphere is what attracted me more ... This house shows every Friday and Saturday shows of transvestites ... The Valéria Vanini (see photo) was at the head of poster ... Here, I always thought the quality of shows very weak ... As the music is the most commercial music, with a mixture of different styles, trying to please the Greeks and Trojans. The Staff of the house is in my opinion, very little attention, both in presentation and treatment of customers ... This house is not dark room and in my opinion, is a place where anyone can feel at ease! Currently, some months I do not want this bar, and this is due to two reasons: the environment has become a little "rasca" and with a significant increase in women (lesbians) which also leaves something to be desired ; The show and the staff reached a low level of quality .... The Patricia Russell was the last time I visited the house, head of the poster, it seems that, for a comment to one of my own posts on this topic has already been removed ... She was a great artist, surrounded by artists poor ... I hope now is better together! I have a different view on this bar, taken from the Leisure Guide: This is one of the mandatory at night gay. The "shows" for transvestites mark the uniqueness of the Mistergay. All Fridays and Saturdays, the processor Patricia Russel brand presence with their "shows" eccentric, full of color, sequins and feathers, many of them inspired by the hits of the great divas and perhaps what was more transformed in Portugal : Ruth Bryden. The success of "shows" have resulted in a collection of versions of songs, published on CD. The Mistergay "differentiates itself from other gay bars not only for its ample space (it is installed in the warehouse of a former leather factory), in which prevails the lack of taste in decoration, but also by the diversity of its audience.

First kiss!!!

2009-05-04T16:49:00.000-07:00

Remember your first kiss on the mouth of a man ...? I waited so long ... I mean, were only 25 years ... It is less time than the time I get to pay my house! :) But I said ... I waited so long for that kiss ... And eventually not be a special moment, those who we think ... It was during my first (and short, very short!) Experiential gay ... It was an immediate meetings, where one only wants to fuck the other (me in this case) is (or tries to be) full of romanticism, but with much nervousness and anxiety very much ... The kiss came unexpectedly, when the type who was, suddenly and without warning, kissed me ... I wish it had been with my beautiful ... And many people ask: "How is kissing someone of the same sex?" In my view, is different ... I think the smell, the skin there and I know more what make kisses different ... Full of complicity, I think ... I am a first-beijoqueiro, I think until exaggeration sometimes .. But I love kissing and being kissed ... Not only in the mouth! Ehehehe And kiss (still) do not pay tax, use and abuse! :) Anyway ... Remember your first kiss ...?

I hope for a day ...

2009-05-04T16:46:00.000-07:00

... Have in my hand the two people who love this life: my mother and my beautiful! I think many times that day, like so many times that day, and I so much strength for that day happens, that I can only believe that day will happen ... Sooner or later, happy to have both my hand ... Because there is no reason why it does not, or better, the reason that supposedly happened, will one day be there, eliminating the implacability of time ... There are things that lose meaning over time, and that the win ... I now only makes sense that day arrives ...

And because the love is beautiful ...

2009-05-04T16:40:00.000-07:00

... And my beautiful is my love, I decided this weekend that past, present him with a surprise trip to Barcelona ... In time of anniversary, nothing better than traveling and out of the routine! And there was us ... How should imagine, a weekend to visit our city's most important neighbor Spain, is almost a marathon ... But still, with things well planned, was to enjoy and visit the most important sights of this city ... We were on the night of Saturday to visit two bars said Gay, the Martin's, who was to fly, and Arena ... This is a real mixed bar, at least in the sense that I think should be a mixed bar .. Good music, straight many, many gays and lesbians many, especially joy that is ultimately what matters most! I, for pity that even here there is a site of ...

I would like to try, but ...

2009-05-04T16:38:00.000-07:00

I do not know if the same happens with other people, but since I took over as gay to the people who love the conversations about sex have become more frequent and more interesting ... I think perhaps this is due to two reasons: first, for I would be happy to talk about it and feel great lack of such conversations before I took; Second, the idea that others have that we gays we are one big crazy and only think of sex ... However I think that great things are well! But well, the reason this post is not talking about those reasons but the conversation itself ... Already more than once, that a heterosexual friend, make me some "complaints" about his sexual relationship with his partner ... Usually it is always the same, ie the wife is very reluctant to regard anal, and they would love to have this experience. But the opposite happens, ie, the man would also like to try a relationship anal ... But if the man is normal to ask your girlfriend to have anal a relationship, because the opposite is not vulgar, so I know ... Imagine the man, in the sexual act, ask the woman "Stick your finger at my ass ..", not complicated situation? What will she think? "He is gay ?!"... Indeed, already happened in conversation, I do not know how to request this kind of experience, but I think everything that passes through the opening between the couple on these matters, and shall refer to this experience as any other! Or is it okay ?!...

Elements of Pleasure II - Cock Ring

2009-05-04T16:33:00.000-07:00

A cock ring (penis ring) can be defined as: "Ring, metal, leather or rubber used in the base of the penis to prolong erection." As the definition indicates, this ring can be used at the base of the penis or even the testicles. Helps maintain an erection and increases the intensity of orgasms. There are some rings that have a regulatory tightness in order to adapt itself better to the penis of each. They are for sale in any shop and fri is easy to use. There are various sizes and are cheap. In some cases allows a slight increase in the penis. It can also be used only for aesthetic purposes, or will increase slightly the volume of the penis. What more to say? Easy, cheap and can give pleasure to millions. Try.

I lost someone ...

2009-04-27T16:33:00.000-07:00

There are people in our lives, we make, positive or negative, it is true ... I wanted someone that my grandmother left the world of the living and to join the section of my memories ... She was a grandmother excellent, fantastic, but it was my grandmother ... It was with her I learned how to be humble and simple ... She took me to the garden walk many times and taught me to water the vegetables, taking water from the well, the "drive" the cart ... The dream for her grandchildren, and we were married ... She left without knowing my reality, a reality that surely she would not understand ... In its 94 years of life, it has never crossed the mind the existence of this reality ... I thought by me and not smart in arming and "force it" to consider the perspective of life ... And I think I did well! Funny this life ... That she has always tried to please me with a notinha, or with chocolate, just for the last time we talked about - she was already very poor - I say "I am with a heavy heart ...". I went to the children saying that it, and then realized that this phrase would simply say "Give me a chocolate !"... Obviously I would be happy for you sweeten the mouth ... She ate, looked at me fixedly and said "There is more ?"... I smile, and called it a "greedy !"... She outlined a smile malandreco ... The roles of the drama that is life, had been reversed ... A smile that would ultimately prove to be the last I had the pleasure of witnessing! Said the priest in the funeral that "This ceremony makes sense only because we believe that death is not the end but the beginning of eternal happiness. I think this time it is better that we all ..." I also want to believe ... Goodbye Grandma, and even a day!

Will or will not?

2009-04-27T16:28:00.000-07:00

I remember the times in which it was made, which looked around me and thought I was different, it had very few gays ... Later, in conversation with some gay men on the internet, they told me "Hey, you already there? Is a nest of them ..."! However I have not fished there ... But then you start to come in the middle, I started to notice certain views and "features" that indicated it was a gay ... It is a phenomenon that also happened to my friends straight after going to a gay bar ... The next day went on the street and thought "Is that it? No. ..!"... I now also much more to this question myself, or when the Beautiful by my side because I feel that I see gays everywhere, ... There is a case recently in my current work, since the first hour seems to me to be gay ... But then put me to thinking that led me to think that ... He is normalíssimo, but is like aum natural feeling ... Is there really? This maturation of ideas, made me see things more clearly, and this is one ...

With friends ... at ease?

2009-04-27T16:26:00.000-07:00

Lately, the last leaving at night that I made with my beautiful and straight friends, went to gay places ... The excuse to go to a gay place, in my view, is necessarily by being the only place where public can be comfortable with my beautiful ... But well, which always has to happen is that going with our straight friends, we should never feel sufficiently free to embrace or kiss on ... Weird no? After all they are there because we wanted to go there, supposed to be at ease ... I think this is due to the fact that we fear of "hurting" their sensitivity, which, and assume, it makes no sense ... Clearly it would because they feel we are well and wish them ... We have a couple hetero friend, that when we are together, ask us to feel completely at ease, since the fact that realizing that we are inhibited, the left a little annoyed ... But the truth is that we never completely at ease! Finally!

Elements of Pleasure - POPPERS

2009-04-27T16:21:00.000-07:00

For some time, I want to explore some accessories or practices that may increase sexual pleasure in a relationship, regardless of the genders involved. So take the opportunity to inform me and give my contribution to society "posting" the results of what I seek ... The first element of pleasure that I address is the Popers or Poppers. It is an illegal substance, although access to a bottle of Popers is relatively easy. Any Fri Shop has ... "The Poppers is a liquid, which must be smelling when we increase our sexual appetite. The bottles can be larger or smaller, and have a look similar to the figure beside. Its main purpose the muscle relaxation, euphoria, increased sexual pleasure, dizziness, vertigo, pallor, hallucinations and intense heat. What is the history of Poppers? The Poppers were originally created as a remedy for angina (chest pain), but the benefit is not compensated because of side effects such as drop in pressure. The liquid is composed of that substance? The active substance is amyl nitrate, a vasodilator, analgesic and muscle relaxing. How to use? When in full sexual intercourse, should open up the bottle, carefully, and should put up a nostril to the "mouth" of the bottle and draw two or three times. What happens? In order to smell the Poppers will feel a weird feeling, like weed, to float, leaving the mind open and ready for new experiences.:) It is dangerous to use? So tried on the net, is not dangerous, but ... Obviously that can not swallow the liquid or inspire endless times consecutively. There are reports of vomiting, fainting, headache strong, weakness, respiratory tract irritation and burns (if coming into contact with the skin). It is advisable for those who have health problems, be more careful and consult with someone known in the field. Another problem is the guarantee of quality. Wrong mixture could have very harmful effects to health. It is only for homosexuals? No. Although most people use are the gays, the Poppers can be used by anyone. The fact that it is used as the drug of love for the gays, is due to facilitate sexual relations, especially anal, so the poppers has been associated with the gay audience. "It enhances the pleasure and suppresses pain by facilitating the penetration." What is the relationship between gender and the Poppers? There are several possible answers, including: - Dilation of blood vessels, or cause an extension, dilatation of blood vessels. This increase causes an increase in the penis, the sensitivity, increased flexibility and facilitates sexual intercourse; - Orgasmo bombastic, or is used by many people to achieve an orgasm out of the series, to go to the stars, at least briefly; - Masturbation, or as we know there are many people who have difficulty achieving an orgasm through masturbation. The Poppers facilitate this practice; - Aphrodisiac, or facilitates the Popers sex with your partner (a) doing the sex reach a high point of pleasure. In many cases the popers can be used as "air" from the fourth ... It would be great to have contributions from readers, reporting experiences or find facts to be important on the Poppers.

Going to the night, alone or accompanied?

2009-04-27T16:19:00.000-07:00

I think the situation that you picture in this post, I should have spent more people, if it is not true even with everybody ... When we decide go out (me and my beautiful) almost always invite someone to make us company, heterosexual friends ... At the beginning he was not the issue but now the question always arises: "What kind of bar is it?". I understand, because I know q is not very attractive (at least for those who are alone) go to a site that I call a "mixed". But well see, the "mixed" does not have much, or have homosexual and heterosexual couples (in minority), and one or another girl on the loose. Call that a bar "mixed", left for me to make sense ... A bar "mixed", in my opinion, would be a bar with homosexuals, heteressoxuais, single, married, and seeing all dating, dancing, talking ... It is this environment that I feel more healthy ... It is this environment that I have not found ... Any suggestions?

Gay Night in the Algarve

2009-04-27T16:15:00.000-07:00

In seeking leave some sites that my statement was beautiful as the gay bars in the Algarve ... Choose the short list of "Dreams" in Albufeira, and the BAR is "... in Vilamoura The first, the more complicated it was to find it ... After several false alerts, we stop to another gay bar, the "Mirror" in Oura .... This had nothing to gay ... It is the Dreams .... A cozy bar, quietly decorated in concert to transform (not particularly like), with nice people ... The neighbors do not seem like much of the music that night and he was toast on the terrace, with a coat hanger and an onion! Ehehehhe! A "queer" crazy, tried to get us talking and we did spend time hilarious! As is the BAR, I note negative ... The decoration and disappointing and environment was not anything more ... Why is it supposedly in a region where thousands of tourists come every year, a gay night so weak?

And behold, "the circus begins to catch fire" ...

2009-04-27T16:12:00.000-07:00

Obviously this article was not referring to the numerous fires that devastate our country every year, including the current year and year after year we have more of it: Promises, guilty virtual passages of responsibility, lies, finally ... But well, as I said, this article does not refer to this type of fireworks, but the other type of fireworks, which is not watching, they can "burn-in" to us or to people that are coming ... These fires also spread rapidly and are hardly limited ... I speak of those rumors that go from mouth to mouth ... Who live or lived in a small village know what I mean, just fire the fuse quickly and we have a whole village and burned alvoraçada to talk than not know and often the "go" inside of people ... That is what is happening to me now ... The news of me being gay starts to spread throughout the village ... I do not know who lit the fuse (and no longer interests me, quite frankly), but I am afraid that there is an "explosion" when the fuse go through my house ... Not by me but by my parents, who perhaps have the greatest fear now that the others know ... Always "the others" to lead the life of ... Anyway, wait and see!

And if she suddenly ask ...?

2009-04-27T16:10:00.000-07:00

The big question, of what the answer if my niece discuss the matter with me ... She actually has not yet old enough to understand such things (I think) with its 6 years, but the truth is that the last time we talked on the phone asked me if _______ was me ... I answered that yes, and she said "He 's always with you ... My friends are always with me ...". How should I imagine preplexo with the conversation, and now I ask many times before as if it would be a deal on the subject, now I am even more certain that this day will cehgar, and maybe is not as far as I thought .. . Now the question is what to say and what to do, take or not take, do not omit or omit, lying or not lying ... I think it's one of the most sensitive and that sincerely not yet discovered the best to deal with it ...

What they say when we are not ...?

2009-04-27T16:08:00.000-07:00

I bet that all people are asking many times, as will our friends / family when we are not present ... We gays, packaged with our sense of discrimination, we have a heightened interest in what they say ... Many will not care, but to me interested me yes! Obviously I am referring to whom I am close and that I supposedly supported and supports ... A weekend I went to the land, a friend told me that when joined grupinho who commented and said "Who will of man and woman ?!"... Do not take or took it badly, because that is the impression that society has of us, that a gay or lesbian couple is always a member of the couple who took the position of another man and a woman! I always try to pull the issue to clarify things, and explain that this is not rule, but it is notable that in some couples there for gay members of a more "bicharoca" and lesbians with an air more males. However this has some interest? I do not think at all! Then have some people who told me that sometimes, at work or with their families trying to pass the message that we are normal, we are not ET's, we are happy ... What I find interesting is that comment, and that clarify things if possible ... Speaking openly on the subject was always the best way to clarify any issue! No taboos! :)

Jobs versus Gays

2009-04-27T16:03:00.000-07:00

Fortunately I had the good fortune to spend in many companies of our country, and work with many different people ... In my area of work, men are almost always in the majority, which is good because as you know, it is much easier to work with men than with women, although I did not practice any situation that proves what I just said. .. But perhaps there are more men, the subject of homosexuality is often discussed, the "paneleiragem" as they say, sometimes in conversations of pure relaxation or provocation or, as witnessed this week in conversations a little more serious .. . The subject "paneleiragem" is in most cases treated with obvious discrimination and disapproval ... That this conversation we saw this week, a lunch, commented the fact that a coworker have felt the need to justify responding to a provocative email sent to everyone, from the then head of the site, which hinted the like " ; man with cat ...". Well, what interests me highlight now is that many people still think it does not work with a gay, think Clearly that "paneleiragem" only works in firms other than them ... The hearing of these conversations, it is clear that a willingness to say "YES! Yes, I'm gay, then? "And wait for reactions annoyed and embarrassment that would almost certainly arise ... After all we live in society, and where a person is always the chance of her being gay / lesbian. Must therefore have been the notion that the person who read us every day, and who might appreciate many qualities, may be gay ... And without wanting to, or perhaps not, we discriminate against it, even unconsciously ...

Tell the parents: YES or NO? (Part 12)

2009-04-27T16:02:00.000-07:00

(Continued) ... And so, my mother, began to unconsciously mentalizar this is my (our) new reality ... The calls begin by her "So how are you?" But soon after you try to amend what is said ".. You do not, you ..."... My father is not even anything like the slide of my mother, says she is "give consent to something that goes against what they think ..". She tries to apologize saying that it is only wrong because I used to be many times with my friends ... Ehehehe ... The silence continues on the subject, however I know of some conversations (penalty are very few) that my mother is having with some family on the subject ... But now comes a new ... The relationship of my parents is going through a phase less good, and immediately come the comments ... the father is not able to overcome, and will never accept the fact ... He is nervous ... Afraid that others will know ... It would be a shame. " I think the fact of knowing that you have a gay son, may be cause for shock and some turbulence, because we are talking about something that exterminates with many of the dreams that they (parents), learning, came wonder to me ... But will this be reason enough to ruin the relationship father / mother? Or is it a good excuse to divert attention? Or a more emotional blackmail of my father? I do not know ... Still seek the answer ...

Beach ... and nude!

2009-01-07T15:17:00.000-08:00

Finally started my season today, I expect there to extend until the end of September ... The sea has always been and will be for me a source of positive energy, which can not depart from me for a long time ... Perhaps its greatness give rise to my dreams, inspire me, make me dream, make me go further ... Finally, but thoughts aside, the fact is that with the start of the season just like in unclothe all ... Fortunately, and in this regard, last year I had the pleasure of doing for the first time nude ... The truth is that what seemed a bit before an exhibition of our intimacy, I think now something very natural and healthy ... The secret is going through, we admit and accept that we have a body like all other people, some with pilas (with about 5cm, who cares?!), Another with breasts (more or less descaídas), all with an ass (more or less redondinho), finally, we are all a little different but at the end of the day we are all equal ... For those who have not experienced is my advice to go for a ride to a beach where the practice of nudism is accepted (yes, because we can not go to show what it actually all we have at any one beach ...), and Undress up .. Get your bra and / or the bikini / shorts-suit and go swimming and dive into the water ... They will see how we feel more free in a while for us as we accept all ... How to Mironer, purely and simply ignore! Are free, do nude! :)

Today i want to do questions...

2009-01-07T15:15:00.000-08:00

Why can not all be happy? It will be unfortunate for many people and be jealous of someone who is happy? Why is the fact that I sleep with whoever is there is someone I have to discriminate? Do not support anyone imagine in the place where she wanted to be? Why is love and live with someone of the same sex can do so much confusion to someone who does not ourselves? Is it because they are afraid that the account of light, water, electricity increase? Why are there no longer friends to talk with a friend gay? Do they have fear of being eaten by wolves or bad because in fact have never been friends? Why not adopt a child, giving him love, affection, comfort and education? Does are better at Casa Pia? Why is at work, in most cases, we must try to maintain secrecy in relation to our sexual orientation? Does that we gays we become unable to work? Why is that a couple of gays can not marry and enjoy the full rights as a hetero couple? Are gays not pay taxes and do not work? Why are sons of bitches that discriminate in this country, bad deal, excluded, doubt their capabilities or ignore the gays in this country? Is it because they have less gray matter and we have no space in his brain to take on this reality, our reality? Come the answers ... :)

Prejudices & homosexuality (under the name of God as an alibi!)

2009-01-07T15:10:00.000-08:00

Recently, a famous radio encouraging the U.S. said that homosexuality was a perversion: 'This is what the Bible says in the book of Leviticus, chapter 18, verse 22: "You do not you sleeping with a man as you sleeping with a woman: would be an abomination. " The Bible refers to this issue. End ', she said. Some days later, a listener sent him an open letter that said: 'Thank you for putting so much fervor in the education of people by the Law of God. Learn a lot listening to your program and look for people around me to listen too. However, I need some advice on other biblical laws. For example, I would like to sell my daughter as a servant, as we indicated in the Book of Exodus, chapter 21, verse 7. In your opinion, what would be the best price? The Leviticus also in chapter 25, verse 44, teaches that can be slaves, men or women, provided they are purchased in neighboring nations. A friend of mine says that this applies to Mexicans, but not to Canadians. Could you explain me about this? Why I can not have slaves Canadians? I have a neighbor who works on Saturday. The Book of Exodus, chapter 25, verse 2, says clearly that he should be sentenced to death. I have to kill him myself? Can you reassure me in some way this kind of embarrassing situation? Another thing: the Leviticus, chapter 21, verse 18, says he can not approach the altar of God if we have problems with vision. I need glasses to read. My eyesight had to be 100%? It would be possible to review this requirement in order to lower the limit? A final advice. My uncle does not respect is what Leviticus, chapter 19, verse 19, two types of planting different crops in the same field, just as his wife USA clothes made of different fabrics: cotton and polyester. Moreover, he spends his days to curse and swear. It will be necessary to go until the end of the process is embarrassing to bring all the villagers to lapidary my uncle and my aunt, as prescribed in Leviticus, chapter 24, verses 10 to 16? Not before it could burn them alive after just a private family reunion, as is done with those who sleep with close relatives, as is indicated in the holy book, chapter 20, verse 14? Full trust in your help. "In GolfinhU2

And how do with the grandparents?

2009-01-07T15:07:00.000-08:00

Well, in my opinion it should take our homosexuality no longer think the same for our grandparents ... Obviously, and as all cases (friends, parents, uncles, brothers ...) very much depends on temperament, education and cultural level of people to our acceptance of homosexuality, but I think in general our grandparents in addition to being at a level Age has a higher cultural level and education very much reduced and a closed mind ... And I wonder, shall we be confronted them with a reality that could leave (I do not want to say that may be different) sad, disappointed and even injured? I think not! The view them Clearly it would not change anything in our life, but the fact that they say could change something in their life ... Not wishing to retrograde opinion, I think in most cases must let them know without a doubt or in the air ...

Always the prejudices ...

2009-01-07T15:06:00.001-08:00

I spoke about the various prejudices that still abound in relation to us, gay, but sometimes I show any bias for certain gay ... I mean ladies and gentlemen of all ages, people over 60 years ... When I see some at night, do me some confusion ... I think this is due to several factors, among them, not being used (I at least) to see older people in some places and then imagine the preversidade these people ... I think it's just a prejudice that I have to overcome, and I try, when I cross with one of these people, imagine that in one hundred years I will be there, or elsewhere, with next to my beautiful and want to ensure that "kids" do not have this kind of idea about me ... Anyway ...

Being GAY is being more or less men?

2009-01-07T15:01:00.000-08:00

What most people think about a gay, is that this man does not like to be, and that with its intimate feel and a woman than a man. Well, it's no wonder that people think that, because the minority that it is, has the privilege to be chosen for interviews and reports of our media. From my point of view, the majority of gay men like to be with I like and I do not think never put into question my masculinity ... Clearly there are many heteros Manly very least that many gays in our society ... Finally, misconceptions and that it would be great if dissipate with the passage of time ...

Holidays and Exchanges

2009-01-07T14:59:00.000-08:00

For those who do not know, there is space on the Internet where you can leave a contact for a possible exchange of houses / flats to stay on holiday abroad ... Me and my beautiful that very soon we will travel, take the initiative to let our contact, and we are really interested in doing emerged an exchange ... Most couples are gay ... Soon after the first proposal and I got a nice little in doubt of what the next step to take ... Obviously we can not go to somebody's house without having minimal information ... But then how should we proceed? Well, in response asking photos ... But it is always the feeling and the uncertainty of what the intent of who is on the side of there ... Maybe it was a good way to meet new people and in accordance with guidelines to guide the destiny ... It was also a cheaper solution ... But, after thinking about, or at the time we would have to be to sell our house, we stand back and give the idea .. Someone has already done?

Tell the parents: YES or NO? (Part 11)

2009-01-07T14:54:00.000-08:00

(Continued) Therefore, the decision was taken ... I decided to go for dinner, because my work would be nice ... Dinner went normally, as was expected ... Perhaps I noticed that my father was a little more quiet than usual ... But good, dinner and the final went to my house, I and my parents ... As the signs of my mother, knew that they would sleep in the office, but even then, had taken the sheets of the bed and left there a few sheets dobradinhos and lavadinhos, so maybe so, they change their ideas and were sleeping in my bed. .. My dad walked by sneaky house (who knows, looking at the corners to discover something ...), and my mother came with me to my room. I insisted: "Are you sure do not want to sleep here?". She replied "No, sleep in the office was combined as ...". Okay, fine by me, and my mother took in water and said "Well, but help you make the bed for you ...". She barely knew I would not sleep at home, would rather, to avoid confusion, sleeping in the house of the beautiful ... "Needless to mother, I will not sleep here." She did not know what to say "Oh you will not sleep here, then where will you sleep? Oh, there okay, okay .....". She was confused and a bit confusing, it means that much ... Well, then I fired them and leave the rest, combining for lunch the next day there, a Chinese, at the foot of my house. The other day, lunch, and when my father leaves to go to pay for my mother says, "So where the lives ______?". May not seem important, but it was the first time that my mom talked to my beautiful ... (Continued)

Transvestite show... only with quality!

2008-12-26T15:57:00.000-08:00

Yesterday was in Mister Gay, a home for gays and beyond, in fact I had the pleasure of doing follow (apart from my lovely) from a group of friends (heteros), and for those who do not know, this house promotes a show of Into every evening gatherings (Friday and Saturday). Yesterday saw the show there and unfortunately I was negatively surprised ... I am not a fan of shows such as this, but as anyone can judge and criticize, and sometimes even love ... The Patricia Russell, the current responsibility of the show itself and one of the participants in the show, the entire cast of these ... She is really good at, which is assuming a position of professional and quality unlike in most other participants in the show! For the others, it would be great that they could see in the video for his figure might well take account of ridicule of their performances. Patricia strength and get another team! :)

In a locker room of a gym ...

2008-12-26T15:49:00.000-08:00

Now that I restart in the gym were several situations that do not even know if they deserve to be mentioned, but it occurred when I did and I think for a moment longer inhibited ... It will not be secret to anyone say that a gay bathhouse is like a fish in water ... Nobody like us can enjoy both of changing clothes in the locker room and take banhoca of men ... However there are some situations that arise and that may become inhibitory .. I speak for example in my case have cut back (not rapado) púbicos the hair and the truth is that most men do not do it ... I was thinking about it when I see would immediately deduce that it was gay ... Dumb? Maybe ... Get someone else was known that I think know I am gay, so far everything normal ... But in his head which would have thought when he saw me there? Maybe not give, or they may have thought anything of the kind "Let me go hide this guy, I do not go jump it up ..." or something else such as "This should be in the clouds ..."... I do not know, maybe it makes sense to think this sort of thing but the truth is that at that moment the thought ...

Pleasure in an anal penetration

2008-12-26T15:46:00.000-08:00

Asked me that even my brother, hetero, spontaneous and curiously: "But that can be pleasured in a relationship with a man?" I think he was referring to the relationship obviously anal ... I answer with another question "How do people feel such pleasure when we move the tongue behind the orelhinha ?"... It is natural, are erogenous points that may be more or less, depending on the sensitivity of each ... In the case of an anal, in addition to feel pleasure, and so it can feel experiencing, there is also a physical component that may explain some of the pleasure sense ... In his own body's internal penis, the most inner portion where he falls in the abdominal cavity money is stimulated in a relationship anal, something impossible to happen without penetration ... Truth truth is, if you feel happy ... And much ... And women care, when you ask your man to put the finger in their anus and because he already tried ... Ehehhe:)

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 10)

2008-12-26T15:42:00.000-08:00

It was then decided that it would have to tell my parents of the existence of the "beautiful", perhaps sooner than thought ... It was followed by a time so calm, with no major revelations ... I continued to tell friends and friends should understand that count, I continued to receive normal reactions (ie, accepted naturally), and the days, months went by ... However, in a beautiful the weekend came a complicated situation and predictable, my parents decided to come spend the weekend in my house ... The "beautiful" would be off this very weekend, and obviously did not want to waste that time without him ... It was then that I took another position, which gave a step further, denying the call of my godmother for a dinner with the whole family ... Obviously the invitation does not include the "beautiful" ... Questioned by my mother about my presence in that dinner, answered him: "Do not I go ... I will stay with the _____ you pretend does not exist. Everyone knows that I have someone by my side, and he deserves your respect. For that I will stay with him and I will not dine ..."... My mother was quiet, did not expect this reaction and replied: "... Okay, you know ... And there can always be at your house?", It said "Sure!". She continued: "Okay, then stayed in your house, but tell me something, the _______ will be there ?"... Of course I like answering something like "Yes, of course, I will submit it to you ...!", but unfortunately things are not so, and then answered" No, it will be ... I do not want you forcing him to know, just want the respect and know that I have someone .. ". I think at that moment she was more relieved, and continued saying "Okay, now there is only one more thing, your father does not want to sleep in your room, sleep in the office, you can be?". How should imagine I was surprised by this attitude, but the least of evil, that I was equal me sleep in a place or the other, but I think that the thinking of my father when looking at my bed ... Then came the day dinner (Saturday), and I had already decided what they would do ... (Continued)

Freedom Day ... Restricted!

2008-12-26T15:39:00.000-08:00

Today is day of celebration of Freedom Day in Portugal, on April 25 ... Make today thirty years now, a series of brave and did Not that much has already should have done in our country: the Revolution! Made the revolution, managed a few liberties: the right of every citizen to vote, freedom of speech, democratic system, etc, etc ... However, past thirty years, there are some liberties that have not yet been achieved, such as the right to abortion, the right to health services with quality, the right of each is able to take as ... I know we all can and should take just as we are lesbian, gay, transgender and then later? On the day when the company where I worked three years, and mistakenly received an email from the Director of my company where Evita said :"... be as lard endedor the snake style and the adjectives "unthinkable", "extreme" ... unthinkable only be queer and extrama only the anointing ... ", I understand how that could be harmful to come to know that I was gay ... Finally, in some respects the freedom in our country, remains something virtual .. The right to be prórpios us is often denied to us (and I speak not only of the problems of gay ...), and the fund is one of the things that makes us or you can leave happier with life and with others .. . Even so, "Long live the April 25!"

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 9)

2008-12-26T15:33:00.000-08:00

Well ... Things have calmed down day by day, with my father to drop by land intend to take me to the doctor for me to "cure" my illness ... My mother started internally to "swallow" little by little the idea ... It is this apparent calm that comes with my beautiful new data for this story, trying to push me to tell my parents right away that he was there, and also pressing me to stop making regular family visits, being doing to let it "normally" in a corner ... For me it was obvious that was not what was happening, I wanted to tell anything much to my parents, but I thought that this process needs time and calm ... I refuse to count, and reduce my visits to the land, not to leave the beautiful so often alone and let him think that was by the side of ... But even so beautiful I wanted more, wanted me to the accounts to avoid having to "hide in the closet" ... On the one hand I understand his insecurity and his feeling, but I decided to take things as I thought it should be done ... But the increasing pressure cute ...

Girls, we and & sex

2008-12-18T14:35:00.000-08:00

Although little talked about sex in this blog, and after all sex is no shadow of doubt one of the key components for a healthy relationship from continuing ... I always thought that we men in general are more sexual beings that women ... The sex, positions, innovation, freedom, demand, the exploitation is much sought by us that they ... Venture to say that most women do not completely satisfy your partner! But strange, because it is actually a most unusual woman complains of not taking full advantage of the sexual act instead of man ... So as we are? We like them and claim that we are not capable? I do not know how, because the few relationships with women who had not reached that point, but it seems to me that men are afraid of is completely free with your partner ... They did it with the lovers, the whores, prostitutes, but with their women do not or are likely to ask it, or respect, or ashamed ... In many of these cases means that many men seek other men, as it is known that we in our hearts we are one "crazy Ganda" (over them) ... Some evidence and do not want something else and take, others do not want to become something else but will not take and thus deceiving their partner, and few are those who do not like and continue with their normal heterosexual relationship ... Never were your friends with some who say "suck your dick? What horror, I do not think I can do that!!!". But this kind of statement to get across a hot guy, because the oral sex practices that is perhaps most pleased to man ... Obviously I am speaking in general, in regulation, surely there will be exceptions that confirm this rule ... Even I at certain times, before I assume, thought I was just looking for men to find a woman that I never would satisfy the sexual level (no longer think it ...), and that the alternative would be to find the "Ganda crazy" ... I do not know if I did understand .. I hope so ...

Love changes people ...

2008-12-18T14:15:00.000-08:00

Today is the day of Easter and here I am to write an article, with a beautiful day out there and with so many things to do outside those four walls ... But the truth is that this year, and perhaps for the first time in my life I decided to stay away from celebrations, the friends and family to stay with the person I love ... Some of you think: "There is more than the requirement ...", as if the fact of loving someone forces us to something ... But no, being gay limits some things in our lives, at least temporarily ... At this time I decided to tell family he was gay, and more recently, he had a "beautiful" only mine, on that day, also made a commitment to myself to leave the background for some things that I thought until then do not change ever, as For example, for being with friends and family on special occasions (like Easter ...) was always in the forefront, not only because they like but also because sometimes it was difficult to justify my absence ... And so today, the first time I am here alone because my beautiful had to go to work ... But sleep late and boyfriends (lunch break) and we have lunch by the sea ... Anyway nothing special but it becomes evident to me because it is a different side that I did not know ... Love gives us back the head, more than I ever imagined ... There are values that we should not abandon such as the love of family and by our true friends, and they hope never to lose ... The Love for "beautiful" is all this love that I feel the other person in a meeting ... Being with him I am well myself, and being good to myself I am well with others ... Not hard to understand? I think it's the love ...

HIV

2008-12-18T14:05:00.000-08:00

Well, contrary to the idea that there is widespread in Portugal and other countries, AIDS is there and now with more focus on heterosexuals, at least in Portugal ... It showed what a study done and released a few days ago ... Here an excerpt of the article in PortugalGay.pt and leave a warning: "Condoms They exists for something! Use it!!!" "... According to the National Plan to Combat AIDS, one in every two new infections with HIV occur in sexual intercourse between man and woman, reason for the committee to focus mainly on information Portuguese. In this regard, Melica - Silvestre has already announced it will begin an investigation to one thousand Portuguese, from north to south of the country to know what in fact know about HIV / AIDS. "It is unacceptable that there are people who think that AIDS is transmitted in a handshake" , Said. The survey findings, opinions, attitudes and behaviors related to AIDS since April 2004 "will still enjoy the events Rock In Rio and Euro 2004 to disseminate information about the disease ...." in http://portugalgay.pt/news/index.asp?uid=020404B

Love or need? ...

2008-12-18T13:57:00.000-08:00

There are already some time ago, someone my friend told me about her boyfriend: "Sometimes I have doubts, that if he loves me or if he needs from me ...". At the time gave no great importance to the issue, but then, and reflection, also has really happened to me to have this question (though not called this way) and I believe also that many people have thought the same ... When we have someone on our side that one or other reason (no matter ...) is more fragile, less secure, more dependent and therefore is "glue" to us as if we needed to breathe, let us fine with us and even with our ego up there, but there is the other side of the coin, which is that we think that maybe who's on our side, sometimes confuse the need to have cuffs at his side with the person you love is at your side ... Do not believe? ...

SOLUTION: surrogate motherhood! It is?!...

2008-12-18T13:53:00.000-08:00

Well, when comment with my friends and they asked us if we ever have a son, obviously my answer is "YES!". However, to take me as gay and start to the current relationship was dreams that I had to close in my head ... I say "terminated" because you never know the morrow, and not enjeitado the possibility of one day going to have a child ... Some of my friends say "I thought one of bellied rental ?"... Of course, already thought, it is clear that I - who always wanted to have a child - already thought about all the possibilities, and one of them was this ... But then, and reflecting on it, I think the idea (in addition to much controversy) very difficult and morally very hard to accept ... It seems that abroad there are many who are "offers" for this type of service, but I am not going with that in my mind...

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 8)

2008-12-18T13:47:00.000-08:00

But my cousin helped me this task, because my availability in the short term was very little to tell to my godmother ... And behold, my phone rings ... On display appeared "Godmother" ... Well, then served with jumps to the heart: "Hello godmother !"... She said .. The voice seemed very natural to me ... Invited me to go home to dinner, but I said 'Godmother, will not, it is difficult to go there ...". She, instead of understanding that the reason was my limited mobility, it (or wanted to believe) that in fact the complex was due to go new situation that emerged ... She said: "My son, do not want to leave the house to come ... We are here to support you ... You have to understand the reaction of your parents." How should imagine I was very happy and relieved and mark a lunch! ... Then enter my lindo ("lindo" is the name i call to my boyfriend, in english it means "beautifull")...

With girlfriend or wife, everything is easier ...

2008-12-18T13:42:00.000-08:00

Do not believe? Ehehehe ... I do not think, but we have found ... After all, there will be the best way to hide homosexuality than get a girlfriend? Everything is so easy ... We can look at them, because nobody will think that I am looking for a guy with any other intention ... And we agree with the company, not run the risk of being at some time singled out as gay ... But then, the alleged girlfriends, guy, starting to feel a weight on his head ... Increasing ...

Parents tell: YES or NO? (Part 7)

2008-12-16T16:58:00.000-08:00

True, the events that followed the day they decided to tell my parents, the vast majority were a pleasant surprise for me ... The truth is that my mother and my father were destroçados with novelty, and pleaded to me that they had never passed such a thing by the head, including my brother, who unlike what I expected, also never had this last chance the head ... Then came the attempts of me "cure" the disease and others to understand and accept this new reality ... My father who was tried at all costs change me, so it turned to my cousin (who did not even knew I had already counted them), with a voice that passed distress, saying she talk to me and make me change of ideas because they were not endure more ... My cousin, scared, called me immediately to find out what had really passed ... Counted ... Mark a lunch for him the transmit promenores ... Lunch ... It was the moment to say a few more people in the family, at least, my Mom can have someone to trust, with whom he could unburden and comment on the matter ... I was forced, before he had planned, tell my godmother, my sister's Mãe. .. E. .. (Continued)

Does anything change even ?!...

2008-12-16T16:53:00.000-08:00

I do not know if already happened to you, but I from time to time arise me doubt in my mind about the words that (a) friend (a) to know that I was gay told me 'Dude, you keep for me be the same as you were before ...". I appreciate the sympathy and currently believe, because we believe it is anyway ... But then, over time, and more in relation to friends (and not so much with friends), by either attitude, real or created in our head, my head goes by that people were saying that my friend and I said that nothing would change in our relationship, after all no longer see me the same way ... And if so, how I see now? Imagine me at home dressed like a travesti, with his wrists broken, the screams made bicharoca crazy? Or that maybe, for years now, after all he went to throw to me? Or maybe imagine how it will be in bed in the room with another guy, as you can have pleasure ... I do not know what they think and even come to believe something, but I believe that is confusing to some people ... I in my case, immediately tried by my friends feel free to ask what they were to head ... I do not know ...